Be very careful if you sign up for AdultFriendFinder or any of it's associated sites. They Bait you in with a 1 month $20 "Gold" membership, which usually means you can contact anyone on the site. The Switch comes when you're billed $40. The explaination I received was the extra $20 allows you to contact non-paying members also. Yet, you're never told this and given no option to opt out.
Then to attempt to keep me on they offered me a free 3mo membership for $40, yes free! At that point I declined to do any further business with them and reprimanded them for playing consumers for suckers. It's absolutely a rip off to slide an extra $20 into the price to contact non paying customers. It's like paying their fee.