Roger refused to talk to me during the first week of our trip. He was quiet and sat on deck all night and would bunkdown most of the day. I listened to him talk about old family life to 1 of his buddies. He was ripped off my his b***h ex-wife Julie A(a*****e) Holmes and his married neighbor Randy Taylor. She was screwing all of her male friends including married ones. The proof was in her condoms and birth control items she kept large amounts hidden in her purse and gym bags. Since Roger had a broken back he wasnt about to get near that elephant. Ms. Holmes gave special favors to many men because she is so over weight saying she is fat doesnt describe her smell. Roger said she would get a page or call then leave for hours without getting paid from work likely she got paid from her boyfriends or probably paid them. Roger let her leave her DW state job because she whined and whined about how hard it was. She cashed out an $80,000 retirement fund without telling him or having him co-sign the form = she signed his name. 2 yrs later while he paid all the bills for the home, farm, 2 boys and horses, after she traveled all over the country taking vacations with the kids cause he had to work and take care of the pets and horses. The home phone started ringing all the time after 3 yrs of this it was bill collectors. Julie Holmes was not paying her credit cards. No problem What? She had 6 credit cards 2 personal and 4 business (for her so called business she left her state job as a safety specialist but never made a penny) Julie owed them $30,000. Roger assumed the debt and asked her to find a job. She got a part-time job working with Randy Taylor as a part time school bus driver. Roger took her shopping for new clothes so she look nicer for going on interviews to get back with the state as a dog warden. Then Roger took her to town hall meetings around his county so she could meet the commissioners again (who ended up hiring her back to her old job) But just before she got back on she received a call from a nephew of one the commissioners the guy was just charged with abusing his two horses by a current state dog warden. Julie and Randy Taylor took Julies White Ford F-250 and Randys horse trailer, picked up the two horses since the owner was told not to touch them, and Randy & Julie took them to a private farm south of Oxford Oh. This was done before the State dog warden could file more charges to seize horses for abuse and neglect since the owner wasnt able to feed them and was witnessed hitting them by the facility owners who reported him because they were so thin. Julie was a sorry case for a dog warden when she brought home sick dogs and cats leaving them inside with the familys own pets. Since her own pets crapped in the house, more didnt matter to her, nor did she care about the fleas and diseases they carried. When they bit her kids that didnt matter to her either. Julie would run around pretending to be a good mother but she would smoke with her kids inside the car. Julie would stop for coffee and spill most of the over sweetened, creamery filled coffee cups that, everyone asked her to stay away while she was drinking. Buttons and controls in all of her cars were frozen stuck, Sticky crap everywhere. She could ramble for hours dragging her 2 boys everywhere, run in to pee at every other home or business, but make her 2 boys s**t their pants because she didnt care about them or if they had to go. The proof was in there underwear. Julie only cares about how much child support the 2 different fathers give her. Roger filed for divorce on this sorry piece of human flesh = Won. Julie filed 6 contempt cases for two more years. She lost all cases and Roger countered sued and won, each time. That is why Julie Holmes is mad. That is why Roger is disabled for foolishly trying to care for scum and not taking better care of himself. This is what I learned about Roger and I investigated this story myself from actual court documents and speaking to witnesses. Roger is a mess, his health is bad and back, leg problems persist. Julie Holmes is a bully. When two people who where married before, each person is entitled to get there property from prior marriages she kept all of his. Was charged with contempt and still only gave him a couple of items. Julies household item list was disallowed by court because she made it up using items Roger had to buy after he moved out of his marital home. For Julie her long list of miss-treating people continues today.