Complaint Review: Fling - Internet

I agree that most of these adult sites...mainly aff, alt, fling etc are rip offs and they should practice better business but they don't and I am starting to believe after almost 2 years on alt, that they dont care. But I am on aff and on alt and I am real and looking for real meets. I tell people what I am looking for on my profile but I rarely get guys who fit what I am looking for that write me. So I dont respond no matter how sweet and nice they seem. The fact is they arent what I am looking for and I stated it in my profile I dont want to waste time reading and responding to them all because if I did I would never get anything done lol. So take it easy some of the woman may not like you or you may not be there type... relax it happens. But also the other half are probably fake or dont go on there anymore.

I'm amazed. I was a member of Adult Friend Finder off and on for about 7-8 years. I responded to well over 100 ads and received only one legitimate response. Most of the replies were from porno sites and escort services. When I found out my company wanted to transfer me to another state I began to check profiles there. What I found was interesting. I found a lot of profiles which matched many of the profiles in my own state almost word for word. In addition, I found a few of the same pictures on profiles. You're going to have a hard time convincing me you've met a lot of people on AFF.

I feel bad that the authour of this report has felt cheated by adult personal sites, but his conclusion that the whole lot are bad and exist only to rip off the weak and stupid are NOT just or correct. I have been a member of several of these sites including Adult Friend Finder, ALT, American Singles and have had great success in meeting people who are real, genuine and often impressive individuals. The authors comments that all the women are fake, or prefessionals looking for money just is not true. I have know many people who have "hooked up" on these sites, have been satisfied with the results and in many cases have gone on to have long term relationships and even marriage with the people they met. In fairness to the author, there are many users looking to make a buck. These types are easy to spot after a few emails. There are cyber hookers posing as average ladies looking for customers or average girls looking for sugar dadies. There are many fakes (ie guys pretending to be girls), looking for I think a collection of XXX photos or living out some demented fantasy. However, in most cases I have seen this is NOT the evil plan of the website, but instead the clever manipulation of unethical users. It is very hard for the adult websites to weed these people out BUT they do so. they block access to users who violate the stated rules (such as those who give out their personal web addresses rather than contact through the site) or they block the accounts of users who are doing bulk/ spam mailings. In summary, some folks do not find what they want with these sites and may feel that they have wasted money. but to claim they are cheated or have be defrauded. well they ain't the case for many happy users! I ahve no affiliation with any of these sites. I am simply a very happy user!

When I first signed up f/fling.com, I went and checked out a few friendly faces, then shut down and went to bed. Next day I check my emails and there are 3 or 4 messages from members of fling.com asking to put me in their blackbook or otherwise contact me. I hit the links to check this out and ALL messages lead me to the sign-up, i.e. PAY page. I'm not ready to give these guys money until I have some reason to believe these aren't just plants, or hired models or straight-up fake messages to me to get me to part with my money. Any opinions/stories?