Complaint Review: asiandate - Internet

Here is my personnal story with www.asiandate.com...

In December 2015 i have discovered that dating site where, at the beginning i wasn't about to subscribe to...I started to receive a lot of letters and got particularly interested by one of the members sending...

After a while seeing that this girl seemed to be really interested on me  by keeping on sending me letters almost everyday, i have decided to subscribe to answer her...The site is very expansive for any type of communication but i was so excited to have a chance to find my soulmate that i passed over that problem...we have exchanged letters for about a month when she tells me that she is going to come over in my country to meet me. But finally she built up some excuses and didn't come. She has sent me quiet a few pictures but the pictures did not absolutely looked like it was her on them It could of been her on some of them, some others where looking like they where over photoshoped and i also have received some where it was easy to tell it wasn't her!!!.

After seeing all those pictures and the fact she finally didn't come like she said, i became suspicious but i have decided to keep on playing the game to see how far this would go...

We kept on talking for a while but i could not hide the fact i was suspicious and when she realised i was, she just stopped sending me letters or answering the ones i was sending...

Anyways i kept on talking to her sometimes through the chat where she kept on showing some false interest towards me. After having spent over 500$ on that site i realised it would be better to buy myself a plane ticket

and go to China to find myself a girlfriend. During the preparation of my trip i kept on talking to her sometimes and to put a maximum chances on my side i also started talking to some other girls

from around the place i was about to go to try to find the first one. I knew there was only one on a million chances i could actually find her but i decided to take it at least if i could find the girl to have a little talk with her, have some explanations and try to understand how this business really works...

The girl was supposed to be living in Suzhou wich is about 90 km away from shanghai (half an hour by speed train) so i started talking to one girl from Shanghai, another one also from Suzhou and one from some far away place from Shanghai called Hengyang...

A few days before my take off i have received a letter from the girl saying that when i come to China she would be my guide...Once in Shanghai i decided to try to see the one who was living around and tryied to reach her on the site to tell her i was around. Then i realised the site was not accessible from China...

Chinese government imposes restrictions about internet and a lot of sites are unreachable from there (Facebook, Google, Twitter, Youtube,....) unless you are in Hong Kong wich is apparently the only place in China where there are no restrictions, probably due to the fact that place has been for a while some English colonised place...So i got myself a vpn (it's a programm allowing you to change your ip and makes you able to reach the sites you are not supposed to in China) and got onto the site

The girl was unsure about meeting me because each time i spoke to her i was always on a rush as she said, wich is true due to the amount to pay only for talking a few minutes and i prefered to keep my money

to spend on real meetings...Finally i didn't have enough time to stay anymore in Shanghai and had to move to Suzhou where i wanted to find the principal reason of my coming, (her name is Sophia).

Once arrived in Suzhou i spoke to Sophia to tell her i was around and asked her if she still wanted to meet...She said yes but i am on a business trip

(oh come on first you say when i come to China you will be my guide and you know when i was coming but finally you are not there...). So i told her i am here until the 21 march, here is my adress (postal adress are supposed to go through with letters and i could verify it because i got a rendez vous point with another girl wich i will explain later).

Finally Sophia never showed up and i have left Suzhou a little bit sad because the mission was a failure...

I knew there was a very strong possibility that things would of happened that way but the one who doesn't try doesn't get and anyways i knew this trip would bring me a lot of other good things

so finally there is no loss, only gain when you look at it in a positive way....Like i said earlier to put the maximum chances on my side i have been talking to other girls and there is also one from Hengyang (wich is about 1200km away from Suzhou)

I could speak to that one from Hengyang and could arrange a meeting with her in her city. She seemed very excited to meet me. She gave me the name of a place to meet (in Chinese) and a time also...

A day before the meeting date i took the train to Hengyang (21 hours of train, i had to take a bed otherwise it must be hard, lol) and got on time to my meeting...where the girls DOES! show up but...

The first thing is that she absolutelu doesn't look like on the pictures, she was so beautifull on them and i am in front of a girl wich is not so bad looking but more fat and has a pretty round face.

I could analyse that it was maybe the girl on the pictures but with a lot of work through photoshop because i could find a little comparison spot on one of her tooth that seemed to be the same.

Another thing when we took arrangements for the meeting she tells me: I think we must take a translator for the first time otherwise its going to be hard for us to communicate. I agreed but later i went back on my thought because i remembered i had a translator on my cell phone wich is not accurate but still it would do with a lot of fun between the mistakes. So the next day i went back to her saying that it would not be absolutely needed. Then she tells me well i already have made arrangements with her...oh ok let's do it that way then...When i met her there was the translator wich was also a girl and apparently was one of her classmates. There was also a third girl that had no reason to be there but was...The girl i was meeting looked like she did not really care about me and i have spent more time speaking with the translator than herself!

We went to an expansive restaurant where she commanded a lot of food for all of us and made me pay an expansive bill!!!The translator gave me the impression of working for the site because she was using specific words also used on the site. She was also not translating everything i was saying and when i asked questions about the site and why the girl was not looking like on the pictures she sometimes did not answer the questions and she said: we chinese girls like to transform pictures to make ourselves look more pretty (well then this is not reality then and most of people would not do like me and keep on going but runaway as he sees the girl is not the real one!!!)

At the end of the meeting i could really see this was just a scam because the girl did not show any interest like she was on the site and at the time to say goodbye

i decided to force a hug to see her reaction and i could see she was almost disgusted (and i can tell you i am a very attractive western man!) but she gave me her qq number (it's a chinese kind of messenger).

Probably to play the game a bit and the first evening she has sent me a message but it quickly turned out this way: I was sending messages and she was barely answering,

so i got upset and told her like we say in french her 4 truth (to say all the truth about you) and then she said oh i'm sorry but i don't always have time to answer on this i hope you can understand...

oh yeah bad excuse i'm sorry but when you are interested into someone even only for friendship at least you find a few minutes to answer...

Finally i got back to my home country and a few days later she just erased me from her friendlist...I guess this little story shows how much asiandate is a SCAM,

i was supposed to meet three girls, i lost time for one, the second was a player and a liar and didn't show up, and the last one even if showed up was just there to take my money and have a good meal offered by me for her and her friends. I cannot make sure the translator was part of asiandate but i have the feeling that she might be working for them. Anyways this is a proof that at least some of the profiles (if not all of them) are fakes, wrong pictures and girls lying to you in order to get your money!!! Something else very important i have to say is when i was still in my country before the trip, when i realised all this was probably just scamming i got upset on the site and i have tryied to know more about them and wanted to have some sort of revenge so with the ip (if not fake) i could understand that the site is based either in Hong Kong because it's the only place where it is itself reachable in China, either in Malaysia because that is what the IP was saying

for a while i was so upset that i have decided to lauch a multiple DDos attack against them and guess what happened? a few minutes after the attack some hacker from malaysia got onto my mailbox (hotmail told me themselves the attempt was coming from malaysia (weird isn't it?)) and to hack a mailbox it takes at least 5 to 10 minutes so i am sure the cookies from the sites gives them all informations about you and what you type!!! The hacker probably wanted to see if the attack was coming from one of their own members upset by their scamming!

In this story there are a lot of precisions missing but it would take ages if i would put all of the story on so i kind of compressed and put the most important things about it.

Anyways, thank you for reading and eventually possible support...We must stop this business, So many men have lost a lot of money, so many hearts where played with and got sometimes broken, only for some bastards with no heart, no conscious, no principles to drive around in a porshe and probably f**k some hookers with the money!!!

Don't you think it's time to stop this? I would be happy and gratefull if some members of Anonymous could read this letter and decide to launch massive attacks around their firewalls to turn down forever their f**king servers. That is the thing to do...

There is no court that will stop them and even if there was one, they have enough money to pay and start it again, we must discourage them by showing 1°) they have lost all credibility and the whole world knows about them and what they are doing

2°) take their servers down for good. There are plenty of ways for making money without rubbing poor heart-broken and lonely people with at the same time destroying their hope. Have you ever thought some might have suicided by having been lyied by some girl they where

hoping so much onto? What they do is criminal acting of the worst kind.

The only advice i can give is if you feel attracted by Chinese or any other type of oriental ladies, learn chinese or whatever their language is, get yourself a plane ticket and fly there to find your soulmate! or at least go to some other site, there are other sites where ladies speak english and if not we have translators that can help and even if not accurate enough you will both have a good time laughing while you learn out of each other!!!

I apologise for any mistakes made in the letter but english is not my first language...