In terms of passing the Hippocratic Oath of "do no harm" I have to give Dr Havens a failing grade. I come home from work last night, and my wife is no where to be found. After an hour of wondering I start going through phone records to try to find out where she might have gotten to. Lo' and behold there are sever text message communications between her and a number I did not recognize, including several that very morning. So I call the cell number and whose voice mail box is it but the Dr himself. So I call him out for being with my wife on the message, then I call my wife's phone, to only get the voice mailbox as well, so I leave her messages expressing my rage. So what do they do after getting the messages, they go out to dinner, and have drinks and yuck it up until 11pm. During which time I call the police to file a missing persons report, have everyone worried, and am going crazy at home. There are so many ways that this is an inappropriate behavior for anyone, but in a doctor patient relationship, it is even more of a transgression. Now, I will be getting divorced, because this makes the troubled marriage I had, unsalvageable.
Stacey
Dallas,#2Consumer Comment
Tue, January 26, 2010
You blame your cheating wife as well - He did not force her to cheat - She CHOSE to do so
anonymous
Virginia,#3Author of original report
Tue, January 26, 2010
yes, he was our doctor. That is why I am so angry about it
Fasttimes
United States of America#4Consumer Comment
Mon, January 25, 2010
I found this because I am a patient of Dr. Haven and was looking for his phone number.
Unless you and/or your wife is a patient of Dr. Haven then your report has no basis for being filed here. If not this is just plain harrassment.