Complaint Review: Amy Rose Kahn Caregiver - Chandler Arizona

Husband thought he would need a caregiver for a heart surgery that he didn't need. He answered an ad posted at a nearby fitness club. Then he learned his heart functioned at 95% and no surgery was required. Husband has been 100% mentally disabled, with brain deficits, for well over a decade.  Unable to work, money has been very tight.  She took advantage of him and conned thousands of dollars out of him - money we did not have to hand over to her. 

She emailed him telling him she wanted to see him again, missed him, loved him - a whole bunch of crap and he suckered into her.  Two months prior to meeting her, we had planned to go to Kauai. On our tight budget, he thought we could manage at the cheapest hotel. After meeting her, he planned to take her in my place, paying all of her expenses.  It was all laid out in his email.  They had extensive emails back and forth.  He lied to me for months.

He brought her over with plans to go roller blading near our home but it backfired when I saw him get his roller blades and I got mine out to go with him.  When I got into the driveway, there she was with her roller blades on.  I told to her to get off my property - "leave", I demanded.  I had learned a lot about what was going on.  Instead of leaving, she assaulted me. 

I ran inside and got my phone and as I told her I was calling the police, my husband drove her away but, not before he supported her and accused me of assaulting her and scratching her - that's how nuts he was over her.  He called her his "princess".  Later in the evening, he admitted to me there was no scratch, she lied.  He also admitted that he knew I did not assault her, that it was the other way around.

Amy Rose is the WORST SORT OF TRAMP AND THIEF.  She only cares about herself and what she can get from people who are a little stupid in the head.  Husband isn't any gem but, he told me plenty about what he gave her - what she conned him out of.  She even tried to get a car out of  him.  He said no to that.  I wonder why he didn't say no from the beginning? 

She stroked his ego and he thought this young girl was interested in him.  He even told me that and called himself an old fart. He paid her rent for a couple of months, groceries, shopping at Victoria Secrets, and much more. Near the end of their relationship, he lent her money and she never paid it back. Months down the road, she was still calling him, trying to see what she could get out of him.

Meanwhile, our AC died and we did without any air conditioning in our home for almost a year, before I found a used unit and had it installed.  It needed a new fan $250 but, fortunately, when installed, it worked. Life was absolutely miserable through the entire Spring and Summer months (most of the year) without air conditioning.  Our pets were also seriously roasting.

We also have a remodel that we have no money to finish.  Husband's debt has caused a lot of stress in our lives but this destructive girl - DESTROYED OUR MARRIAGE.  The lies and devotion to her was the end.  It took a long time, well over a year but now he wants nothing to do with her.  Nothing can change what he did to me and us.  I remain disgusted and revolted.

SHE SHOULD NEVER be allowed to be a caregiver for any senior, or anyone with any disability or brain deficit.  She cannot be trusted and will take whatever money she can get out of someone.  I think she ought to be in jail but, what can I do when the brain damaged husband is willing to go along with her?

Some months later, the girls mother called my husband.  He told me shes going to sue me for defamation (because I wrote a too kind posting on HomewreckersAndHarlots.com and, apparently, Amy was having a hard time finding a job because it came up.  They wanted me to have the posting removed.  She threatened a lawsuit and said she had already retained a lawyer on contingency.  I laughed and told him to tell her bring it on!  They dont know the first thing about defamation and they dont have one element for a cause.  I knew it was a bluff I was a certified paralegal for 30+ years and I worked in defamation. 

Shocking that any mother would support an unethical con artist daughter. Maybe she learned from her how to steal money from men.  Of course, no lawsuit will follow.  No lawyer would be stupid enough to take a case against a wife who tells the truth and has emails to support everything that she says and photographs of them together when husband inadvertently left them on his camera. She ought to consider herself lucky that I didnt tell the whole story. The short one was long enough and the delay in writing this, proves how uneasy I am at the entire situation.