Jennifer
32244,#2Author of original report
Thu, July 07, 2011
Barbara,
I never heard anything from my attorney about someone contacting him about certain events that unfolded in Ohio. Delia doesn't remember anyone or anything. She has already stated that she is not interested in forming a relationship with relatives where the court severed all ties including Bridgett, Cathleen and other siblings. Delia may change her mind later on down the road. Allison said she might try to contact the girls when they reach the age of majority.
I have read some more court documents regarding what allegedly happened to Cathleen. I never cared for Chris, but I have to say it looks like the court did a sloppy job handling the case. It looks like you, Cathleen and her foster mom, Russell, other people and some agencies have your hands full. Concentrate on the girls. Hopefully you can get through the tough ordeals that are a head of you.
Allison and Delia are doing very well in life. My husband and I agreed that it's in their best interest not tell them about incidents that may or may not have occurred in Ohio. From time-to-time I keep tabs on you, the girls, Russell and other people, so if Delia wants to contact you all... she has the information. I'm only doing this until she turns 18 years old and after that she is on her own.
Please tell Bridgett and Cathleen to help you out and not to give you any problems. I love and miss those precious baby girls so much! I know things have got to be tough, but hang in there.
Jennifer
Jennifer
32244,#3Author of original report
Thu, June 16, 2011
If I read documents correctly Russell didn't protect those precious babies. I just checked with ODRC and they are reporting that Christopher Deeter is located at Northern Central Correctional Institution. You know that saying about Karma?! Well, Karma can be a bigger "B" than they think! Hopefully the inmates turn Christopher into Crissy! Have you considered relocating with the girls...like several states away? I am well beyond ticked off! It doesn't surprise me that Russell is not cooperating with the agencies that are involved with the girls case. If any of my kids came up to me and said what I read about. You can best believe that I would be on the phone with the sheriff's office while I try to kick someone asleep! Keep those kids away from the Deeter family and anyone who is friends with them! It looks like they are going to stick up for Christopher no matter what happens.
Spiritdove
dayton,#4General Comment
Tue, June 14, 2011
DEAR JENNIFER;
GLAD DEE GOT HER WISH TO BE RID OF RUSSELLS LAST NAME. AND AT SHE IS HAPPY. I WOULD OF BEEN IN TOUCH SOONER. BUT MY LIFE HAS BEEN A TRAIN WRECK. I NOW HAVE SOLE CUSTODY OF BOTH GIRLS. AND RUSSELL CAN ONLY SEE THEM WITH SOMEONE THERE. PLUS TIM MY HUSBAND PASSED FROM CANCER LAST YEAR. AND SOMETHING HAPPEN TO CATHLEEN WHICH I LIKE TO CHAT WITH YOU ABOUT BUT NOT ON HERE. IT'S SOMETHING YOU NEED TO KNOW FOR THE GIRLS BENFIT. AND IT ISNT GOOD. WILL MAKE YOUR STOMACH TURN.
RUSSELL IS BEHIND ON CHILD SUPPORT TO ME AND NOT WORKING. TOLD FAMILY HE DOESNT HAVE TO PAY ME. THE GIRLS ARE IN TOUCH WITH RACHEAL. WHICH IS GOOD FOR THEM. BOTH DID GOOD IN SCHOOL THRU EVERYTHING AT HAPPEN OVER THE LAST YEAR. CATHLEEN WILL BE A FRESHMEN AND BRIDGET A JUNIOR. TAKE CARE AND GLAD YOU DONT HAVE TO DEAL WITH HIM ANYMORE. I'LL SEND LETTER TO THE ATTY YOU USED. BUT I HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU. TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS.
Jennifer
32244,#5Author of original report
Tue, March 02, 2010
I am well aware of what it's like to be owed more than $16,000 in child support. I went through CSEA and paid money out-of-pocket for legal actions againt another dad beat dad. I know it's tough especially when the dead beat flat out tells you that he will not pay and laughs in your face. One of my kids from a different relationship suffered not only from the lack of child support and medical benefits, but not having the sperm donor act as a father is a big slap in the face.
My original posting may seem cry babyish to some people, but Ripoffreport.com has helped me out a lot. I was able to vent about my frustrations pertaining to my situations and received a lot of help from people. I am very thankful for the help and wanted to keep people posted about our outcome.
The dead beat fathers have to pay child support from the day the kids were born to the day of the adoption. Even though the adoption has gone through, CSEA is still enforcing the child support issue until all funds are paid.
I like to wish Well... and every body else out there with the same issues the best of luck!
Gayletara
Point Comfort,#6Consumer Comment
Tue, March 02, 2010
Although I am happy to hear this story had a good ending, and I honestly feel for you, as I am owed child support that I am not receiving, are you aware that there are mothers (and fathers) that are owed tens of thousands, HUNDREDS of thousands of dollars, and you are seriously making an issue (at first) over $1666? My ex is in arrears $16,000+...and I complain to no one. I go through the court system with him at least 3x a year, to no avail. Good luck.
Jennifer
32244,#7Author of original report
Mon, March 01, 2010
As of February 18, 2010, Delia's wish for my husband to adopt her finally came true! She no longer has the Deeter name and is very happy to have Brian as her legal dad. I wish Russell and anyone who supports him the worst of luck!
Jennifer
32244,#8
Fri, September 11, 2009
As of today no response from Russell on the adoption. He was served with paper work by the Montgomery County Sheriff's Office in early May.
Russell is behind on child support payments again this time by 3 months. My attorney is waiting on a court date from the judge. We can't wait until all ties with Russell are severed!
The Butler County Child Support Enforcement Agency is looking for Russell, so if you have information please use the contact information in my past up-dates.
Thanks,
Jennifer
Jennifer
32244,#9Author of original report
Mon, January 26, 2009
I really don't understand how people can bring children into the world and then turn their back. It's obvious Russell has a lengthy history of ignoring his own children. Something is definitely wrong up stairs. If I knew all these things about Russell over a decade ago I would never had anything to do with him. A lot of people believe that I felt sorry for Bridget and Cathleen and that's why I dated him for a short period of time. Looking back I would have to say that's accurate. Russell got too comfortable within our short relationship. A bunch of little things just got under my skin: Russell raising his voice out of frustration dealing with the kidsit was unnecessary.; Calling the kids a stubborn A double S was a popular thing that came out of his mouth; Ignoring the kids to watch television; Coming back from work or school to find the kids' diapers, Pull-Ups and clothes were soiled due to Russell's television viewing.; and the list goes on. Over time I felt like Russell was shutting down, didn't care about being a father and he seemed very depressed. About February 1998, I gave him $5, told him to pack his bags and I'll take him where ever he wants to go. That's when he showed his true colors. He called Children Services and told them he wanted to give Bridget and Cathleen up. He told me that we will never hear or see him again. I was so horrified I contacted you about getting Bridget and Cathleen. I vaguely remember the black eye incident with Cathleen. I'll look through some photos and see if I can find anything that may help jog my memory. When I told Russell to leave...the journal left with him. When Russell and the kids lived with me I did not feel that Russell was abusive, just extremely lazy. The court documents that I viewed within the past couple of years and your statements are definitely a cause for concern. Has the court mentioned anything about possibly getting a CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) worker involved? It's a great program! Usually the CASA workers will spend any where between 10 20 hours a month with the kids. It wouldn't hurt to ask to have one assigned to Bridget and Cathleen. I have a cousin in Butler County that has been working as a CASA for about 12 years. I want to say that the CASA Program is located on the 7th floor of the Montgomery County Juvenile Court. Best Wishes To All!
Jennifer
32244,#10Author of original report
Mon, January 26, 2009
I really don't understand how people can bring children into the world and then turn their back. It's obvious Russell has a lengthy history of ignoring his own children. Something is definitely wrong up stairs. If I knew all these things about Russell over a decade ago I would never had anything to do with him. A lot of people believe that I felt sorry for Bridget and Cathleen and that's why I dated him for a short period of time. Looking back I would have to say that's accurate. Russell got too comfortable within our short relationship. A bunch of little things just got under my skin: Russell raising his voice out of frustration dealing with the kidsit was unnecessary.; Calling the kids a stubborn A double S was a popular thing that came out of his mouth; Ignoring the kids to watch television; Coming back from work or school to find the kids' diapers, Pull-Ups and clothes were soiled due to Russell's television viewing.; and the list goes on. Over time I felt like Russell was shutting down, didn't care about being a father and he seemed very depressed. About February 1998, I gave him $5, told him to pack his bags and I'll take him where ever he wants to go. That's when he showed his true colors. He called Children Services and told them he wanted to give Bridget and Cathleen up. He told me that we will never hear or see him again. I was so horrified I contacted you about getting Bridget and Cathleen. I vaguely remember the black eye incident with Cathleen. I'll look through some photos and see if I can find anything that may help jog my memory. When I told Russell to leave...the journal left with him. When Russell and the kids lived with me I did not feel that Russell was abusive, just extremely lazy. The court documents that I viewed within the past couple of years and your statements are definitely a cause for concern. Has the court mentioned anything about possibly getting a CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) worker involved? It's a great program! Usually the CASA workers will spend any where between 10 20 hours a month with the kids. It wouldn't hurt to ask to have one assigned to Bridget and Cathleen. I have a cousin in Butler County that has been working as a CASA for about 12 years. I want to say that the CASA Program is located on the 7th floor of the Montgomery County Juvenile Court. Best Wishes To All!
Jennifer
32244,#11Author of original report
Mon, January 26, 2009
I really don't understand how people can bring children into the world and then turn their back. It's obvious Russell has a lengthy history of ignoring his own children. Something is definitely wrong up stairs. If I knew all these things about Russell over a decade ago I would never had anything to do with him. A lot of people believe that I felt sorry for Bridget and Cathleen and that's why I dated him for a short period of time. Looking back I would have to say that's accurate. Russell got too comfortable within our short relationship. A bunch of little things just got under my skin: Russell raising his voice out of frustration dealing with the kidsit was unnecessary.; Calling the kids a stubborn A double S was a popular thing that came out of his mouth; Ignoring the kids to watch television; Coming back from work or school to find the kids' diapers, Pull-Ups and clothes were soiled due to Russell's television viewing.; and the list goes on. Over time I felt like Russell was shutting down, didn't care about being a father and he seemed very depressed. About February 1998, I gave him $5, told him to pack his bags and I'll take him where ever he wants to go. That's when he showed his true colors. He called Children Services and told them he wanted to give Bridget and Cathleen up. He told me that we will never hear or see him again. I was so horrified I contacted you about getting Bridget and Cathleen. I vaguely remember the black eye incident with Cathleen. I'll look through some photos and see if I can find anything that may help jog my memory. When I told Russell to leave...the journal left with him. When Russell and the kids lived with me I did not feel that Russell was abusive, just extremely lazy. The court documents that I viewed within the past couple of years and your statements are definitely a cause for concern. Has the court mentioned anything about possibly getting a CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) worker involved? It's a great program! Usually the CASA workers will spend any where between 10 20 hours a month with the kids. It wouldn't hurt to ask to have one assigned to Bridget and Cathleen. I have a cousin in Butler County that has been working as a CASA for about 12 years. I want to say that the CASA Program is located on the 7th floor of the Montgomery County Juvenile Court. Best Wishes To All!
Jennifer
32244,#12Author of original report
Mon, January 26, 2009
I really don't understand how people can bring children into the world and then turn their back. It's obvious Russell has a lengthy history of ignoring his own children. Something is definitely wrong up stairs. If I knew all these things about Russell over a decade ago I would never had anything to do with him. A lot of people believe that I felt sorry for Bridget and Cathleen and that's why I dated him for a short period of time. Looking back I would have to say that's accurate. Russell got too comfortable within our short relationship. A bunch of little things just got under my skin: Russell raising his voice out of frustration dealing with the kidsit was unnecessary.; Calling the kids a stubborn A double S was a popular thing that came out of his mouth; Ignoring the kids to watch television; Coming back from work or school to find the kids' diapers, Pull-Ups and clothes were soiled due to Russell's television viewing.; and the list goes on. Over time I felt like Russell was shutting down, didn't care about being a father and he seemed very depressed. About February 1998, I gave him $5, told him to pack his bags and I'll take him where ever he wants to go. That's when he showed his true colors. He called Children Services and told them he wanted to give Bridget and Cathleen up. He told me that we will never hear or see him again. I was so horrified I contacted you about getting Bridget and Cathleen. I vaguely remember the black eye incident with Cathleen. I'll look through some photos and see if I can find anything that may help jog my memory. When I told Russell to leave...the journal left with him. When Russell and the kids lived with me I did not feel that Russell was abusive, just extremely lazy. The court documents that I viewed within the past couple of years and your statements are definitely a cause for concern. Has the court mentioned anything about possibly getting a CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) worker involved? It's a great program! Usually the CASA workers will spend any where between 10 20 hours a month with the kids. It wouldn't hurt to ask to have one assigned to Bridget and Cathleen. I have a cousin in Butler County that has been working as a CASA for about 12 years. I want to say that the CASA Program is located on the 7th floor of the Montgomery County Juvenile Court. Best Wishes To All!
Spiritdove
Dayton,#13Consumer Comment
Wed, January 21, 2009
yes robbie,joey, rachel are of age. rachel lives in huber heights and has kids. and jessie's ex wife linda is renting them the house on kildare. i know he has someone drive him to appts. and i know he did a 3 day class for a drinking matter. he has 2 cars sitting at the house. but they drive bev's car. he is still working for ready to go drive thru. and just got me medical for the girls. he doesnt call them or come see them unless they have wrote to bev. she isnt doing good health wise. i'll see what i can find out on the ovi for you. and yes that is great about the girls wanting brain to adopt them. yes bridget and cat have ask tim. and he said no problem. we are filling out change of custody per juvenile courts. the witness was cathleen. we where not told of his court date. but juvenile doesnt want the girls around him. they can see bev if we make arrangements. have children services involed along with a teen support group the court order. because of what happen. and a juvenile person checks on them once a month. i'll see if i've got any new pictures of them and send them to you. the girls nice you guys alot. bridget was the one who found your information. i do have a question for you. remember when you guys lived in middletown. and cathleen got a black eye. do you think russell did that. they say he is a type of person who can be verbally and physically abusive. which i've seen. please send the girls birthdays. so the girls can send cards. and i'll send the information ican for you. take care. and thanks for answering me back. our mailing address is (((Redacted))) CLICK here to see why Rip-off Report, as a matter of policy, deleted either a phone number, link or e-mail address from this Report.
Jennifer
32244,#14Author of original report
Fri, January 16, 2009
I had the Kildare Ave. address, but wasn't sure if it was still valid since I found two evictions dated 9/26/2005 and 5/2/2006. I was going to send an empty envelope to the address to see if it would be forwarded to a new address, refused or get a response. Unfortunately, I found out about the domestic violence case CRB0803199 a little after X-Mas. (I was surprised I didn't get a notification about you responding to my posting on Ripoff Report.com.) I didn't see what kid was involved and the street address was left blank. I did see that the case was closed at the prosecution's request since the complaining witness failed to appear. Who was the complaining witness? It really hurts to hear about Cathleen. I still picture Cathleen as being a baby. She was so precious back then and I'm sure she is still a doll even though she has obviously grown up since the last time I've seen her. Bridgett is obviously doing well. I looked at pictures of the Montgomery County Sheriff's Block Party and the amount of money she raised for the Arthritis Foundation's Arthritis Walk. Way to go! Do you still reside on Bricker Ave., Dayton, Ohio? At this time I am requesting that any information on Russell go to my attorney A. James Mullaney Esq., P.O. Box 57783, Jacksonville, FL 32241-7783. Let him know it's regarding the Pouncey adoption. Robbie, Rachel and Joey should all be of legal age by now, correct? Has Cathleen and Bridgett ever approached you and Tim about adoption? I just about feel over when Delia asked me if it was ok to have Brian adopt her, so she can change her name and have a better life. Delia doesn't think it's fair to have someone's last name that has nothing to do with her. She is very quick to tell people that Brian is her dad, not Russell. Adoption is a great thing! Brian adopted Allison a couple of years ago. That was one of the best decisions we ever made! Do you know if Russell is complying with case numbers: TRC0710799A; TRC0710799B; & TRC0710799C for the O.V.I.? Does Russell have his own vehicle or does he use other vehicles? Does license plate DHX9476 ring any bells? Any information that you can provide is greatly appreciated. I don't care how silly you or other may think it is, it could mean a lot to us. Thanks, Jennifer
Spiritdove
Dayton,#15Consumer Comment
Wed, December 03, 2008
jennifer here is my email addy [email protected]. i couldn't remeber if i put it in the first one
Spiritdove
Dayton,#16Consumer Comment
Wed, December 03, 2008
DEAR JENNIFER; DECEMBER 3,2008 HELLO. THIS IS RUSSELL'S EX-WIFE BARBARA. I'VE BEEN WANTING TO GET IN TOUCH WITH YOU. FIRST HE IS LIVING AT 2427 KILDARE AVE DAYTON, OHIO 45414. HE WORKS AT READY TO GO DRIVE THRU ON N. DIXIE DRIVE. DAYTON,OHIO 45414. THEIR PHONE NUMBER IS 937-890-9861. NOT SURE WHEN HE WORKS. I READ THE LETTERS TO YOU AND THE ONE YOU WROTE. HE LOST THREE OF HIS KIDS TO ADOPTION BECAUSE HE EVER WENT TO THE HEARING. THAT WAS ROBBIE,RACHEL,JOEY. AND I'VE GOT CATHLEEN AND BRIDGET WITH ME. HE WAS CHARGED WITH DOMESTIC VOLIENCE ON CATHLEEN ON NOVEMBER1O,2008. HE HIT HER IN THE FACE. SHE IS OK. THE COURTS PLACED HER HERE. I'LL GET COPY OF THE POLICE REPORT AND IF I HAD SOMEWHERE THAT I COULD SENT IT TO YOU. SEE CATHLLEN IS ON SPECIAL MEDICAL FOR MOODS. SHE HAS A HARD TIME DEALING WITH MORE THEN ONE PERSON AT A TIME TELLING HER WHAT TO DO. BOTH GIRLS TALK ABOUT HOW THE WISH THEY COULD SEE THEIR SISTER DEE. BRIDGET STANDS AT 5"4 ALREADY AND CARRIES A 3.0. CATHLEEN STANDS AT5"1 AND IS CARRYING A 2.9. I'M GLAD YOU HAVE FOUND SOMEONE WHO LOVES DEE ALOT TIM MY NEW HUBSAND IS THE SAME WITH THE GIRLS. HERE IS MY E-MAIL ADDRESS SO YOU CAN SEND ME AND ADDRESS WHERE I CAN SEND YOU A COPY OF THE REPORT. AND THE GIRLS COULD WRITE YOU. AND I CAN SEND YOU OPICTURES OF THEM. TAKE CARE. AND I HOPE THIS HELPS.
Jennifer
32244,#17Author of original report
Fri, April 06, 2007
Russell is still behind on his child support obligation. He owes more than $4,600. Russell has not been in contact with our common child in over two years. It is my daughters wish to be adopted by my husband. My daughter wants to change her last name and my husband wants to adopt my daughter. I have sent Russell several letters asking for his permission to grant our wish for stepparent adoption. Of course he has not responded. We hired an attorney to help us with the adoption. I'm not even sure if he is still residing in Dayton, Ohio. I need help locating Russell along with a current physical address, so he can get served with paperwork regarding our intentions. If you can help please let me know.
Jennifer
32244,#18Author of original report
Fri, April 06, 2007
Russell is still behind on his child support obligation. He owes more than $4,600. Russell has not been in contact with our common child in over two years. It is my daughters wish to be adopted by my husband. My daughter wants to change her last name and my husband wants to adopt my daughter. I have sent Russell several letters asking for his permission to grant our wish for stepparent adoption. Of course he has not responded. We hired an attorney to help us with the adoption. I'm not even sure if he is still residing in Dayton, Ohio. I need help locating Russell along with a current physical address, so he can get served with paperwork regarding our intentions. If you can help please let me know.
Jennifer
32244,#19Author of original report
Fri, April 06, 2007
Russell is still behind on his child support obligation. He owes more than $4,600. Russell has not been in contact with our common child in over two years. It is my daughters wish to be adopted by my husband. My daughter wants to change her last name and my husband wants to adopt my daughter. I have sent Russell several letters asking for his permission to grant our wish for stepparent adoption. Of course he has not responded. We hired an attorney to help us with the adoption. I'm not even sure if he is still residing in Dayton, Ohio. I need help locating Russell along with a current physical address, so he can get served with paperwork regarding our intentions. If you can help please let me know.
Jennifer
32244,#20Author of original report
Fri, April 06, 2007
Russell is still behind on his child support obligation. He owes more than $4,600. Russell has not been in contact with our common child in over two years. It is my daughters wish to be adopted by my husband. My daughter wants to change her last name and my husband wants to adopt my daughter. I have sent Russell several letters asking for his permission to grant our wish for stepparent adoption. Of course he has not responded. We hired an attorney to help us with the adoption. I'm not even sure if he is still residing in Dayton, Ohio. I need help locating Russell along with a current physical address, so he can get served with paperwork regarding our intentions. If you can help please let me know.
Jennifer
32244,#21Author of original report
Tue, April 11, 2006
Effective April 5, 2006, Magistrate Rice issued a bench warrant for Russell. If you have information on Russell please contact the Butler County CSEA 24/7. You can remain anonymous. On February 1, 2006, Russell was held in contempt of court for his failure to pay child support. He was sentenced to a term of 30 days in jail and had to pay a purge amount of $500. Russell was warned about future contempt fines and jail terms. Russell is more than $3600 behind in child support payments. If you see him do not approach him. Please contact Butler CSEA and the local sheriff's office. Thank you, CLICK here to see why Rip-off Report, as a matter of policy, deleted either a phone number, link or e-mail address from this Report.
Jennifer
32244,#22Author of original report
Thu, December 29, 2005
Russell G. Deeter is more than $2400 behind in child support payments. I received a check last month for approximately $270, but CSEA wasn't sure how they received the funds to give to Delia and I. Butler County C.S.E.A. had a contempt/enforcement hearing scheduled for December 15, 2005 at 1:40 p.m. with Magistrate Rice. Attempts were made to try to serve Russell with papers in person and by U.S. Mail. Unfortunately since the service of documents was unsuccessful the hearing has been rescheduled to February 1, 2006 at 9:45 a.m. with Magistrate Rice. If anyone that is reading this knows Russell please try to convince him to contact Butler County C.S.E.A. and make arrangements with the agency regarding this matter. This message is from Delia (our common child) to Russell, "I hope you had a rotten Christmas! It is true you don't love me."
Jennifer
32244,#23Author of original report
Tue, November 08, 2005
Butler County, Ohio: Do you have information about a parent who owes back child support? The Butler County CSEA encourages the public to provide the agency with information on parents who refuse to pay their court ordered child support. Please contact our anonymous 24 hour/7 days a week tip line at (513) 785-5750 or 1- (866) 360-2338 if you would like to provide information on an individual. Typical tips include information on employment, location and/or address, assets, etc. All tips will be investigated and remain anonymous. If you wish to contact the agency regarding your child support case, please call (513) 887-3362 to speak with a customer service representative. Thank you for your assistance.
Jennifer
32244,#24Author of original report
Fri, November 04, 2005
Thank you very much for your response Dee from Dayton, Ohio! This means a lot to Delia and I. Delia has a lot of questions to ask of Russell and so do I. My husband and I just want to know what Russell's intentions are pertaining to Delia and her future. Delia has asked my husband to adopt her recently because she feels that Russell doesn't care about her any more and doesn't pay child support. I was told by my attorney that we need to obtain Russell's permission in order for my husband to petition the court for Delia's adoption. Delia and my husband have my blessing on the adoption issue. If you have information that can help me with my situation and locating Russell Glenn Deeter please post that below or, send it to Rip-off Reprot and tell them to send the info to the author of Report # 157940 You can also send the information to the Butler County Child Support Enforcement Agency: Butler County C.S.E.A., Government Services Center, 315 High Street, 8th Floor, Hamilton, Ohio 45011. C.S.E.A. e-mail address is: www.butlercountyohio.org/csea. The main office numberis:(513)887-3362. Thanks A Million!
Dee
Dayton,#25Consumer Suggestion
Thu, November 03, 2005
I think I can help you! I don't want to post the specific info on this website, but I know Jesse and his mother! How can I get in touch with you?