Complaint Review: Asian Date - New York New York

After going through a painful divorce more than 3 years ago I thought that the exciting format of AsianBeauties or AsianDate would provide me with salvation from my lonely life and would restore my faith in marraige again, but soon I found irregularities that I should have taken seriously much sooner!

The site is not only expensive but you are charged based upon credits you buy and are charged so 10 credits to read a letter, 10 credits to write a letter, 10 credits to reply to a letter, so many credits per minute to chat live, even more credits per minute to view a live cam of the girl you're talking to. It becomes outrageous quickly so their line of bull must be convincing! They know how to appeal to a man's bruised ego! They know how to manipulate you. The bway they write letters, their frivolous compliments like "how does it feel to be the most popular man on the site" or "will you marry me if I give you 50 million dollars" or " my sister and I would like to share the same man. Are you interested" soon you begin to get their drift.

I made the mistake of believing a girl who told me her life story and then told me in Chinese she loved me "wo ai nie" she said she thought of me as her husband and wanted me to move to China to live with her. I flew there in December of 2014 into Shanghai. We were supposed to spend 3 weeks together. Yet, when I saw her at the airport I knew by the expression on her face something was wrong! It was as though the person who had been writing me and had been chatting with me was not only the girl I met at the airport, but she had no idea what the writers had been telling me. Little did I realize at the time since I was so shocked that they have 3 distinct departments, the letter writers, the chat personnel, and the model photos on the profiles.

The girl in Shanghai could only spend 3 nights with me and that was because I begged her to stay with me until I could arrange a flight back costing me $1000.00 for changing my reservation. We did not even sleep together. She requested a separate bed in Chinese when we checked into Tong Mau Hotel and my 3 nights in Shanghai were spent in anguish and confusion. I really feel not only hurt but very foolish. I did not know that a supposedly professional firm could so ruthlessly decieve their clientele!

My latest bungling attempt happened in January of 2017 when I bought credits for a woman who wrote me more than a thousand letters constantly telling me of her desire for me, her loneliness, and her desire to share her life with me. So, I bought credits and arranged a phone call which is also costly as hell! When I spoke with her it was as though the person writing me and the person speaking to me over the phone were two different people and completely opposite in their feelings it amazed me! I got my credit card company to reverse the charges, but this has been a pattern. I had paid for phone calls with 4 other women each call costing me at least 140 credits, after buying credits to chat and write letters to these women who had written to me more than a thousand times! The pattern repeats itself over and over again!

I had 2 women promise me they were going to fly to me and could I pick them up from the airport! Each time they came up with a last minute excuse. "My father had a heart attack"  "My face broke out in a rash" or " I had 5 tumors removed from my chest" it is not funny but it must be hilarious to these people that they can get away with these lies and make so much money at it! When I informed their customer service about this and that just 3 days after telling me her Dad had a heart attack she was back online again fliritng and asking me if I would bring her a towel if she was in the shower. Is this how a woman would react if her Daddy just had a heart attack? Hell no! Customer service's reply, " we cannot control the woman's response if she changes her mind." What a crock of sh**!

With thousands of complaints about this site at several other sites why hasn't a class action law suit been enacted? How does a unscupulous company like this who advertises all over the internet get away with doing this to so many men? I can't understand this! I have spent more than ten thousand dollars on this site over 3 years like a fool hoping against all hope that I would find at least one honest and real woman, but time and time again I found myself frustrated and humiliated again and again!

Their customer service is a piece of work. Their people are trained to evade the issues and contantly make excuses for the lying actions of the fake profiles instead of even attempting to understand the obvious deception taking place. I told one representative that women were telling me they wanted to fly to my airport when I had not told them which airport was closest to me so I worried about them being stranded. Their first resaction was that they were grown women responsible for their own actions then when I pressed harder they replied then I shouldn't communicate with them anymore! Shouldn't their response have been to get the name of the profile and ban them from the site for lying to the customers and costing them money by scamming them? Nope! They don't give a d**n! This goes to show they know these women are lying, writing fake letters, and probably getting paid to do it too! They claim to have an anti scam policy! What a joke! Let's just call it PLAUSIBLE DENIAL!

These issues I have described to you are just the tip of the iceberg! I could go into much deeper detail. Asiandate is like a black hole that sucks in your money, insults your intelligence, and provides nothing but an illusion! They should be criminally charged for perpetrating a massive fraudulent enterprise! In America, these owners would be jailed and fined!

Sincelrely,

Doc