!!! BEWARE !!! I can tell you from personal experience that this 'Male' is despicable, controlling, mean, nasty, cruel to humans & animals, conniving, ruthless, sneaky, a loser, PEDOPHILE, liar, cheat, & these are his 'good points!'
He has ripped off, in more ways that are countable, two (2) (known) women (wives) in the past 30 years. Other women (some unknown) within that time period have fallen for this lout with dire consequences.
What he says is entirely different from what he does. He'll tell you everything you want to hear, do everything you'd expect from a 'decent' man, & much more, but is completely & totally the opposite.
He wants to be mother & taken care of, but will swear/promise you he wants just the opposite from you, that he'll let you be yourself (haha), stand by you, watch your back, protect & care for you the rest of YOUR life, & promise you the whole world.
He's notorious for cheating on, lying to & stealing from 'his' women (controller). The two (2) women he married didn't deserve what they had to put up with from him. He EXPECTS 'his' women to think, talk, write, act & be 'just like him!' He has no conception of compromise. It's ALL his way or not at all.
He is not a man, but a true & real ''''MONSTER!'''' of the worst kind! He WILL take EVERYTHING away from you, including your health, family, friends, & acquaintances, without you even realizing it, if your dumb or naive enough to fall for his [foul] mouth. He'll harass & bleed you dry, until you have NOTHING of yourself left, & no one you loveleft in your life but him.
If you have children, do much more than BEWARE... "Be AWARE!!!" He's been caught, many times, coming on to, doing & saying inappropriate things to/with children (those he knows &/or is close to, girls & boys), looking up/at pornography of nude young girls on the Internet.
If you have a daughter, he will hit on her until she doesn't resist him anymore - then it's too late.
He thinks he's God's gift to women, they aren't able to resist him, & he'll take advantage of themEVERY time.
Again, BEWARE & be AWARE!!! If you fall for this horribly rotten jerk, you WILL be so sorry, I promise you that. Take it from one who truly knows.