Complaint Review: Phil Haberman - Sarasota Florida

Apparently, Haberman was testing his Narc skills on a woman in 2010. While being married to wife #2, he was trying to get "P" to believe him. He professed his undying love to her in several emails. Haberman's "feelings" were hurt that "P" won't talk to him. How she's an absolutely incredible woman, Haberman states he has honestly never met anyone like her, how he's happy to have her in his life, even though he wanted to be more than friends. In whatever capacity. Haberman's upset she wont give him the time of day and "it's not fair". 

"P" was smart, told him not to contact her, but Haberman was calling and texting her almost 300 times. He was hiding in her back yard, constantly showing up at her work, following her and using third-party people to get him near her. A rouse of jobs and assistance to her to help repair her vehicle. Anything to get near her.

"P" filed for a restraining order, but couldn't serve him, so the case went away.

In the email to "P", Haberman tells grand tales about his ex-wife in order to turn this woman to his pleas. At that time the ex-wife has some defamation/libel/slander type of case to file against Haberman, and just how far he believes the ex was out to get him... (really?) He better have some evidence of these false statements.

He tells a woeful sad story about his first fiance Diana from Colorado, who apparently had cancer and died. She did not. Her family intervened in the relationship to protect her and her wealth. Seems Haberman is attracted to women of wealth and/or fame.

He tells  "P" about a friend of his, Pam (wife #2) who will tell her that he's a great guy. He braggs excessively about his financial success and his worth and possessions. Typical Narc.

He actually looks into "P's" OBGYN history, contacts her physician and tells her what to do if she were pregnant. He continues with how he "doesn't mind that  she has scars, tattoos, a modeling career, surgeries, vaneers, lipo, or any of that stuff." He doesn't care that she was previously married or was pregnant. Notice the use of the words HE DOESN'T MIND.

Haberman's now married to wife #3 (or is it #4?) and she wholeheartedly believes him, to the point they're both being sued by the ex-wife. Haberman falsified police reports and affidavits in an attempt to have the ex-wife arrested multiple times for SPEAKING about him, referring about him in emails, and failure to remove internet content that isn't hers, including all the Rip Off Report stories.

Haberman is now "working" at The National Parachute Testing Center in Florida. He posts his pictures with full military gear, but blacked out the patch he wears. He is employed as a rigger and his posts state "he can't believe he gets paid to do this". How he actually convinced the CEO and staff of his credentials must be a whopping story. Perhaps he told them of his Airborn certification? Basic jump school after failing 3 times. Perhaps he told them of his skills loading pallets? How about his brief stint at Ft. Lee, VA as a parachutist? Or that he took several courses...That must be the story that convinced him he is skilled.  Just like his illustrious scuba skills...Someone recently contacted the NPTC about Haberman, but they won't listen. It just takes one mistake packing the parachutes of people to see their lack of error on the side of caution.

Narcs will convince just about anybody who will listen to them. Just how he convinced his wife's family of who he is, is beyond my imagination. They seem intelligent, have business skills and military family members, but why do they believe Haberman's tall tales?