Complaint Review: chnlove.com - Internet

I consider myself to have a considerate amount of experience with Chnlove.com, and let me tell you... the site has changed.  In 2009, I met a lady on the site.  There was no nonsense. The day after we met, she gave me her email address, we then exchanged QQ addresses, and talked on webcam right away.  We did so for 11 months, and eventually were married.  Happily married for 5 years, until unfortunately we divorced due to unrelated issues.  Since I was so successful, I decided to try it again.

Back then, The site "chnlove" was different.  I trusted the site mainly because it had a "mens forum" where us men could chat or leave messages to each other so we could share our experiences, and learn about these ladies.  And as I said, My lady was allowed to give me her email address immediately upon her own discretion.

Today, There is no "mens forum".  And the ladies are not allowed to share information, because if they try to, or if you try to, they edit your conversation so you cannot see the information.  The site has become very suspicious to say the least.

This is what has happened now...

I recently met a lady named "Vicky" Profile #P272064. A very cute lady in her 30's.  I wrote to her, and I "chatted" with her, for quite some time. One day, she asked me if I would talk to her father. Reluctantly, I did as I really liked her. I spoke with him for about an hour.  On Chnlove's call line, its about $4.50 a minute.  Not cheap!  Next, she wanted me to talk to her mother.  Again, reluctantly, I did, for about an hour.  These calls were about $300.00 each.  When I called to talk to her mother, "Vicky" answered, handed the phone to her mother, then, when finished, I spoke to "Vicky" again, and then "chatted" with her online, which still costs money.  

Not a Week later, I got online to chat with her, and she said her mother wants to talk with me.  When I told her I already did, she wrote that I did not, and must have called some other lady's mother... Then, as she was flustered, she started accusing me of other things, to change the subject, and try to make ME look like the bad one.  Later, she came back and tried to say that her mother wanted to "speak to me again"... it was a "mistake"... Then why did she accuse me of talking to another lady's mother.

Anyway... When I brought this up with Chnlove's management... They blew me off.  I just spent about $3000.00 trying to get to know this lady, and was scammed, and Chnlove ignored me.  So, I called my credit card company, and told them the charges to chnlove was to be removed because of fraud.  They did.  However, Chnlove sent them letters between me an "vicky", that were loving in nature, but not the part where she claimed I never called her mother.  They lied to my credit card company, and got the charges reversed again.

Chnlove said they would give me "credits" if I reversed the charges back, but I wouldn't because I got scammed, and since they didn't want to do anything about it, I took matters into my own hands.  They then promised me credits, but later gave me NONE.  They lied to me.

Now, after arguing with them for 4 months, they finally gave me the credits they initially promised me, but nothing for the stress and harassment THEY put me through.  BUT NOW, they are harassing me.   You see, They don't want me on the site, so even though they gave me the credits they Owed me, they are now blocking my profile so ladies cannot write to me first.  They are tampering with my site to make it difficult for me, even though I am a paying customer.  Ladies now look at my profile and it not only says "I don't accept first admirer mail from ladies" but it blocks them from sending to me. 

SO, the moral of this story is... They don't care!! And if you complain, they willl tamper with your profile, and harass you..   Yes... Chnlove USED to be an ok site, but now, its been destroyed by their management. Oh, and ... Who was it that I spoke to the phone really?