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Complaint Review: Raymond Ricardo Ruys aka Raymond Ricardo Ruijs - Santa Rosa California
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Raymond Ricardo Ruys aka Raymond Ricardo Ruijs
Horn Ave. Santa Rosa, California, U.S.A.
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Raymond Ricardo Ruys aka Raymond Ricardo Ruijs dead beat dad, drunk and an abusive man, only cares about himself Dead Beat Dad Santa Rosa California
Raymond and I have 2 children together. When we were married he was abusive and I finally had him removed by the sherriff.
After that we decided to remain friends for the kids sake. He said he would pay the rent and continue helping out. After about 3 months, the landlord came to me and told me that he hadn't been paying the rent but said that he would make up all arrears if the landlord would kick me out.I was able to get the rent taken care of, and stayed there for another year.
Since then, he has been court ordered to pay $485.00 a month, which I haven't seen a penny of, that was 2 1/2 years ago.
Two summers ago I let the kids stay with him for a month while I was relocating, when I went to get my kids he wouldn't give them and I had to go to court to get a restraining order against him just to get them back. When he showed up for the hearing we could smell the tequila on him from the next table.I was granted a 3 year restraing order.
I moved up to WA last year, since I couldn't afford to stay in California. We came to Washington because my boyfriend is a commercial fisherman and there is alot of work up here.
I have told Raymond that if he wants to see the kids he needs to send me $200.00 for me to bring them down, and the same for me to get them back, unless he wants to come and get them himself. This is while there is a restraining order in effect!!
He told them that he would get them last summer, and never even called again! I finally called him in December and asked him why he didn't send his son a birthday present, he said to me and them that he would send birthday presents and christmas gifts. He never did.
When I called in January asking him why he didn't he said he did but they got returned- I live in a town with a 2000 population, and the post office dosent send stuff back if you are a po box holder and something was sent to you with an incorrect po box #. They will put a note in your box informing you of it.
Also he was able to send our daughter a gift in May with no problems.
He said he would send it again if I would give him my physical address, but unless I gave him that he wouldn't send it.
He has told the kids that he does pay child support but that since I moved out of the state that it keeps getting sent back to him- that it is too far to send money, its against the law, but if I move back then he would be allowed to give money again.
He is a drunk and an abusive man, I don't care if I never hear from him again, and only ask that he give up parental rights or start acting like a parent, emotionally as well as financially.
bernadette
Westport, Washington
After that we decided to remain friends for the kids sake. He said he would pay the rent and continue helping out. After about 3 months, the landlord came to me and told me that he hadn't been paying the rent but said that he would make up all arrears if the landlord would kick me out.I was able to get the rent taken care of, and stayed there for another year.
Since then, he has been court ordered to pay $485.00 a month, which I haven't seen a penny of, that was 2 1/2 years ago.
Two summers ago I let the kids stay with him for a month while I was relocating, when I went to get my kids he wouldn't give them and I had to go to court to get a restraining order against him just to get them back. When he showed up for the hearing we could smell the tequila on him from the next table.I was granted a 3 year restraing order.
I moved up to WA last year, since I couldn't afford to stay in California. We came to Washington because my boyfriend is a commercial fisherman and there is alot of work up here.
I have told Raymond that if he wants to see the kids he needs to send me $200.00 for me to bring them down, and the same for me to get them back, unless he wants to come and get them himself. This is while there is a restraining order in effect!!
He told them that he would get them last summer, and never even called again! I finally called him in December and asked him why he didn't send his son a birthday present, he said to me and them that he would send birthday presents and christmas gifts. He never did.
When I called in January asking him why he didn't he said he did but they got returned- I live in a town with a 2000 population, and the post office dosent send stuff back if you are a po box holder and something was sent to you with an incorrect po box #. They will put a note in your box informing you of it.
Also he was able to send our daughter a gift in May with no problems.
He said he would send it again if I would give him my physical address, but unless I gave him that he wouldn't send it.
He has told the kids that he does pay child support but that since I moved out of the state that it keeps getting sent back to him- that it is too far to send money, its against the law, but if I move back then he would be allowed to give money again.
He is a drunk and an abusive man, I don't care if I never hear from him again, and only ask that he give up parental rights or start acting like a parent, emotionally as well as financially.
bernadette
Westport, Washington
3 Updates & Rebuttals
Annonomous
bakersfield,California,
United States
Shes 100% right
#2General Comment
Sun, August 27, 2023
He is everything she has said. I am HIS blood and when an abusive pos goes through life pretending to be a good person and being treated with respect it wears on all those he has hurt. Not sure why bad people get away with being lowlife andabusive AND get praised by lying their way out, but everythingin this report about his charecter is true!
D K
Jacksonville,Florida,
U.S.A.
To the OP
#3Consumer Suggestion
Fri, February 20, 2009
Why on earth would you come to a site like this and wash your dirty laundry? What if your kids were to read this? Please keep things like this to yourself, it just makes you look bad. I am sorry for whatever either of you went through, but a place like this is not the place to talk about it. These reports stay on the internet forever. Think of your kids before you do something like this again, please.
Raymond
Petaluma,California,
U.S.A.
I have paid OFF my Child support nearly 40,000 dollars.
#4REBUTTAL Individual responds
Fri, February 20, 2009
I was defamed and Misrepresented, by this report, which is false. I at the time, was not even allowed to see my Children. The author of this immature report took them without my permission or knowledge to Washington state. I have now paid off ALL MY SUPPORT OBLIGATION (NEARLY FORTY THOUSAND DOLLARS), and have had to file for arrears, since the "said Author" now has refused to pay HER child support. She has been sued and has had her wages garnished. I'm a upstanding citizen who has most probably been losing income due to this false allogation. I do not drink and have been in a successful loving relationship now for almost ten years. I also have won physical custody of our Son, which is who She owes support for. This report was done out of malice and spite, and has done damage that I feel cannot be repaired.
