I visited Equally Yoked dating service about one year after being widowed. I was a complete mess during the information session but was still given "the hard sell" to join. I paid around $3000 for their "services". About a week later I realized I was not ready but the company refused to refund my money. I never received services or any money returned. I am ashamed that these people call themselves Christian but took advantage of a widowed person without any problem. This company is shady and my recommendation is to run, not walk, run away from this "business" as fast as you can. They should be ashamed of themselves for preying on the most vulnerable people.