Complaint Review: James Pawlowicz - Los Angeles California

A Permanent Domestic Violence restraining order was issued on 11/23/14 requiring the author (and her agents) of these posts to a number of conditions.  The court ordered restraining order requires that the author of these posts stay at least 100 yards from Mr James Pawlowicz, and further stipulates that she cease from posting further defamatory material containing false allegations.  The order also includes instructions to remove said material, which has not been undertaken.  The author and her agents are therefore in breach of the conditions contained within the restraining order and are therefore subject to further legal proceedings.

 Ugh, yes, he has been seen many times with his Russian porn star (fake b***s) girlfriend. Any gal who would date a guy who abandoned his unborn child is clearly a trashy broad. They're perfect for each other. He is probably telling her how he has never felt this way about anyone. And that she is the woman of his dreams. I'm sure he writes her love letters and has made her a mixed tape/cd. Poor girl is eatin' it up like the rest of the girls. Best of luck to the happy couple. Hey, here's a tip. Wear a condom.

 I have seen this guy out with his new girlfriend who looks like a Russian porn star. Does anyone know if he has seen his child or has a relationship with her at all? I find this so incredibly sad and actually quite horrifying and inhumane. From what I heard through friends of friends, he has made zero attempt to have a relationship with his own child. Whatever actually happened holds no baring to the fact that he impregnated his girlfriend who he was living with and is walking around town like he doesn't have a child out there. Anyone who defends this guy should be ashamed of themselves.

The person who filed this report made their own assumptions and opinions based on what actually happened.   The woman in question is incredibly happy to have rid herself of this man.  Yes, the way it was all handled by him and what he did, was absolutely despicable. But, make no mistake, she did not love this man.  On the contrary, she had wanted out of the relationship for a long time.  The pregnancy made her emotional, and scared.  His behavior was hideous.  But, none of this matters....  This report should never have been filed.  I believe several of his exes or lovers chimed in, and it got way out of hand.  That is all.

Does anyone know how his "terminally ill" devil aunt is doing? She still kicking? Going for the world record of terminally ill? I believe they gave her 6 months to live like 5 years ago? She's going to milk this fake illness for as long as she can and ruin the lives of others because she is alone and miserable. Dumb b*!

Has anyone seen the posts of reviewstalk.com about this guy? I assume they're the same person since the girlfriend or wife was pregnant. What the eff? This guy is totally insane. He stole that girls jewelery?  What ever happened to the baby? I hope he/she is ok.

This must be some kind of a sick twisted joke.  So this stupid m*********** gets away with all of this s*** aside from lying under oath with stupid troll of an attorney who has no f****** idea who the guy she's representing is.....nor does she care as long as she gets paid.   To the ex fiancé or the friend who has written many comments on here, James denies that this ex fiancé relationship ever existed....and claims that it was made up by the mother of his child.  Which is laughable since he moved to the states to be and live with this girl for over 3 years.  So, whoever it was who posted all of those comments regarding the ex fiancé, please come forward and admit to it and even better, introduce yourself.  Actually, to all of you on here who posted.....over 100 people, feel free to email PAULA GLICKSTEIN to shut that dumba** up.  Not that it matters in the courts because no judge would believe that all of these were written by his ex and this website exists for freedoms of speech so you are all untitled to say what you'd like about this sorry a*s piece of s***.  They even tried to claim that the terrible posts written about her and her baby......were written by her.  These people are retarded.    As for AMA project management, and the owner of that company I find it shameful that you have allowed this pervert, woman beater to stay employed with you.   i hope it comes back to bite you in the a** one day.  Hey PAULA GlIcKSTein.....go f*** yourself you dumb c***.  I will post as much as I want on here at my own will.  Hey James Pawlowicz you are a dirty skeevy boy who beats and impregnates women and then has his stupid aunt do your dirty work.  You're an idiot.   Peace out b******!

Going to try to be as polite as possible as you're obviously just looking out for your sister.  Not only does his ex girlfriend not know who your sister is, but she could really care less(no offense).  His ex spent most of the relationship trying to get out of the relationship while he forced and rushed her into it.    He talked her into moving in with him after two months and asked her to be in a committed relationship after 3 dates.  So you're obviously getting your facts from your sister who is getting them from this girl Ashley who is getting them from psychopath James.   If you met his ex, you would understand that she is a mature and wonderful loving mother whose only concern is of her newborn son and certainly not of Who her delusional ex boyfriend is dating.  I'm laughing as I write this because I find it so ridiculous that people from his side of the fence haveno idea what really happened.  Also, she made it very clear in their relationship that she did not want to be "facebook friends" with him because she didn't feel the need be a part of his social network.  So any photos that you speak of where your sister was with him, she wouldn't have seen.  Get your facts straight and know that there are many Of his eexes posting on here.  Even friends of his. Exes.

i understand your frustration but you should know that not only does his ex want absolutely nothing to do with him, but she could care less who he spends his time with, whether it's your sister or not.  She spent countless hours trying to have these articles removed because they are equally embarrassing for her.  In regards to your sister, she was seen out with him and if you read the posts it is clear that his ex did not post them.  First they are not and have never been friends on facebook. Secondly she was very pregnant and obviously not going out to these nightclubs where he was spotted.

also, you clearly haven't read all the posts on here and you have your facts all wrong.  I understand you're trying to protect your sister, but youre pointing your finger at the wrong person. Kimberly is obviously an innocent person who has nothing to do with this jerk but was seen at the wrong place at the wrong time and someone wrote about it.  You're not much better when you're saying nasty things about someone you font know and has nothing to do with the posts about your sister.  

 Ok first off to the immature girl who use to date James Pawlowicz. I know this was you posting these nasty things about a person whome you have never met. My name is Linda B****. I am Kimberly Yatsko's sister. How dare you post such untrue things about one's career. This is completely unprofessional but seeing how you would say false things about Kim I feel the need to clear some things up. My sister Kimberly was never James "friend" nor did she date him. She is friends with a girl name Ashley and only met James twice.

Yes they were Facebook "friends" but I mean come one who has not met someone once or twice and then added them as a "friend". I use this word very losely because she didn't even know him. So you see you completely bashed someone's reputation and attacked ones career for no reason and no merit.  You are completely classless and crazy if you attack someone who just might have been in a picture with your ex boyfriend. Maybe that's why he is not with you anymore. To someone reading this about Kimberly, I think her work speaks for it self. She is an amazing accomplished photographer. She has traveled the world and continues to shoot amazing work. God Bless. 

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Hahahah!! Ok seriously now.  James was at the HARD fest after party downtown, which is essentially a rave where a bunch of kids on a lot of drugs are out of their faces, Rolling on extasy and havent slept in days.  He was seen at 2:30am on a Sunday night.  First off, don't you have a job? Secondly, aren't  you 35 years old With a baby on the way? His friend was even older than he was and they stuck out like sore thumbs because they were a decade or TWO older than everyone else there.  It was hilarious.   This guy is such a loser.  And he's not even trying to pretend that he's not.  Grow the f*** up.  I was actually embarrassed for him.  Not to mention, what he was wearing......ha! Geeeeez.  Not to mention that his troll friend that he rolls around with could be one the kid's grandfathers.  James Pawlowicz is a sad individual.   shameful.  Just shameful.

Again this girl is a decade younger than pervert dude.  she's f*king retarded if she is STILL hanging out with this guys and falling for the same sh*  he feeds every girl.  She makes herself out to be this mature photographer.  Nobody is going to take you seriously if they continue to see you out with a guy whose about to have a baby with another woman who has screwed over every women he has been with.  It seems like all the other girls didn't have this warning.  You have it at your fingertips and still choose to spend your time with him.  Who knows maybe you have some sick twisted fetiche and want to be a stepmom in a few weeks. Kudos to you Kimberly yatsko.  You're a proven idiot.  I mean you really can't find anyone else to spend your weekends with.  Get a life.  You're as much of a loser as he is.  Stop acting like you're a professional who deserves respect when you make choices like hanging with a deadbeat womanizing cheating Scumbag.  Read the reports you idiot.  It's a small world.  people will cominute to see you out with him and continue to lose respect for you like I have.

You'll find him and his loser friends at sky bar and bar marmont.  Get a life dude.  Grow the f**k up. You truly are disgusting.

Saw this nasty a** creep out last weekend buying drinks for some girls.  One of them is kimberly yatsko who obviously does not care that this loser left a girl pregnant.  funny how you're out buying girls drinks but won't give a dollar towards your baby you  f**king low life.  He looked like he was having a grand old time with not a worry in the worlD.  Definitely did not look like guy whose about to father a child.  

This guy is sick.  So cocky.  And so full of himself.  He's a liar.  And a womanizer.  Don't listen to his sob Stories.  They are not true. Such a shame that men like this exist. Pitiful.

I think you all need to know that James isn't very traditional as far as introducing a girl to his family.  He introduces several girls a year to his family even when he's only been dating them for a few weeks.  It's like he has something to prove or better yet needs their approval.  Yes, he is a 35 year old man but every big decision he makes is made with the approval of his family.  I don't understand why a man his age needs approval from anyone but himself.   But this is the case.  I am certain he did love this girl.  it sure sounds like it from the emails.  But, if someone especially his aunt didn't approve then he couldn't be man enough to believe in himself And his own decisions.   every girl that James meets is "the one" until they're not.  for most people the human heart works a certain way.  When you're in love you don't just throw that away from one day to the next and start dating so soon after.  But this is the case with James time and time again.  He simply wakes up one day and decides its over giving the girl no warning.  It's scary.  And very mean.  So terrible that this last girl was left pregnant.  It's unspeakable.   But I believe she is better off.  James will never be happy with himself because he does not live for himself.  he lIves for the approval of others.

I apologize for showing up late to the game here.   Thank you for saving that rendonkulous report written by his aunt.  So let me get this straight this guy who owns a house in the middle of ghetto koreatown that was bought by his parents was her "mark".  Also, he makes less than what most people make for their first job out of college.  Forgive me if I can't seem to figure this out as math is not my strong point, but can someone PLEASE point out where the "opportunity" lies?  Is it me or is there absolutely NO OPPORTUNITY whatsoever here.  This is a girl who could care less about money or material belongings.  Which is why she passed no judgement when she saw his beat up home.    It seems to me that MR. James lied to family and didn't tell them that he was temporarily providing for her.  And when they found out, they jumped to their own conclusions and he did NOT defend her by explaining that she would never use him for the money he didn't have.  And to not make himself look like a complete idiot, he went along with it and cut her off with no warning or discussion.  One day he is telling her not to worry about anything and that everything will be ok, to the next day telling her she is not his responsibility and figure it out.  Listen pal.  You made a choice.  Nobody twisted your arm and nobody tricked you.   you lied to her and to your family. And essentially to your kid whose life you're already trying to destroy.    And I will not attack, but I will say that there is something very wrong with your aunt.  And your parents are no better for not realizing that this is on you.  She did not lie. You did.....to everyone.

This is in regards and response to several comments I read on this post that stated that this happens all the time.  And that if this guy wanted to see other people, he has the right too blah blah Blah.  Forgive me, but what world do you live in? This is not animal planet.  This is a human being we're talking about.  He left her in Switzerland on a mountain top after bringing her there to meet his family?  She was pregnant with his child, with no money.   And this is something that you say happens all the time?  I do not know where you come from and how you were raised, but I have personally never heard anything like this.  Sure, everyone has the right to see other people While in a committed relationship.  It's called having a pn affair or cheating.  And it's not like this guy met someone while they were dating.  From what I can see, he was in love with her enough to fly her across the globe while she was carrying his child, to introducer her to his family.  And then he flipped the switch like he did with his ex fiancé and signs himself up for the same online dating his site where he met his girlfriend almost immediately after.  And this is normal?  Again, what freaking world do you live in.  Nothing about this is ok.  This is cruel.  And immoral.  I don't know anyone party involved in this situation but this guy is an animal.  And my prayers and best wishes are with the mom to be.  This must be very traumatizing and I hope that god gives you the strength to get through this.

I will not say anything to attack his family member's character.  But I do feel the need to undoubtedly argue the comments made by his aunt.  I met this girl on a professional level as she slowly taught me the business, with a lot of patience.   We gradually became friends as my respect for her grew.  She gave me a huge opportunity when she hired me to work for her.  she treated me as an equal and not as an employee working harder than everyone she had on staff even her assistants.   When the CEO neglected his obligations to fund the company she had invested a lot of time, energy and money into, she handled it with strength and integrity.  We were all out of a job via an email notice from the CEO.  She knew we all had bills pay but she had zero obligation to us as our contracts were with the CEO.  She personally funded our payroll for two full cycles out of her own pocket, leaving herself with just enough to get by.  She never once thought of herself in this situation.  She thought of her team who she treated like family.   Anybody who is going to call this girl an opportunist, I have a serious problem with.  You don't know the first thing about her and you should educate yourself before you speak out.  I can assure you(aunt) you have pissed off a lot for people with your ignorance.  And to call her an opportunist because she dated your son/nephew is insane since he has nothing to show for himself Except a house that was purchased from family money. Not money he earned.  This woman had very wealthy men flocking to her all the time.  we all witnessed it.  She had no interest in wealth.

As for his "loving parents" what are they doing to make sure their grand kid is taken care of through this pregnancy? Nothing.   Again I do not want to question anyone's character but any good family do their part to ensure the health of a healthy grandchild.  Especially since it their son's responsibility and has discarded it as he discards everything else he has no further use for. 

As for him signing back up to match.com just weeks after this horrifying breakup, I am left speechless.  You just do not plan a future with someone, move them into your home impregnate them, leave them completely penniless and sign back up to online dacting.  he has psychological damage.  There is no question of this.

im sorry for the ex fiancé too. sounds like she was destroyed by this man as well.

Please, this is personal and I would very much appreciate it if people stopped commenting on here.  Especially in regards to his family.  Yes, even his aunt.   They don't know anythIng.  James obviously lied to them.  He did know her personal situation, all of it.  They did not.  His parents are truly wonderful and loving and have no fault whatsoever.  They are simply being parents.  As for his aunt, no comment.  And nor should any of you.  

She is very ill and there should be some level of respect.  Let her do and write whatever her heart desires.  She also does not know what she's talking about.  Let's chalk it off to ignorance and not question her character.   By reading ALL of these comments, I know more than I ever needed/wanted to know about James.   I believe everyone has said enough.  This needs to stop here.  This is not the place for something this personal.

He will absolutely be in a relationship by the time this child is born.  He can't be alone for more than a few weeks before he's on the prowl again.   as for the women who are dating him, I feel bad for them.  Well only if they don't know.  If they do know and are ok with being with a man who left his woman pregnant and alone and didn't help her financially at all through the pregnancy then they are just as disgusting as he is.  Everything he is doing now should be for His chlLd but instead he's more concerned about the next woman he can Charm the pants off literally. James you make the world a worst place to live in.

I'm still in awe.  I emailed with this guy a little over a week ago on match.com.  My friend came over a few nights ago and we were going through my match profile and emails.  She flipped out when she saw I was emailing with iamjim2012.  She told me who he was and that a friend of ours was pregnant with his chlid. even crazier is that I somewhat mentioned her in one of my email exchanges with him as the friend who got me my first big gig which launched my career.   i called him Jim the whole time and he never corrected me. He had the match.com app that he was emailing from so clearly an avid user.  

I already called his ex to apologize because I had no idea And I adore her.  she said she wasn't surprised and said she didnt want to know anything about our email exchange And that I had absolutely nothing to apologize for.   The saddest thing is that they met on match.com.  Here she is pregnant and carrying his child and he's on there at 2am searching for women. I just want to say that this woman is one of the bravest , loving, giving and honorable people I ever met in LA.  She went out of her way for me and she is the reason that I get to do what I love everyday.

And another thing, even after i told her about it, she didn't say anything negative about him Or get mad.  she did admit that she knew from his past relationships and dating history that he moves on very quickly.  She said he did a great job at convincing her that she was "different from the othere" but admits she was naive to believe something so cliche.  I just want to say that LA is full of players and d****ebags.  Everyone knows this.  But, I can honestly say that i have personally never seen or heard anything this terrible.  His profile makes him seem so normal.  

Even though his age range started at 22, which I thought was a but creepy for a 35 year old man.  Also, when you're on a dating site you're supposed to be honest about who you are.  You would think there would be some mention of the fact that in a few months he will be a dad.  i understand that she is pregnant and just wants peace.  But as for me, JAMES(not JIM) I think you're a huge scumbag. She is one of the greatest people I have ever met. She did not deserve this.  And you suck!

You're a either wasted or you need to stop taking your crazy Pills.   I have known this girl for a very long time.  She is a beautiful soul.  Her biggest flaw is her pride and she is too independent for her own good.   She will never ask for help even from people who love her and would do anything for her.  Your jackass nephew knew her situation.  There were no tricks or blindfolds.  It took him everything he had to convince her to let him take care of her when she was down.  And she fought it until for the first time in her life she let someone take care of her.  I was so proud of her because this was a huge step for her.  You have some f**king nerve after being the person who destroyed their relationship to  call her an opportunist. You don't know what the hell your talking about so do the world a favor and shut the f**k up.  Your pressure and your constant nagging about how he should get rid of her is what drove him crazy.  You're a miserable lonely b*tch.  why do you think you're growing old by yourself?  No wonder your ex husband cheated on you and left you.  You're nephew talked her into buying her a car. She didn't ask for it.  She would have made do and figured it out.   They had a future planned together.  rather than constantly questioning his decision you should have trusted that he knew why he loved her.  Stop ruining people's lives because you don't have any love in yours.  You don't deserve love.  Also by all means please elaborate on what exactly she "extorted from her last victim?"  Just making sh*t up you crazy old bat.

Wtf?  Is this for real?  Just read through ALL of these posts.   I feel betrayed and barely know the guy.  This man made the speech of a lifetime at her birthday dinner.  Even made all the men feel like they weren't half the man he was.  The way he spoke about her even swept me off my feet.    This is insane.  Even I feel doOped.  This guy is a pro.  He knows exactly what he's doing and exactly what to say.  He had everyone fooled.

James will be in a new relationship with the new "love of his life" by the time the child is born.   I can bet everything I own on this.   His only focus is finding his next victim.  And she too, will receive all the same emails that all the others have received. This man sure knows how to make a woman feel special until he is done with them.  The next woman will feel and hear all the same bullshit.    he will make himself out to be a victim as he has done with all the other girls that were the "love of his life".   Or tell them that his wife died or anything to make them feel sorry for him.  Read the emails.  And have seen them all before for a different girl.  He recycles His charm.  He is a liar and a cheat and has no idea what a real commitment is.  The second he decides he is done, he is off searching for his next girlfriend.  His heart does not break because he is heartless.  He moves on instantly.  Never seen anything like it.   Thought that he would have grown up by now and made some serious changes to his life.  But, he is the same man he was 10 years ago.  I feel really bad for the child who will enter this world and forever see and know that it's real father disrespects women, hurts them, and feels no remorse. This child will one day be old enough to know and understand the truth about its father. And know that the father not only abandoned its mother but also abandoned him/her when they were conceived.  And from the comments that were made by the nasty friends, this child will also know that it's father an his friends pushed for a miscarriage or coat hanger as the first option.   James you truly are a pathetic man.  I feel terrible for this new woman.  But, I am also happy that someone has finally exposed you for who you are.  Does anyone have any updates on the pregnancy?  Has James contributed anything at all? 

this one is one of my favorites. So deep for a total d****ebag.  Yeah d**k, you convinced her to put her faith in you and now your stupid aunt is calling her an "opportunist" because she did so.  Who writes this s**t and then does the complete opposiTe? You're a hypocrite!  you don't know the first thing about love.  How many times did you use this on different girls? According to ex fiances friend you wrote the same bullshit to her.  I think all of the friends of the ex fiancé and all the friends of our friend should get together and compare emails to see if some were simply hand me downs.   Just think how many more women are going to hear this crock of sh*.

On Sunday, February 21, 2013 James Pawlowicz <[email protected]>wrote:

I wrote this at 2 o'clock this afternoon, whilst thinking about you..... so I guess it's yours.

To put your faith in someone else takes courage of  heart.  To have someone put their faith in you is strength of  character.  For 2 people to have faith in each other takes courage, strength, heart and character.  The combination of these things is what I call love.

HahahahaHahahahahahahahahahahahahanahahahahahahah! "Dream man status". More like nightmare man status.  This guy sounds like a lunatic.  And I'm sure this girl will have nightmares about him for the rest of her existence.  I apologize for the laughter but this guy has lost his marbles.  What kind of "dream man" leaves you pregnant and off dating new women while you're pregnant and while his dad and Kookoo aunt write horrible things about her while she's pregnant with his kid.  This is horrifying.

 Oh I see.  Of course.  I don't think either of these women want to be dragged into all of this any further.  I believe they have suffered enough.  So it's clear that these emails carry absolutely no weight.  I hate to say this but his aunt seems like a terrible person who does a lot of decision making for him.  she could have been the one to pull the switch on your friend as well. Somebody else wrote that she celebrated their break up as well.  Why does he bother to get into committed relationships? It just doesn't make sense.  

he clearly isn't capable or even understand what it is to be in a committed relationship.  When you commit yourself to someone as I did to my wife 15 years ago you become a team.  We argue and fight all the time.  even today.  But, I can't imagine my life without her.  We overcome our fights even if it takes days sometimes.  I just can't understand this behavior. normally a guy like him would just be a bachelor sleeping around.  Why fake a commitment?  Why make promises if you're not williIng to fight for the love.  

this guy wrote that this woman is the best thing that has ever happened to him and that he waited his whole life to meet her.  Those are some strong words.  Those are not words you tell someone you plan on dumping while they are pregnant.  It's so sick and it pains me to know that this child will suffer because of all of this.  He is a sick man.  And you are right.  He is clearly in denial and not willing to recognize it If he is going out every night and openly dating while his kid is growing in this woman's stomach.  Despicable.

I know this woman very very well.  I made a conscious decision to cut her completely out of my life years ago.  She treats her nephew like a possession Acting like he is her son and claiming that she was more of a mother to him that his own mother. She claims people Like she owns them.  Then manipulates them.  She's also big on backstabbing.  She will act like she is some sort of spiritual being.  She is not.  She is very dark.  And very bitter.  

I can completely see her ruining a relationship for her own benefit and sticking her head in where it does not belong.  She will also make you believe that what she's doing or saying is for your own good.  It's not.  It's for her own good. She is arrogant and believes that she is owed something that she's not.   As for James sorry to say that he worships her in a weird way.  So if she didn't like this girl then the relationship was destined for failure the minute she made up her mind about it.  

She's sneaky too.  But, she wouldn't have stopped until she got her way.  Whether it ended now or a year from now, I can assure you that she would have ensured it came to an end.  Really sad because from what his emails say it seems he really loved this girl.  i hope you're proud of yourself.  And now you know how I feel about you.  Anyone who really knows you feels the same way but they are too afraid to say so because you are a bully.  Talk about "a woman scorned......" Ha!

whenI when someone is terminally ill doesn't it mean that they have a short time to live.  Hasent his aunt been terminally ill for like a decade? Has anyone actually confirmed this?  She's probably lying looking for attention because she sounds likes she's mentally unhstable.  she's terminally insane.  That's what she is.

it is so weird that he is ok with himself and feels justified in dating so soon after breaking up with the woman he claims is the best thing that ever happened to him.  The human heart does not work that way In normal people.  you're right especially since he is having a baby with this woman.  And he is openly dating on the same webdiste that he met her on. It's really sick. Because I do know  him i can say that he is going out a lot and acting like absolutely nothing has happened.  He went from one day being in a very committed relationship(marriage type situation) and was out a few days later like nothing happened. It's strange.  I like him as a friend.  But also bethere that there is something wrong with him.

I'm the friend of the ex-fiance who commented ages ago.  Insane the amount of discussion this has generated.  Anyway, I wanted to point out that it was I, NOT the ex-fiance, who shared the the story of his previous behavior.  She would hate, hate, hate to get dragged into this personally. 

Also wanted to point out that unfortunately she was also the recipient of many, many emails of undying love and the like.  She continued to get such emails throughout their relationship.  And then one day it was like he a hit a switch.  He was done and on to chasing other girls and perhaps even relished doing so in front of her.  He has literally no downtime.  Not sure if it's a fear of being alone or he just likes the chase and wants the adoration from unsuspecting women/victims. 

He does need help.  From what I know, unlikely that he will go and get it.

Yes aunt sounds like a real jerk.  But let's not forget that James is a grown man heading towards his 40's in a few short years .  This guy has a different girlfriend every few months.  Most people who are fresh out of a relationship take a year before they jump back in.  Especially a serious relationship when you are living with your girlfriend.  This guy was right back in match.com a month later?  And obviously going out to bars getting none numbers, sleeping with women.  And it's not like a normal breakp either.  He's having a kid for gods sake.  This is just not normal behavior Especially after reding some of those emails he wrote about how this girl is the best thing that has ever happened and he has waited his whole life to meet her. Yeah she totally got jipped and he fooled her pretty bad.  He even fooled me and I don't know him.  I am baffled by this report and all of these comments. From what the ex boyfriend wrote about this woman she seems like quite the catch.  Where you can see the huge difference from what his ex fiancé wrote about him.  Why is his family involved anyway,  this is not some teenager this is a middle aged man. A middle age man who has his father buying him a house? I'm just really confused.  Someone who writes the thingsb thatb he wrote then gets this same woman pregnant and then is off looking for a new girl right away.  Either he is a lying player man w***e or he is severely bipolar and from the aunt story has a dysfunctional relationship with woman in his family.  This is just not something that can be justified as normal,human behavior.  From the ex fiancé story and how he was already dating while they still love together this is a man who has fear of being alone,  he is troubled.  The only women he should be seeing is a psychiatrists.   I mean that in a sincere way.

On Friday, December 28, 2012, James Pawlowicz <[email protected]>wrote:

Morning Babes,

It’s a beautiful, if not a little chilly out.  I hope you have a smile on your face all day my love.

Couple of things:

Firstly you are amazing, and you don’t have to question why I think you are.

Second, call the chiropractors and see if any are reasonable.  If not, we will keep going with Jamie’s home treatment.  Invoice to follow.

Third, Grass is going down today.  Please ask Eddie to call me when you see him.

Fourth, Shall I book the Cleaners on Wednesday?  (It’s raining this weekend)

fifth, pease call the VW place and have them order a wheel lock key and screwdriver, (They are both missing from the trunk tool kit)  Also get the warning light turned off

There was a couple of other things, but my brain hasn’t woken up yet.

Love you.

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This is what he sent her after she told him they were moving too fast.  This man loved her so much for who she was as a person.  And or what she had which is obviosuly important to his opportunistic aunt.  Anyone who doubts that this man loved her you can see for yourself.  So either he is a lying p***k or "someone" got in the way of their love.

On Sunday, October 21, 2012, James Pawlowicz <[email protected]>wrote:

Wrote this 3 weeks ago.... Again, as its about you, I guess it's yours....

J

So------was concerned that I jump in too fast, and that she is no different to my ex.

My response was not that there is a massive difference, but as I hadn't really thought about it in detail and clarified all of the things I sounded quite sticato.

So what ARE the differences?

Ex. Great dancer, intelligent and beautiful,  Not always available when I wanted, actor, not ready to commit, narcissist tendencies, doesn't get me, not my type.  Basically things that I would have found out after a period of time.  Or also maybe I went into that relationship with my arms open and my eyes closed.

------ Carves out time for us, ready for commitment, doesnt like driving eastside, puts others first, gets me, her demena is insane, makes me laugh my arse off, when she smiles she makes me want to slap the sun, very maternal, amazing looks and fashion, and sex is unbelievable.  Going into a relationship with my arms open, but also my eyes wide open as well.

 Have to take it slow, build a good strong foundation for the long term.

But i want to go slow as im madly fond of this girl.  More than I have ever thought possible.... A billion gazillion times more.

I am so happy that someone finally called out  this manipulative wench.  She is a jealous conniving b***h.  the best part of her post is "the opportunist" comment.  Couldn't be further from the truth.  No offense to James but he had NOTHING. He wasn't wealthy.  Living paycheck to paycheck.  the house his parents brought for him was disgusting.  No but seriously.  I don't think many of you can imagine what I'm speaking about.  It is beat up broken down slum.  Bearly live able it's so gross. She could have chosen a much better "mark" if she was opportunist.

 She didn't love him for what he had which was nothing. She loved him for who he was period.  But this b***h started making comments way before all of this went down.  she even got her friends in Mexico involved when they all assumed girlfriend was using him for his "house" If you can call it that.  If all of you could see this house you would actually get a better understanding of her love for him to be ok even living there with him. I don't think any woman in the world would choose to move in there.  Better off living on the streets.  Anyway James is still not doing the right thing period.  

but he did have a lot of pressure from the family.  Even after switzerland he tried to make a plan with his girlfirend for when his father came to visit.  In a way he wanted to try and hide them being together from his family until they were back on board.  It's really sad and a lot of,pressure for him to be caught between he woman he loved and his family mainly the "aunt from hell".  and I don't care she's sick.  she's a terrible person.  Most people would use their illness to do good with the time they had left.  she is miserable.

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201.159.202.251. This is the IP address of davysontheroadagain aka aunt from h**l.  And as seen in the photo attached this IP address comes from San Miguel de Allende.  Wonder who that is?

warning;  if you meet this woman, run like hell.   Whatever you do don't date her nephew because she will make your life miserable.  She's 60 years old and has nothing to show for it.   She's divorced with no kids so she will latch on to you in hopes that you will feel sorry for he because she is sick and ask you to buy everything for her.  she will fool you into thinking she's cool and thahashes looking out for everyone's best interest when she really only cares about herself.  She's always in between jobs and looking for a gig even through she is 60 years old.  if you don't have your career set by now lady you most likely never will.

miserable woman.

It's really sad that this aunt of his is even posting things like that.  Goes to show so much.....  She's a sad, depressed lonely woman who "infiltrates" the lives of others.  First things first this a woman who was cheated on by her husband who left her for the woman he cheated with. Her miserably failed relationship has made her bitter and nasty so she decided to rub her misery into their relationship because she has no faith in love for obvious reasons.  This is also a woman who didn't like James' mother and had issues with her for a long time. anybody see a pattern here. Exactly.  A shame that James didn't recognize this pattern.  When he broke up with his ex fiancé she congratulated him and was thrilled when he moved out of theiR home.  She celebrates unhappiness of others so she doesn't feel so alone in her own misery.  Truth is she leans on James for everything.  And when James was consumed with his own life and relationships she feels abandoned and more alone.   for everyone on here who has said a lot of bad things about James you should all know that for the most part he was an incredible boyfriend to this woman.  It was when the aunt came to la to stay with James while they were fighting that this relationship changed and did a complete 180.  James feels a. Overwhelming amount of guilt that she is dying.  she put him in such a tough decision and made him doubt everything.  He wanted his girlfriend to go to Switzerland despite the terrible fight hey had and his aunt was against it and gave him a hard time about it.  Even though she wasn't even invited. And even though James and his girlfirend had this trip planned from several months back.  Like someone said below james had to choose between his dying aunt and a woman that he waited 34 years to meet(James' words from his email below). I don't think it was easy for him.    And I agree that he should have put his aunt/family in their place And stood up for this woman he loved and planned his life with.  Especially since she was/is carrying his child.  Another major flaw in his aunt.  What I don't seem to understand is that they are pointing a finger at one women when there are so many women on here confirming and going heir own experiences with James that were just as terrible.   Anyway I read her post and it is just ridiculous.  Jumping to her own conclusions and clearly knows nothing.  She's damaged goods.  James is a grown man who knew EVERYTHING about this woman and HE chose to be with her regardless. All of those things she mentions in her post things that James knew about from the start of their relationship and he accepted them and he still chose to love her and stick by her. These are not things he found out alater after aunt ruined their relationship.  Why do you think he asked her to move in with him.  She knew she was not in a good place to start a relationship and not only did she offer James the opportunity to walk away but she actually encouraged it and told James that they should take some space while she put her life in order.  And he declined.  He wanted to be with her regardless and support her through her tough times.  James was not a "victim".  James was completely aware of his surroundings and the relationship he was getting into.  There were no surprised.  Now if he didn't choose to share all of these things with his family that's his choice as it was none of their business.  Neither one of hem Owed his aunt an explanation. For some reason she seems to think they did. The relationship was not with his aunt although she seems the believe the world revolves around her.  Because she is a victim.  And has the victim complex because of her failed marriage. 

"Infiltrate their life"? Are you a kook?  They were building their life together you nasty woman.  They had a future planned.  He asked her to move in with him and then begged her to stay on many occasions.  How is this in any way her infiltrating his life? By all means feel free to explain your ridiculous comments. YOU infiltrated THEIR life.  "Once you cross her you'll see ow deeply she's found out everything about you". What does that even mean.  You sound like an idiot. She didn't find out anything about him.  He Told her everything. He shared his life with her.  And she with him.  So all of your stupid comments are things he already knew.  And he knew the reasons for all of it and saw all the proof.  She didn't make any of it up.  And you have her age wrong you dumb f**k.  Shows how much you know. You're a f**king drag is what you are. "sob stories" really? You really don't know what the f**k you're talking about.  What sob stories? Do tell?  We're talking about a girl who has been on her own since she was 14 and NEVER complains about it.  A girl who had a surfboard rip her nose off and had to undergo 13 surgeries and laughs about it.  A girl who was in a coma for over a week and you'll never hear her talk about it. I can go on and on about what she's been through and most people would never know because she doesn't wine or complain about it.  If she shared some of these darker moments with HER boyfriend its because she trusted him and they were a team.   Not because she wanted his pity or yours obviously.   You're describing yourself in that post. Stop feeling sorry for yourself mooching off your nephew and living through him.  Don't you have a life? Friends? A job?  If I were a really terrible person I would expose you fully for the witch that you are. You want to know why this kid will not have a happy family? Because of you! Because your life sucked so royally that you had to go an ruin someone else's.   I don't know why the hell she continues to defend his family when you clearly suck.   Maybe it's the rest of his family she's sticking up for. Because it is obvious to everyone whose heard the story, that you are tHe blame.  I'm sorry that you're sick.  But maybe you should use it to make yourself a better person. And a bit more selfless.   You're selfish. You're mean.  And YOU put your nephew through more suffering than you will ever know by turning him into a monster because of how YOU felt.  Not how he felt. Jesus Christ!  You're the worst.

I don't know a lot of you, but have probably met some of you on one of my visits to LA.  I get that you're all upset but she has already asked everyone to please stop this in a mass email she wrote.  a lot of the facts are valid but there is better way of stating them.  Do not drop yourself to their level. I agree wholeheartedly with the aunt being the downfall to this relationship.  Despite relationship issues and fights that are a part of all relationships from i know they had an insane amount of love for one another.  when his aunt came to visit she did say a lot of horrible things to James about his girlfriend.  He was distraught.  He even told her about it and told her to try and deal with his aunts opinions.  And she did.  There is only so much someone can take though.  And I mean for James.  When you have your very sick aunt whispering in your ear and saying terrible things about a woman it obviously made him question everything.  Especially because he has all of this guilt aboutb her dying soon.  That visit from her changed everything.  He had always been so confident in their relationship.  And so sure.  This was her.  He knows it too.   and it is finally confirmed by the post she wrote on the wiki.   James knows all of those things aren't true.  But he also knows that he is not going to question or attack his terminally ill aunt.   Honestly I feel really bad for him.  This woman came between them 100%.   The comments she made on her post are all things that James not only knew but accepted with open arms.  Car or no car, job or no job, he loved her.  Nothing about her situation was "convenient" for her.  she was so mad at herself for where she was and mistakes she had made and money she had spent.  He knew that too.  She fought him every step of the way for wanting to take care of her.  And I'm sure james would agree.  That is if he didn't have someone that he feels a loyalty to because its his blood.  And to some extent I get that.   The aunt is a sick woman and she leaned on James for everything.  Too much actually.  She is the narcissist.  I'm sorry.  I dont want to be mean but anyone who knows the real facts from start to finish can easily point the finger at whose To blame.  She made her feel uncomfortable the entire trip and that's what got in her head.  Nothing else.  she tried to stay strong for James but it's really tough when you know the truth about what someone has said about you and how she feels about you, to keep pretending that everything is normal.  Especially with her hormones running wild and dealing with morning sickness in secret because his family didn't know she was pregnant.  James I don't know you.  But I do n know that you treated my friend really well until your aunt came along.  Even with the acts of aggression.  You loved her.  She would fwd me texts and emails from you and no man says those things about a woman unless he is madly in love with her.  I wish you would stand up and do the right thing.  If not for you then for your son.  He deserves it.  He doesn't deserve all of this madness.   

To everyone else this needs to stop.  How many times do you have to hear it.  This is not the place for it.  This is personal.  

In order to avoid putting her through any more anguish I chose to report to the police on her behalf.  Turns out his b*tch of aunt made the post under the user name davysontheroadagain.  B*tch didn't realize her ip address in San Miguel de allende popped up when computer crimes investigated it.  This is the f*cking w***e who destroyed their love and I am sure of it.  It all started when she felt the need to continually add her two cents she doesn't have her own life.  And why you say because he ex husband cheated on her and left her because he knew she was a blood sucking life sucking a**hole   So she ran off to Mexico.  

This loser was a part of their everyday relationship always making snarky comments and always getting involved on top of being the real opportunist and using her nephew to buy her everything.  he spent a lot more money on her than he did on his live in girlfirend.  She was the one constantly asking him to buy her things and taking complete advantage of him.   She also called him 100 times a week and took up all of his extra time,  I feel sorry for you.  You are the devil.  Just because you couldn't find happiness in your own life doesn't mean you had to destroy your nephew's happiness.  He f*cking loved her.  And you made him constantly question his love for her.  if it wasn't for you these two would have worked it out and been happy.  But you tore him apart and made him choose.  

I don't care that you're sick! You're a b*tch!  And seriously you are probably 60 years old and what the f*ck do you have to show for your life.   She doesnt blame you.  She defended you saying that it was James' fault.   But, I heard the whole story.  and I do blame you.  What the f*ck did you expect him to do when you his terminally ill aunt made him choose between you and the love of his life.  This is entirely on you.  You're the s***k. But to be clear Jerzy's IP address(James' IP address)  in Los Angeles was also tagged so one of them definitely wrote it, but is working with the other.   Get your own life.  James is 35 and he made a decision to love this girl.  Who the f*ck are you to question a grown man's decisions.

I'm telling you people this man loved this woman and had absolutely no problems with her current unemployment.  she had many conversations with James regarding their financial situation.  Many.  Because it bothered her a lot that she wasn't working.  And James said something so beautiful.  I remember because she called me to tell me about it,  he said "I don't care if you lived in a shanty town in belize.  I would still love you".  He did what he did for her because he loved her and most definitely not because she asked for it....like you did.  Were you just jealous because he didn't buy of a car you b*tch? He always supported her and it didn't bother him, so why the f*ck does it bother you.  Keep your ignorant comments to yourself and stay out of it.  you know nothing.

  Dear Jerzy,  you're a f*cking c*nt and a terrible man as is your son.  I have known this woman for over 10 years and dated her on and off for man of those years.  Even proposed marriage to her, whilst buying her a penthouse apartment in South America as an engagement gift.  She said "no" and broke my heart.  Yes, I have a lot of money.  More than I know what to do with.  My wealth was the downfall of our relationship.  She didn't care for all the fancy cars and my many homes spread throughout the globe.  I remember I bought her a PRADA bag and she made me return it immediately and told me to use that money and donate it to one of the list of charities she sent me.  She asked that I never buy her a gift again.  She would prefer if I made her something like a silly homemade card.   I remember when I asked her to marry me and let me take care of her and have her move to Europe.  She said she wouldn't be happy not working and that she couldn't see a future with me.  She wanted a man who would get "dirty and go camping" with her.  And the lifestyle of room service and 5star hotels were just not for her.  

My point you stupid son of a b***h is that this woman is the furthest thing from an opportunist.   I dated a lot of women......mainly models who used me for my money. So you can imagine how confused I was when someone didn't want any of my monEy.  On the contrary she tried to make me see what I was worth without my money.  She loved me for me.  and I didn't realize any of this until it was too late.  She hated my tangible materialistic lifestyle.

from what I have seen in photos she moved into a house that most rats would run from to be with your son.  Filthy with half the walls torn down and just flat out scummy.  A house that was bought by you his father.  Your son didn't and doesn't have any money.  Probably more debt than equity.  So what the f*ck was her "opportunity" by making him her "mark".   She would have and should have just married me.  I can tell you one thing for sure, if I got her pregnant, firstly I would be the luckiest man in the world.  But, even if we broke up I would love my child and be there for her no matter what.    As opposed to attacking this woman why don't you ask yourself why she and so many women before her have all these terrible things to say about your son.  And then question your role as a father.

i did and will always love her.  She is the love of my life even though we are not together.   She taught me what real love was about.  F*ck, she taught me what life and happiness are all about.    The only thing your son had to offer her was his love and his false promises.  Nothing more.  And she was ok with that.  Because she loved him.  She knew he would never be rich on his salary.  And she was ok with that too.  More than ok.  Opportunist! Please.    Your son begged her to let him buy her ticket to Switzerland.  And you know what she said to him.  Why dont you ask him you c*nt.  She said that the only way she would go to switzerland was if she could afford her own ticket.  And she did.  I remember speaking with her the day after she booked it and she was very happy about it.  Get your facts straight.  you know nothing about this girl.  

When the company she was heading up fell apart because the CEO stopped funding it, do you know what she did.  She took her own personal money and paid everyone of her employees two full paychecks.  6 employees.  I even offered to pay them for her and she did not accept my offer.  she said it was her responsibility.  A few of them were making more than your son makes.  So, do the math.  She wasn't legally obligated to do this.  But, she did this out of the kindliness of her heart because she felt they all worked hard and deserved it.   That's the kind of woman she is.  The strongest women I have ever met.  And she WILL be back on top again.  And she will have plenty to show for it.  You wait and see.  She's a fighter and I have all the faith in the world in her.  Too bad your son did not.

im not going to post anymore of my own words on here.  I'm going to ask her to send me every email and every text you ever sent her.  I already have dozens. and I'm just going to post those.  Your words, your writing your thoughts.  Sick of everyone going back and forth guessing and assuming and making their opinions based on very little.  People are going to see that YOU forced this relationship to move at lightening speed.  and when she would try to break up with you, YOU begged and cried like a pu**y to have her stay.  And YOU offered her everything.  You will never ever ever ever in any of the texts and emails see her asking you for anything!!!!!!  You are a fraud James.  Never seen anything quite like it.  She is f**king pregnant with your child and what you are doing is disgusting.  

ladies and gentleman the email below was written less than a month after they started dating. Yeah, sounds like she's a terrible person.  This is how their entire relationship was and how he led her on.  Pretty serious words for someone who is now calling this girl a "s***k".  Btw, I witness A LOT of this relationship,personally. 

  On Saturday, October 13, 2012, James Pawlowicz <[email protected]>wrote:

So last night I'm assuming you, like me have not slept hardly at all.  The house was freezing, the helicopters were droning all night and the plethora of nightmares that I had when I did sleep, drained the last drops of sanity from me.  But still, the ugly sleep that I did achieve was better than being awake....

Firstly, you are the best thing that has ever happened to me.  Hands down, hats off, b*lls to the wall, legs cut off, amazing and awesome, (this is when you should agree completely and want to smile)

I am sad that we did not spend the night together, you got upset with my stupid reaction and then you questioned us and my dream man status.  (Btw, please never question that again.  I am and I always will be dreamy Jamie)

I'm confused and (was) mad because my strong feelings for you actually created the issue.  Not me, but my raw, insane, sharp emotions.  it's been a long time ( 34 years) since something has meant so much to me, so I'm a little rusty. Just going to take a little time to get it right.  I don't think that's too big an ask based on where we are going......

Your man.

J x

this next one ladies and gents was written 3 days before they left for Switzerland when she decided she wasn't  going to go until he convinced her she should.  Then 10 days after this email and hundreds of LOVE YOU FOREVER texts were written this dirtbag leaves her traumatized and scared and freezing in Switzerland.  James you can go on and on about what you think of my girl now.  Yet explain how you were living with her for months and loved her so f**king much and never had any problems with her "life" that you are now making a joke of and saying cruel things about.  You knew what you signed up for.  She gave you full disclosure and you never had a problem with it.  Just because you are a broken person it doesn't mean you need to blame it on her.  Just like the ex fiancé And it was all her fault because she was "lazy"  and didn't have dinner ready for you when you got to home from work? You were with her for 3.5 years and suddenly her lack of home style skills led you to dump her out of nowhere. A**hole!

On Monday, March 4, 2013, james pawlowicz <[email protected]>wrote:

This 35 year old loser who asked mommy and daddy to buy him a house in 2011 who has been living in that beat up slum for two years without fixing her up has some f**king nerve.  James  I was there and witnessed this relationship from the beginning.  YOU begged her to move in with you? It wasn't her idea.  You rushed the relationship.  She even told you she he concerns about how fast you were moving.  You put a 50 year plan together for your lives by the first month you were dating.  Yep i saw that too.  you put a journal together with artwork and stories of every time you hung out. Yep i saw that too when you left it with her when she broke up with you.  You know she was in a huge lawsuit with her company which she won and you saw that too so you know that she wasn't conveniently between jobs as you Stated.  She was also renting cars and was fine with it when you came in acting all macho and talked HER into letting you buy her a car which she was completely against.  She even spoke to me about it and was not on board.  

And then you talked her into going to switzerland which she was also completely against because she wanted to focus on getting her work sh*t in order.  Once again you came in ayou told her not to worry about anything.  You're a real a**hole acting like she took advantage of you or something.  You know very well she is a proud woman who does not and never has accepted help or favors from anyone.  Known her for many years and will not Accept my help.  But you convinced her to trust you because she was the "love of your life". I have never in my life met a man who was so full of s**t and not willing to own up to his own life words and promises.   when her world fell apart what did she do? I know because we spoke about it and she told me she was going to have a talk with you.  She asked you for space and that she wanted to move to the OC for a few months so she could rebuild her life and you said "NO!!!!!".   Don't you dare say she "hoodwinked" you you a**hole.  She was simply honest with you.  That's it.  Plain and simple.  

She tried several times before you moved in together to break up with you get her space and figure her own s**t out.  She never asked you for ANYTHING!!!!! You offered her everything and had to convince her to accept your offer.  At least have the b*lls to speak the truth.  I have remained neutral until now because now you have pissed me off making up lies about her.  Terrible lies.  Everyone knows what really happened except for your friends and your family who you are lying to.  You know the truth.  And seriously what the hell do you have to show for yourself? No, seriously? You borrowed half a million dollars from your mom and dad to buy a house.  A sh*t house in a sh*t location.  As far as I'm concerned you're in a lot of debt which is even worse off.   you really aren't a good person.  And I feel somewhat guilty for pushing her into this relationship and tellingly her to trust you.  Youre a dirtbag.  She "targets her mark". Really dude? She didn't even like you after the first date.  You asked her to be in a committed relationship after a few dates and told her you didn't want to see anyone else.  She said she needed to think about it.  And it was almost two weeks before she agreed.  You were never her "mark". Trust me.  You weren't even her type.  But she gave you a chance. And you were the deceitful one.  Not her. You knew her situation 100% from day one.  She didn't try to trick you.  She was very honest about it.  You were deceitful to all of us pretending you adored her and wanted to take care of her.  You're full of sh*t and you know it.

bullshit!! His father attempted to post an article on Daviswiki under "con artist" regarding this woman.  Not many people by the name of Jerzy who know this woman.  So either his family is involved and they are freaking retards because even wiki shut them out for posting this in a city like Davis California.  Or James Is using his father's name and involving them making them look bad.  Either way these people are disgusting.  Your son is a pig.  figure it out.  Read the dozens of posts from many women who agree.  Leave this girl alone.  Funny thing is that once they were shut down and told to shut up "jerzy" then tried to remove the comment made so he didn't look like a bigger retard.   Yo Jerzy you got busted..  And seriously what do you expect from a guy whose father is trying to talk s**t about the women carrying his grand kid.

I'm sorry, but have ounpeople redad this s**t posted on another website about this guy.  his is just scary s**t.these are two sepearte posts made just over a week ago which means theybhappened recently.  so this guy leaves his livein grilfriend  over a month ago pregnant with his child and signs back p to the site where he met her and starts dating women immediately and robbing them and telling them thatbhis wife died.  you cant even make this s**t up.  this guy is out of his mind.  and then he has friends who are supporting this begavior which means there more people like him. In the world.  so scary.

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3rd party interpretations are not correct.  If you heard the story through someone else or are commenting based  on your personal interpretation, please stop.  

1. His family is in fact lovely and were very loving. This is not their fault.  Leave them out of this please.  They are kind and peaceful,  and  dont deserve this.  He made his own decisions. He is a grown man.  

2. Let James date and have sex with everyone in the world.  This is who he is.  This is obviously what he needs.  Let him have it.  And do not hate on the girls.  They are certainly not at fault. But if you are currently dating him, or hanging out with him or emailing with him or seeing him out at clubs, then keep it to yourself.  That is between the two of you. 

3. The girls or his family did not make any promises.  They did not paint themselves out to be a man who was honorable and loyal.  They did not make plans to spend the next 50 years together.  They did not lie.  This is all on James.  Based on everything I have read, James has done this to many women. He has found the love of his life many times.  And will many more times.  As another girl said "this is wash and repeat behavior".   The "pregnant girl" was led to believe she was special. She was different.  She was the one. Turns out, she was just another girl who was told the same thing as many girls before.  Such is life......

This should never have been posted on an open forum on the Internet for everyone to read.  This is personal.  And gut wrenching.  I have read all the posts.  Every single one of them. And they all make me sick to my stomach.  I am sorry for anyone else who suffered, especially his ex fiancé.  Her sTory seems all too familar.  Which makes it even more gut wrenching.

As for the comments from the "gay" encounters, they are clearly bullsh*.  As for the gross comments from his "friends", let them be.  Let it all be....... Life is too short.  Like someone said in their post, women get played all the time.  This is just another one of those times.  Girl meets boy.  Boy sweeps girl off her feet and promises her the world And to love her forever...... Girl trusts boy And opens up her heart.   Boy played girl and breaks her heart.    Like boy said down below, he "humped her and dumped her". That's all this was.   The End

i know the "girl" that this post is about and I ask that people try to refrain from discussing James' sex addiction with both women and meN.  I think everyone has made it clear that James is out sticking his p***s in whatever hole he can find. Let him be.  If that makes him feel better about himself then so be it.  But, she does not need to know about it.  Although, truth is I'm sure she does by now.  

first off, anyone who knows this "girl" knows she is a Latin goddess.  That's how I always refer To her.  She's stunning and gorgeous.  So as for the guy who said her face is "busted", please.  We all kow that's bullshit.  Also, before she met James, she was a happy, vibrant, energetic powerhouse.  I only met James twice during the Christmas holiday festivities and I even told him that she was the life of the party and the party got started when she walked through the door.  from the little i know of this guy, I can tell you he was in love with her.  That was obvious by the way he looked at her.

nobody knows all the details of what really went down.  But, truth is it doesn't really matter.  What we do know is that he made her a promise, a commitment.  And then he got her pregnant. And then s**t hit the fan because his family saw her hurt him when she broke up with him.  Boohoo. Get over it family! It was their relationship. Not yours.  This is especially to the overbearing meddling aunt.  He loved her! Get your own life. Anyway, clearly this 35 year old man let his family come between him and the woman he claims he waited 34 years to meet.   She admitted to making a mistake.  And very much cared what his family thought.  She wanted to make it up to him and to them.  But, "they" had already made his decision for him.  The transformation from declarIng that he would love her forever to just two weeks later changing the locks on her is what is so horrifying.  to make matters worse if at all humanly possible, he is spending tons of money to get all the nastiest, corrupt lawyers to destroy her life as opposed To just being a decent humaN being.  And in the meantime, he's openly dating half the world.

so, anybody who is "confused" or doesn't understand.  I hope this clarifies it.  If I wanted to, I could easily get another few hundred people in the next hour to tell you how amazing of a woman this "pregnant ex girlfriend" is.   James is not a good person. Period.  To all of you idiots who are currently dating James, haha, you're digging your own grave.

I went on a date with James last summer after meeting him on match.com.  Kind of funny how everyone is saying he is a narcissist.  He told me that he was s casually dating some girl he met on match for a few months.  She was a dancer/actress.  And he claimed that he couldn't stand her because she was a "narcissist" and way too self involved.  And that he would never date another actress again.   also said that he just woke up one day and realized he had no feelings for her whatsoever.  It just seems a bit weird to me.  1st.  He's engaged to a woman form 3.5 years and then one day decides its over? And starts dating immediately.  Most people who are in a loving committed relationship for that long would usually talk about their problems and try to work them out.  And if they can't so be it.  But people usually take time to soul search and heal.  Then he was with this actress and one day realized she was a narcissist? Then he was living with this most recent girl and takes her to Switzerland to meet his family which is pretty serious especially since she was carrying his child.  Then he leaves her there changes the locks on their doors etc.  does anybody else think this is creepy? But also that there is a clear mental disorder? When you break up with someone you love, the heart usually needs time to heal. the hardest part to comprehend is that this recent woman is f**king pregnant with his child.  How much more of a wake up call does a 36 year old man need that it's time to change your creepy ways!  Really glad I dodged that bullet.  But really have to say this guy is not  good looking in person(I wouldn't turn my head if I saw him walking down the street) he's not very smart. I remember his sense of humor sucked.  I mean terrible.  What's the deal? What are these women falling for? Plenty of men having british accents.  that is all he has.  Feel really bad for the pregnant girl.  I am very sorry she is going through this alone. I can't even imagine.  Stay strong and god bless.

oh and for all you new and recent women ask yourself one simple question.  Do you want to be with a man who would leave his pregnant girlfriend to carry out the pregnancy by herself? Right.  That's what I thought.

I mean is he going p to these woman saying "hey, I impregnated my recent girlfriend and left her to deal with it, wanna have sex? It's 2013 and everyone has Internet.  Why aren't these women doing their homework? I say they are just as guilty as him if they know what he did and still decide to date him.   now I'm assuming he's probably lying to these little girls.  The other women on that website said he told her his wife died!!!  That's insane.  But, from what people have said he's a charmer  so he's probably working his charm.  I read the post he wrote and dont see an ounce of charm.  But who am to judge this pathetic man? Lol.  Hey ladies wake up.  This guy got the women he apparently love very much pregnant and left her with nothing and is not supporting her during the pregnancy.  Is this the man you want to take home to meet your mom and dad? Really?  If you answered yes to that question then congratulations. you just found the perfect deadbeat for yourself.

I made a comment over a week ago regarding how this report shouldn't be on here but now I am going to disagree with myself.  There should be a whole site dedicated to calling out scumbags like James.  This way women or men can be warned. I'm also now disgusted with this James guy.  I hadn't read that far down last time about his ex fiance.  Another poor girl who has 3 1/5 years of her life stolen away by this guy.  And he couldn't even give her the respect of waiting until he moved out to start sleeping with other women, after 3.5 years.  

My God.  Now this girl is carrying his child and he is off galavanting and chasing women/men while she's at home pregnant? I'm a family man. Happily married.  I can't imagine my wife having to go through the pregnancy of our children by herself.  It was hard even while I was there supporting her through it.  James you son of a b***h.  Anyone who thinks that this man is mentally stable is very confused.  Whether or not they are a "couple" he should have spent the 9 months taking care of her through the pregnancy of HIS child.  instead he's online dating again and going out meeting women.  how the hell do you sleep at night?  I'm serious.  Tell me.  Enlighten me.  How do you sleep?

Yo, a girl I know Kimberly yatsko just met this guy.  Not sure what their deal is If there dating having sex or what.  But, she's like a decade younger than him....at least.  And I'm sure she don't know that this old man has his baby growin in another woman's belly.  I'm definitely going to warn her though.  James you need to stop and take a minute brother.  Why you chasing baby tale or any tale at all.  You need to stay away from women and leave them out of your disgusting web of sh*t you created.  

A whole lot of women on here that you have f*cked with.  and you can't seem to stop.  Left the old girl preggers and went right back out there looking for some fresh meat.  I say figure your own sh*t out.  Leave the ladies alone. Or the dudes as it seems that you're batting for both teams.  Also, stick to women your own age.  Can't stand LA d****ebags who think they're younger than they are.  You're 35.  And look what you have to show for it.  Nothing.

This guy is a total nut job.  Some other women posted about him on another site.  One woman said that he's making sick stories about his wife dying and how he doesn't want to work anymore and he's using this excuse to have people buy him alcohol.  Another girl recently met him on match.com and he suggested a high priced restaurant and then acted like he forgot his wallet so she had to pay for dinner.  then she invited him back to her house(not sure why after that dinner escapade) and he stole all her jewelry out of her jewelry box.  Dude, what the f*k is your problem? What the hell are you doing inviting women out to fancy restaurants that you can't afford when you just left you ex girlfriend preggers.  What a sorry sack of sh*.  You have a lot of amends to make.  Your sorry a*s friend said it best karma is a b*ch.  You're sliding down a slippery slope.  A lot of relationships don't work out man.  But you have a kid on the way and you're worried about dating and getting laid and lying to more people. I would not be surprised if this guy had more than one kid running around that's his.    You're A real loser man.

His obsession with Asians is with little Asian boys, over 18 of course.  He likes Asian trannies. Or Asian women that remind him of Asian trannies.  

Ok boys.  anyone can say that they had sex with this man.  Man or woman.  But it's really in the details.  Not the sexual,details.  How did you meet him? When did you meet him? Where did these acts take place?  Did he tell you he was gay? If you could be more specific, it would help verify what you're saying.

I can confirm Ronald's comment. I had the same experience with James. He didn't like to trade but he was totally down to recieve.

I guess you missed the post about this guy being arrested on felony charges for domestic violence.  And I agree with You. This does happen all the time. usually it's not by a guy work works for the top prestigious project management firm that is buidling homes for all the Hollywood stars and all of Hollywood and Los Angeles most prestiious n projects like the oscars building. this guy is someone who has slid under the radar and walks along like he is invisible.  

Another site called review stalk.com just had a a post about this guy from a girl who very recently met him and went on A date with him and he stole jewelry from her house.  This post was written to inform women about this guy and im glad it was.  I wouldn't want either of my two sisters to be his next victim.

I have read all the posts about this guy James and although it does suck that there are guys out there like this you all make it sound like we are back in the Cleaver days. Do you have any idea what the statistics are when it comes to men abandoning a relationship while the woman is pregnant with his child? Do you know what the statistics are for dead beat dads not paying child support?  I saw one comment that said something a long the lines of "if dads don't pay child support they can be put in jail". Really? You really think with all the budget cuts and over crowding in the jails that they will keep a man in there because he is behind in his child support payments? These days everyone that does not have a violent offense get's a "get out jail free" card.

I'm sorry that this had to happen to your friend but she is one in thousands and thousands of women that get played. It is unfortunately a part of life these days but as long as she takes this painful experience and learns and grows from it, it wont be in vein.

Good luck

Ronald when was this? Was it a one time thing or did you hang out for a while?  Also where did this take place at his house? 

I can confirm that James is a homosexual. He and I used to take turns on each other having butt seqs. 

I think at this point there is more than enough information and witnesses to assume that James is a lost soul,incapable of real love.  No matter how you look at it a man who leaves a women like that pregnant and taking zero responsibility is just very troubled.  even those ( the one person who keeps changing his name)  that have made weak attempts at defending James have proven that he is inhumane just by allowing his friend to post the things he is posting.  I don't think there is a need to reply or remark to any of the low life comments of these people.   Let them continue to make James look bad.  don't engage with dirtbags like that.  And by "these people", I am referring to the one person using multiple identities.  there is no way that he  can have more than one friend with such a limited vocabularly, uneducated, and who speaks fluent gangster.  I also don't believe that more than one person in the same circle can have such disrespect for human life.   So, let this person be. Whoever posted this report I think you have accomplished what you wanted to. The is James character has been exposed for the con artist fraud that he is.  All the feedback from women who have been hurt in some way by him has also been useful in allowing the world to see that  ithis is not a report based on what one person thinks. It is based on a pattern and like someone said much earlier on.  This is his M O. Hopefully, no more women will be harmed by this man.  Great post.  Thank you for sharing.   God bless this woman and her baby who will be beautiful because god is looking after them.

With all this hating on James you are making me root against this baby. I hope the kid is born with some serious bith defects. Like full retard or something. Drooling out the side of it's for the rest of its life. Stop ragging on James and I will stop hoping this kid is crapping himself when he is 40. 

Oh and I hope the baby is butt ugly too. 

Hahahaha! Flee? Do you even know James? She broke up with this idiot over a dozen times.  This is not hearsay.  He begged, cried and pleaded with her not to leave him Sooooooo many times.  If you were friends with this guy you would know that.  Also it is well known that this guy only has one friend.  We all know who that stupid son of a b*ch is and when he  begged for her not to  leave him the 100th time she made it clear that this one friend was a deal breaker in their relationship because hes a scumbag(most likely this guy Mickey).  Without blinking James dropped this guy and agreed with her that he was a loser.  So friend do you remember when James ignored most of your calls and emails for a few months? Right that was because he chose her over you and admitted that you were no good for him.  I can see why that is.  Because you're a loser.  What are you like 50 years old now? How's the club scene going for you? Hahahaha.  Difference here is that we all know the real story because we have seen all the emails and text messages.  We all know how desperately in love with her he was.  Why don't you ask your "friend" to show you ALL of the text messages from their relationship so you come back here knowing what you're talking about.  To be clear, James was KICKED out of his own house because of a restraining order because he is the psychopath. And this friend of his is anot her wack job who is surprisingly single and approaching 50.  Gee wiz, I wonder why you can't seem to find a woman who would want to be with you.  another person asked the question below, why would he ask her to fly across the world to meet his family if she was such a terrible person?  She's a good girl.  A great friend.  And to be very clear everyone, this girl is the only girl I know who lost her virginity in her 20s. She can count her sexual partners on one hand.  So, all of the "s***k" talk and that people were "up in her" is a load of sh*.  She would never have sex with a man while she was with James.  This is his baby.  He's just choosing to ignore it.  And for the baby's sake it's probably best he stay away from it.  And keep this one friend of yours away from it as well.   if you were a good person you would leave her alone.  If you send her this info like you threatened to do, then you're the one who deserves the bad karma.  Well, you already do deserve i. And looks like you got it.  You're a 50 year old man alone in the world.  That's karma d*k.

You come on here, sounding like a baFoon. Calling this girl a s***k and you hate her and she's terrible etc.  yet, you've made no mention of what she has done.  From all the consumer comment is is very clear that James is not a good person and this is backed by numerous reports from several different victims who have experience the same s**t from this guy.  It is not a coincidence.  It is a pattern that this man has been living and inflicting pain and destruction on so many women.  Yet all you can continue saying is that this poor pregnant girl is a "s***k".  Before you come back on here sounding like a moron again using one of 3 words in your vocabulary(s***k), why don't you actually read all the comments and ask yourself how is it that more than one woman has experienced the same exact thing with this man.  It would be one thing if it were just one person saying something against another.  But there is an ex fiancé who was with this man for years and was treated like dirt.  And other women as well.  And also, you can't come on here just calling people names and saying you hate them without giving legitimate reason.  I can't imagine this poor girl caring what a low life like you thinks.  I can't imagine an ant caring what you think.  This girl has kept it classy by not coming on here herself.  hopefully she hasn't read any of It.  But if she has then she is probably more concerned about her baby than what an obvious psycho like you thinks.  And where is James? Why are you coming on here to Talk so negatively about her.  And honestly making him look even worse for hanging out with scum like you.   Also where is this video of her gobbling James' crank? You guys have a lot of things to say, yet you are giving the reports no legitimacy other than making us aware that you are uneducated low class scum.  Nobody cares what you think Micky or mikey or whoever you are.

If that pregnant s***k isn't reading this I will send it to her. I hate that wench. She deserves all the bad karma that can come raining down on her. She is not right in the head. James was smart to flee. 

I would very much like to know who Mikey is? You're a fiend of James?  James, I know you don't know who i am because I am choosing to stay anonymous, but these people that you have posting on your behalf sound like high school drop outs.  The things that they are saying.....geez.  Are you actually allowing this? Talking about the mother of your child like that? Talking about your unborn child like that?  I also don't believe that it was James that posted the "s***k" "crank gobbling" comment.  James has class and knows how to present himself in a much more dignified manner.  I don't know who you've been hanging out with, but you need to get rid of these people.  Seriously man.  if you are allowing this, then I am really sad for you. You're lost and gone off the deep end.  I'm still rooting for you, but you're making it really hard when you have these degenerates talking about "coat hangers" and miscarriages.   I really hope this poor girl is not reading any of this.  This is just too sad.  

You two people are his friends.  Yep.  That makes sense.   Your both trash and scum of the earth.  Coat hanger? Wow.  Good for you dude.  You're a real stand up guy.  And as for the guy whose been "up in her", your his friend? And you had sex with her while he was at work?  I don't know either of these two people, but I can tell by the class level in both parties, that James is a low life and his friends are no better.  Why are you on here trashing her and her baby?  from what I have read, it's mostly people who know James or women from his past who are commenting on believable stories.   Not coming on here to trash the mother of his child.   What about the poor girl he was engaged to? What about the poor girl he gave an std to?  You people are unbelievable.  And most likely all single and I hope to god you're not fathers.   I do not know if this is James or if its his friends, but James if you are reading this, you need to tell your friends to back off because they are not making you look any better.  Or better yet get rid of these "friends".  just disgusting.  And if this girl's face was so busted and she was such a terrible awful person, why exactly was he living with her.  And by exactly did he bring her half away across the world to meet his family. Again, most people on here seem educated and giving fair feedback.  Meanwhile James and his team of gangsters are on here simply confirming what everyone already knows.  This guy is a scumbag.  End of story.  by all means, keep the comments coming from your end.  Continue confirming that you're all mentally unstable psychopaths.  

James,

Bro if you are reading this I want you to know that you shouldn't let this psychopath haters bring you down. Don't let them win! You are right, your ex is s***k. I doubt the baby is even yours. I know because everyone has been up in her. Including me. When you were hard at work she was banging everybody on the block. Straight up nympho. No telling who the baby belongs to. Ol' girl is crazy, needs to be locked up for evaluation before she can re-enter society. Just think man, if you were still around she might have cut off your manhood and shoved it down the garbage disposal. She is that kind of crazy. Straight up psychopath. The best thing that can happen to that baby is a miscarriage. 

I know James and I think he is a good guy. I know his ex and her face is busted. I don't blame him for kicking her nasty a** to the curb. If she doesn't want the baby there are plenty of abortion clinics all throughout LA. Or get a coat hanger. I can see why James prefers Asian women now over this trash. 

So at least we all know that you have an extensive vocabulary that comes down to "s***k", "s***k a*s" "crank" "humping".   Did someone mention that this guy was once a "prince charming".  Yeah, sounds like quite the charmer.   What kind of example are you setting for your child?  What kind of people do you spend your time with? From the sound of it, you're  a gangster thug.  i am really thrown off about what the hell women even see in you.  You're not good looking.  You treat women like animals.  And you clearly don't have an ounce of self respect to be able to come on here and speak to women in that manner.   Ladies this man is a loser.  also, I have made two other comments on here and we have never met.  And I didn't "gobble your crank" either.  If you have enough money, go seek the help you so desperately need. This is not ok.

Was that comment really made by the guy that everyone has been talking about? Holy moly, Jesus Christ! First of all, mr. James learn how to count.  This was posted 5 weeks ago and comments began in April shortly after it was posted.  if you look at the top of each individual post, you'll find a date.  Shouldn't be too hard even for a degenerate like yourself.  So your 3 day count is off by 30 or more.   This just proves youre a moron.  But more importantly, did you just write that the woman carrying your child is a s***k a*s who gobbled your crank and you're going to post a video of it?  You're right about one thing which is that I am also "tired of this". Uneducated scum of the earth like yourself, walking around impregnating women at your age and then joking about it.   I feel so bad for your child who will one day read all of this.  this child is going to see that his or her father took his opportunity only to shame his/her mother and trash her as if she was some prostitute. To the mother, I implore you to archive all of this.  When your child is old enough you should show them the kind of man their father is.  Please keep this child away from this man.  This man is dangerous and psychotic. You sorry son of a b***h.  There are good loving people out there who can't have children, and you take the miracle of life for granted the way you do.  I pity you.  it must be really lonely walking around without a heart or soul.  May god have mercy on you.  Because if he doesn't youre going to hell.

I'm going to go out on a limb here and bet that your probably dont know who posted this since I'm a dude whose straight and I can assure you that I have never  "gobbled" your crank?  But, hey, way to keep it classy guy.  I can see your well educated.  When you refute or have rebuttal, you would usually try to give people a reason to actually like you and hear your side of the story.  But, you took your 5 minutes in the spotlight to show everyone that you're exactly what they say you are.  Also, do you know how to read?  There are very obviously numerous people commenting on this report.  This is not coming from me.  I have commented twice.  The rest, are all people who know you and hate you because you treat women like sh*.  Then you leave them pregnant and call them "skanks".  Well played.  I personally don't know what she ever saw you and I told her to get rid of you after your first failure as a boyfriend.  But, she stuck it out and defended you with all of her glory.  You truly are disgusting.  If you have now figured out who I am, feel free to personally reach out to me and we'll have a real chat.  But, just to clarify here, I don't speak gangster ghetto.  

Hahaha. I apologize. It's not at all funny.  This creep that everyone has been writing about has the opportunity to refutre the allegations and show that he may actually be a good man who made some mistakes and instead he chooses to write that.   You're just confirming what everyone thinks and knows about you pal.  You're a pig who was raised by farm animals.  I'm glad you turned up to confirm that.

Clearly you are with James.  who said that she was acting "psycho" nobody mentions that in any of their posts.  Nor anyone  mention anything about him wanting to be with someone else? Dd you even read the article? Or are you just writIng what someone tells you to write.   There are half a dozen women on her including an ex fiancé who claim that he has done the same to them.  The ex finances story is just as sick as the original one.  This is not about a boy and a girl.  It's about a man who has spent the last 20 years of his life stepping on women and destroying them.  Who are you that you think it's normal to impregnate someone and leave them in those conditions.  You say you were pregnant? Really? Did the father of your child turn into the devil out of the blue and leave you destroyed while you carried his child? It seems as if you think this s**t is normal.  I'm glad someone chose to expose this guy.  This s**t is not normal.  And it is a "ripoff" this guy gets to go around sleeping with women and spreading more stds while her life is now consumed with motherhood.  She got ripped off big time. So did the ex fiancé who spent 3.5 years of her life on this creep.  And so did the girl who came before her.

You are a real piece of work.  who taught you how to speak?  Ladies, this is the man that broke ya'll hearts? Really? Sounds like a low life street thug.  

This article was posted on April 11th.  I commented on it a few weeks ago so I don't know where your 3 days came from.  If you are the man that all of theses women speak of and that's what you decide to post about the woman who is carrying your child, then you are a deeply troubled man.   Who the hell is employing you? I can not believe that someone would give you a job.  you are in your mid 30s speaking about women like that.  Calling the woman carrying your child a s***k?  Humping and dumping and crank and a whatever ther ghetto english you Used. You need help buddy.  My lord.  I am floored by what I just read.  Your parents must be so proud of you.

In 3 days "someone" has taken a lot of time out of their so-called lives to write falsehoods about me. I am turning the tables on you s***k b*tches. I know who you are s***k, you are just mad that I humped and dumped your s***k a**.

Now its my turn to have some fun. To turn the tables. I am going to create a few of these about you as well.

Plus I have video of you gobbling my crank. Online it goes!!! I hope everyone sees what a s***k you are.

I'm out.

I will never understand people who take the time to talk ill about another person.  I still don't see how is something like this even related to being ripped off.

A woman fell in love with the wrong guy, well like that's never happened to anyone before.  What happened in their relationship is just between them. If the woman was acting all psycho then that's her choice. I've been pregnant so please save me the whole hormonal speech. If the guy decided to be with someone else then he's free to do so.

A lot of stuff posted by the OP makes no sense at all.

I just hope she's okay and the baby is okay and that all those involved -- which should really only be two people, the girl and the guy -- leave each other alone so they can live their lives.

Pav this is seriously pathetic.  Get it together man.  I heard about this, but had to see with my own eyes.  This is bad, even for you.   Wasn't it your birthday this week?  time to grow up dont you think.  You have a kid coming into the world real soon. I suggest you start making some serious changes real fast.  You f**ked around with plenty of women in your life.  Haven't you had enough?

 Someone needs to put this guy on blast on www.thedirty.com  This is ridiculous behavior and women need to be warned.

Simply one the as saddest stories I have ever heard.  I'm speechless.  I also know this man and it makes me sick that nobody is doing anything about this.

Can whoever posted this please take it down.  I don't believe "the girl" who this is about has seen this yet and I think it best that she doesn't.  She is absolutely broken.  In every way.  I know a lot of the comments are meant to support her and try to make her feel better, but I don't think they will.  She does not need to hear this.  Not now. Not for a long time.  This has completely destroyed her.  I think the less she knows about what he is out doing, the better.   She is pregnant and sick to death over all of this.  What she needs is to find peace, which is already impossible for her.  Attacking him and his family and his sexuality and anything else, will not change anything.  Giving her advice like "move on" is not helpful right now.  She can't move on.  she's carrying his child.  It's a lot easier for him to go on with his life than it is for her.   Again, I know this post was meant to defend her.   it will just make her sicker.  Take it down.

No!  Ask yourself that question again and see how ridiculous it sounds.  a straight man definitely watches porn.  But, not gay porn. Or tranny porn.  there's your answer.  This guy is a homosexual and he's 35 which means he's been in the closet for a very long time.  And that would explain his need to hop into bed with the next girl and the next girl and the next girl.  He's confused. And thinks that the more women he has sex with, the less gay he will be.   Also explains why he would leave these women so harshly.  he's taking his frustration out on them.  James you are a homosexual.  And that is fine. Doesn't excuse your piss poor behaviOr.  Once you can admit that your gay, yo will realize that you've been a terrible person.  hopefully for you and everyone else you have hurt along the way you will come to terms with your homosexuality.  

Nailed it.   I said the same thing but she is adamant that he's not.  But I have great reason for thinking so.  When she got home from Switzerland she went to use the house computer.  She checked out recent history. And what does she find you ask? Porn.  A lot of it.  But, not normal straight guy porn.  "free gay porn", "hot tranny fun" "hot Latin tranny" "free s*****e porn" all on spankwire.  She took a photo of the computer screen so she would have it saved.  And she asked him about it when he got home.  

She literally asked him if he was gay and why would he want to see a trannies and a bunch of dudes having sex.  His response was that he was not gay and that he didn't even get off.  I guess my question is, is it normal for a straight dude to check out gay porn? Maybe it is.  I would die if my boyfriend ever did.  Not because I have anything against homosexuality. I'm all for it.  But, I would definitely question everything about our relationship. I can't imagine why a straight man would want to see a bunch of naked men having sex.

Has anyone ever questioned this man's sexual orientation.  It sounds to me like everyone is missing an obvious possibility.  He's gay!  He supposedly loves these women and then becomes mean and hostile out of nowhere, leaves them with no warning only to jump into bed with many other women.  This man may just be in denial which can cause frustration.  In turn, leading him to sleep with a lot of women so that he validate to himself that he is not gay.  Which is a likely possibility.  Being in the closet for that long can cause a lot of frustration and confusion.

Just want to clarify that yes the pregnancy was unexpected by both parties.   But, they had been having sex without condoms or birth control since the beginning of their relationship.  She told him how she felt about abortion early on as they had a pregnancy scare two months into the relationship.  he was the one who asked her if he could ejavulate inside her.  And he did EVERY SINGLE time they had sex except for when they apparently guessed when she was ovulating.  

Which clearly did not work.  But it's not like this was an oopsy moment where he didn't pull out in time.  He knew every single time that he came inside of her that here was a chance she could get pregnant.  When you are 35 years old and opting to having unprotected sex,then you should also know that may come with consequences and responsibility.  except for his case where he just ran away.

This guy has already failed as a father.  Fatherhood begins at conception.  Whether its a boy or a girl they will end up rejecting this man.   a little boy is supposed to look up to his father and one day hope to be like him.  What little boy would want to be like this man.  And a little girl will be so confused about how she deserves to be treated after hearing how her father treated her mother.   James do yourself a favor and stay far away from this child.  It seems you have already hurt enough people.  This is an innocent child that doesn't deserve to have to carry your mistakes around.

If you are so quick to turn on the women you love, theN you can do the same to your child. love is meant to be unconditional. You don't turn it off like a light switch.   In an adult relationship if one person is unhappy then they tell the other person the reasons for their unhappiness and give that person a chance to turn things around.  It sounds like you just run away without giving your partner the opportunity to try and make things better.  You do that when your 12.  

Not when your living with a woman that you impregnate at 35 years old.  And it also seems as if this man not only drops a woman but he then acts like nothing happenEd and starts sleeping with women again.  This guy has self esteem issues and needs to have sex with women to validate his manhood.  You are not a man.  You left your pregnant girlfriEnd.  You can sleep with 100 women in the next week and you will still never be a real man.  Just a heartless man w***e.  Congratulations.  you win absolutely nothing you d****ebag.  

Ok so let me get this straight.  James and his girlfriend are living together and expecting a baby.  They go to Switzerland to visit his family and she acts a bit crazy or makes some irrational decisions.  which lets be honest for a pregnant woman irrational is usually the norm.  He then leaves Switzerlamd without her?  Leaving his pregnant girlfirend "scared and alone" in a foreign country. Just with this alone I am already at a loss for words.  He then goes home, changes the locks of the home they share towing her car away and removing all the furniture from their house.  

Does anyone realize that even without the real or false domestic violence charges, he has abused the crap out of this poor woman emotionally and financially.  James are you reading this? Do you even realize what disgusting behavior this is for a Man.  Whatever that woman may have done, she never in a million years deserves that.  No woman does.  Especially the woman carrying your child.  And as for his family, leave those people out of this.  James is a 35 year old man and can make his own decisions.  

I can't imagine a man at that age letting his family dictate who he can or can not love. They have no say in the matter.  and family if you did involve yourselves then shame on you.  Stay the hell out of it.   this a grown man who chose to be with this woman.  He chose to cohabitate with her.  He chose to bring her to Switzerland to meet you guys.  He also chose to have sex with her without a condom and ejaculate inside of her. did he ask your opinion about that?  I don't think so.    

I have never heard anything like this and this man and his family should be ashamed of him.  Especially from what I am reading and that this seems to be a pattern that he has with women.  You had an ex fiancé that you were with for almost 4 years, you decide to break up with her and continue living with her while seeing and sleeping with other women in front of her.  My goodness.  I am just shocked.  I hope this baby is a little girl.  I want this girl to know how her father treated her mother and all of the women before her.   maybe you will one day understand when a man decides to treat your little girl the way you have treated women.  Maybe that will be your wake up call.

James Pawlowicz, you are a disgusting human being. An animal.  A low life. A loser. A pervert. A pig. A horny little child. A disgrace to humanity.  A narcissist. A selfish b*****d. An insensitive lunatic. A sorry excuse for a man. A self-centered a*****e. An emotionally disturbed psychopath. And a heartless, sex crazed maniac.   I knew that your ways would one day catch up to you.  And your child will one day despise you just like every woman you have ever lied to, cheated on, and whose life you knowingly, willingly, and gladly destroyed.  I'm glad you are finally being exposed for what you really are.  I've been waiting for this for a long time. 

James lacks respect for women in all circumstances.  He has said some sexual and offensive things to me and he's friends with my Boyfriend. I never really feel comfortable around him.  He's a pervert and treats women like they are objects as opposed to people.  As sad as this is, I am not surprised it has happened.  He has a different girlfriend every few months.  And even then, he's off hittIng on women while he is supposedly in a relationship.  I definitely think he has a psychological disorder.

I can not say that this has anything to do with his family.  But I will agree with some of the other posts;   He is 35 years old.  He can't hold on to a relationship. And he discards of women as if they were garbage.  Why is his "loving" family not doing anything about this?   He doesn't think of how messed up it is when he convinces these women that he will spend the rest of his life with them and they are left wondering why they ever trusted him.  Forget the fact that these women are left heartbroken  And in this case, she was left pregnant.  I can not imagine how dillusional someone has to be to be able to leave a women he supposedly loved pregnant and alone.  She must be so sad and my heart goes out to her.  I would not be able to handle that emotionally.  I wish her the best of luck.  As for James, that man is a lost cause.  

I agree with this guy.   If my mother or father ever found out that I changed the locks on my pregnant live-in girlfriend, they would disown me.  And my brother and sister would not want to be associated with me.  Lets forget the fact that this guy then went off sleeping with the next girl that came around.   And the fact that he removed all the furniture from their house and took her car awany while she's pregnant? I mean come on people.  My mother would Die of a heart attack. 

Its nice that the other person is trying to defend his family.  And they me be right and maybe the family has tried to change him.  But, you really don't know someone's family unless you are in that family. Especially if you are an ex girlfriend.  I don't care if you dated him for 10 years.  You only know a small percentage.   Even if you are a friend of his who has known him for 10 years and met the family a bunch.  

You are 100% correct.  And I am coming from an outsiders point of view.  There are many psychopaths out there that had warm and loving families.  I just question how well you actually know them.   It's clear that you know them and have spent time with them. You know he has brothers that are in relationships.  But, how would you know how healthy those relationships actually are? Because youve heard about it? Or you've met them before? If you're not in that relationship, then you don't kNow.  I admit that I am jumping to conclusions based solely on what I have read.  But, you are also jumping to conclusions and  making assumptions of what you have been able to see and what you have heard.   Also, if this guy has done this so many times before, then why isn't his wonderful family setting him straight.  Why would they all him to continue this haneous behavior?  Again, I am not claiming to be right.  And you may actually be a family member in which case, you would definitely have an educated view on all of this.   But, if your not, then your opinion is just as assumed as mine based on what you know and what you have seen in your time with them.  Either way, this guy is a dog.  And someone needs to put him in his place.

These things DO NOT always come from childhood.  You are speaking as though you were a psychologist.  But anyone with a basic knowledge of psychology knows that some people simply are wired differently and are psychopaths/sociopaths with it having nothing to do with the family.  Sure the way you are raised can cause these these things, but it can just as much be the way you are inherently.  Ever heard of nature vs. nurture???

As you don't know the family, I don't think you have any right to speak as to what they are like.  It does not require knowing them from day 1, that is retarded.  Further, James has two brothers, one married several years and another who are both great with their wives/ girlfriends... Why aren't they psychos if the family is as you are just assuming they are (without any personal knowledge of your own).  Seriously, its ridicoulous to make the assumptions you do.  Further, James has enagaged in this behavior before and there were no familial issues whatsoever.  Sorry, but you are jumping to incorrect conclusions.

I haven only met James on two occasions. But I have known the "girl" for a long time and she is a very dear friend to me.  I had the opportinity to read through months worth of texts between the two of them.  But to avoid writing a book, I will simply discuss the last month where James did a 180 with no warning. Just before the Switzerland trip they had a pretty bad fight that led her to leave him for 3 days. In those 3 days, James BEGS for her to come home saying that he refuses to believe it is over and that he would love her forever and one day she will remember that she also loves him.   He told her that he was sorry for being a "d**k" and that he understood she was going through hormonal changes  and he should have been more understanding, but to please come home where she belongs because all he wants to do is make her happy and he hates when he makes her sad.  These messages went on and on.  He continued to profess his love and loyalty to her and her happiness.  In reading, without knowing what hapoens next, I thought wow, this man is so in love with her and just wants to make things right and take care of her, support her etc.  they made up and took off to Switzerland Where you all read what happened.  But it's not only that.  When you read the texse that he sent her just two weeks after the previous set of texts it's as if he were a complete stranger.  Not the same man.  He called her a psychopather told her to go f**k herself and was just ruthless and cold hearted.  And yes, she screamed at him and yes she said mean things to him.  She didn't even know who he was.  She had given this man so many opportunities to make things right and out of nowhere he Jekyll and hydes her while she is begging him, for the first time in their relationship to please stop being so mean and so insensitive and threatening her livelihood.  He spent a week tearIng her apart while he was off with his friends at bars and nightclubs.  Yeah James you a*****e, of course she was mean.  She was scared out of her mind.  You know how hard it is for her to trust someone.  She let you in.  She depended on you.  She counted on yOu and you literally treated her like she was an animal.  We are all extremely Disappointed.  We all believed he really loved her.   So I agree with some of the family and friends comments.  If you could all see how much he loved her two weeks before this all happened, you would also guess that this was not coming from him but from his family and friends.  They made this decision for him.  His decision was to spend the rest of his life with this woman.  I can assure you that through the letters and emails and texts he wrote her.  What he did to her came from somebody else.  Not that excuses a 35 year old man from being able to make his own decisions.

to confirm how disgusting of a human he is, he wrote that she "purposely" left the door open in the bathroom while she was throwing up in the bathroom due to morning sickness, just to annoy him.  Are you f**king kidding me?  I doubt she was thinking of the door when she ran to the bathroom to get sick.  You are a horrifying monster and I wish you nothing but bad things for the rest of our life.  She is an incredible woman Who most people feel fortunate to have in their lives.  How dare you say the things that you have said about her and continue to say about her.  Not to mention, you just make yourself look like a bigger fool.  If this girl were all the terrible things that you are now claiming, then why would you so desperately beg for her to come home to you just two weeks earlier?

To the person who claims to know his family intimately, unless you were in the family and raised alongside this guy, you don't know anything.  What you know is how they behave and act when you were around and what you've heard about his childhood.....stories.....the good ones.  Everyone knows that families have two sides.   What happens behind closed doors.  And what happens in the public eye.  People used to praise my family because they were seemingly perfect.  It was a front.  I can assure you.  If this guy, James has the amount of disrespect that he clearly has for women, that 100% comes from how he was raised and things that he has  seen in his past.  And if he is incapable of true love, that too comes from childhood and your parents, aunts, uncles etc.  from all that I have read, it is not just this one woman.  It's his ex fiancé, and many other girls that he has done this to.  He is 35 years old now.  Way in to his adult years.  He was recently living with a woman who he impregnated and left for dead.   In your 20's you date a lot of women and promise them the world, but you are too young to really plan a future with someone.  When you're 35, I can only assume that youre living with someone because you are planning a real future with them.  I am a 37 year old man.  I've been married for 3 years and couldnT be happier.  And my wife and I had many many horrendous fights, breakups, and many ups and downs in the 2 years we were dating before we got married.  but we fought for our love.  We both knew that we loved each other more than anything in the world and that we would overcome it all.   It seems that James may believe that love is easy.  Well, pal you have a lot to learn.  When you love a woman, there is a lot of pain and heartache and headaches that come with it.  I'm not trying the diminish the previous relationships.  But for this one, she is pregnant with your child you idiot.  it's time to grow up and get the help you need.  And if his family was so wonderful and loving, then they would be telling him the same thing.

Sounds like you probably know James very well too, then.  Especially since you know about his  behavior with women.  Not sure if you're a friend, family member, or another victim.  If you're either of the first two, maybe you should offer some adult feedback and advice, as he doesn't seem to be getting this from anyone else.

James doesn't fight for what he believes in.  Because he doesn't believe in anything.  True love is something you fight for. No matter how hard things get.  It's a cliche but it's true; love conquers all.  And true love can overcome any obstacle.  It seems these two have plenty of obstacles.  But, James isnt man enough to fight....even when his child is going to enter into this world confused and at a huge disadvantage.  That, my friends, is a coward if I've ever seen one.

I have known them intamately for many many years and know the full details of the James childhood, lets leave it at that.

It's probably not that easy for her to find the strength to simply move on.  When you're living with someone as planning your life together........and from one day to the next, your fairy tale is stripped from you with no warning. But on top of everything she is carrying this man's child.  Her life as she knows has ended and she will now be a single mother.  her fairy tale ending has been stripped from her.  I am a mother.  And I can tell you that i can't even imagine going hrough my pregnancy alone.   When your water breaks the first person you want at your side is the father of your child.  When you're  going through the agony of child birth, you want your man holding your hand every step of they way.  And when the doctor hands you your little miracle, you want to celebrate him/her with your lover, your best friend, your man.  This is not just another break up that leaves you heartbroken.  This break up has changed this girl's life forever.  

to the person who commented on his family;  how well do you know them?  I am not saying youre wrong as I can't base my opinion on personal experience or having met them.  It just seems a bit harsh to me that his family did not intervene in a positive manner when she was all alone in Switzerland or when he left her there and flew back to la without her when she went there with him solely to meet them.  Also, the incapacity to love usually stems for the lack of love you received as a child.  There is probably a lot that you don't actually know about this "lovely family" of His.  and again, maybe I am wrong.  

All this would make so much more sense if he had only known this girl for a little while.  How long were these guys together?  How long were they dating before she got pregnant?

Why didn't this girl have any money or credit cards while in Switzerland?  Why couldn't someone immediately wire her money?  How was she "homeless on the streets"  in LA when she got back?  Couldn't she call family?  Why did James initially call the police?  What happened with the domestic violence charge against him?  Did he hit/beat her?

Just a lot of questions with all this. 

A little insight: James actually comes from a very lovely and loving family. He had a normal childhood and there were no family issues.  This behavior comes solely from James and James alone.    If the family hates this girl then it is only because of  things James has told them and led them to believe.

Deep down James is just a very cold person incapable of actual love.  He has been with the "love of his life" many, many times.  This is just wash and repeat behavior.  And he ends them all in the same way, just suddenly walking away and never looking back, hopping into the next warm bed.  There will likely be many more as well.  Not that that's any consolation for the latest (or for that matter any of the previous) girl involved , but hopefully the latest victim will find the strength to move on with her life.

 I'm glad this site is anonymous. So I heard this story hrough a "friend" of James.   For some reason his friends have been backing him through this Which is hard to understand.  I heard she got a bit erratic in Switzerland. Great. So what? She is a woman and she's pregnant.  My take; your girlfirend made a rash decision to break up with you.  Whitch she later apologized for.  Have you ever, just for a moment put yourself in her shoes? No of course you didn't. Because your selfish and self centered.  From what I know this pregnancy was unexpected.  

That in and of itself is a lot to deal with as a woman who was not planning on having a baby. Her hormones are all over the place and essentially running her life. Her boyfriend and the guy she trusted to have her back and love her unconditionally puts her on a train by herself in the middle of a foreign country.   His mom makes a fool of her while he does nothing.  He then leaves her alone.  she admits she was wrong and begs for forgiveness. So now she has the stress of his entire family thinking she's bananas and she has her boyfriend(who is supposed o be her rock) leaving her alone to suffer and let the shame eat away at her.  

He leaves Switzerland without her literally leaving his pregnant girlfriend behind in a foreign country with no money apparently.  She finally makes it back to the country to find that she is locked out of the only home she has and that her boyfriend and father of her unorn child changed those locks on her.   What happened next is a lot of drama with police involved which James called first.  That's right everyone.  james called the police on his pregnant girlfriend when she tried to get back in her own house.  

there was a full week where James had the opportunity to be there for her, support her and show her that he was a good man.  I know he was out and about.....no need for specifics.  So the truth is that James feels he can validate all of this somehow.  How the f*ck can you validate this.  This was a girl you loved very much.  More so than any other woman in your whole life right? You claim she lied to the police and you never touched her. Lets just say thats true.  does it really matter? Think about your behavior before she called the police on You.  

No matter how you look at it you abused the s**t out of this woman buy messing with her head so bad, abandoning her, neglecting the child growing inside her belly And forget about the financial abuse.  You can try to justify this however you'd like james but you are wrong.  And your friends are to p*ssy to tell you that.  And your family is all sorts of messed up. the fact that they allowed you to leave your pregnant girlfirend by herself is enough.  I don't know your family,  but you clearly have issues that stem from them.

youll never be able to truly understand what happens to the mind of a pregnant woman.  But, I wish you would have educated yourself a bit more so that you could have shown her love and support rather than neglect and shame. You are wrong James.  And you going about with your friends laughing about this like its some sort of joke makes me sick.  The things you have said about this poor woman and the terrible names you have called her........she is a girl that not too long ago was your queen.  And this queen is carrying your child. the more I hear about it the more sick i Get.  How could you.  Show some respect.  You asked her to move in with you.  

YOU made it a point To tell your friends she is the one.  so you're now making yourself look like an idiot by trashing her the way you are. this is so beyond f**ked up.  And I have never seen a more disgusting display of manhood.  You need to take a step back and look at the whole picture, that is if you can pull yourself away from your college lifestyle of meeting and flirting with women every day.  What's wrong with you.  Your childhood must have been so messed up for you to feel ok about all of this.

james is a creep and has zero respect for women.  He works for a company called AMA project management.  And apparently, the owner of the company supports this type of behavior even though he has two daughters of his own.   He is 100% aware of all the facts about this situation and has done absolutely nothing.   Not only that, but he supports James on all of this.   He should also be ashamed of himself.  Pathetic.  James, you need a soul transformation. Or a soul implant.  Because, you clearly don't have one.  

First off I want to say that James, you are a sad individual.   how are you comfortable in your own skin?  But, secondly,  I want to say that its probably best to keep your comments somewhat sensitive.  She may not be reading this yet, or maybe she is. But, if and when she does, I don't think it's going to be easy for her to hear that this devil is already in a new relationship or hanging out with girls or sleeping with random girls, or all of the above.  Remember that not too long ago, she was in love with this guy, living with him and planning to spend the rest of her life with him.  And she is still, unfortunately carrying his child.   she must be a wreck.  My heart goes out to you, my dear.  and I commend you for fighting for the life of this baby.  Stay strong.

I would like to say that I know that James really loved this woman very much.   i strongly believe its was his family who forced i him in this direction.   Because before the trip we never saw him or heard from him because he wanted to spend all of his time with this girl.  I don't think his love was a fraud.  On the other hand, I have to admit that I very much agree with most of these posts.  What  I know of James is that he is a good decent guy and he was loyal and loving to this girl until his family took control of the relationship. I really don't know what's going on in his head right now.  And I don't think he realizes yet how terrible he is acting.  I know he is pissed off because he was arrested but I also know that he was the one who brought the police and the law ino this relationship. For no good reason really. This girl is pregnant and hormonal and he should have understood that and supported her rather than turn on her the way he did.  He is acting very immaturely and it doesn't help that his friends and family are not giving him the proper advice which would be to turn this around now before it's too late.   he is just pointing a finger and a blaming her for everything rather than taking any responsibility whatsoever.   I dont think his friends are mature enough to give him proper adult advice.  And I don't know him enough at that level.  If anyone reading or following this knows James well then I believe you should intervene.   He does need a bit of a wake up call.  And the people he considers his friends are all a bit immature so they are just treating this whole thing as a joke rather than realicing that he is having a child with this woman who he was very much in love with.  And he needs to remember why he fell so in love with her, and focus on that rather than all of the negative energy that is surrounding both of them.  He also needs to step up and give her her car back and provide a financially stable environment for her and his unborn child.  Sorry if your  reading this James.   I don't know you well enough to have a one on one with you.  But hopefully you'll read this.  Didn't mean to call you out. But I come from strong family background where women would never be treated this way.  And I don't care what you say she did,  I already heard the story.  It was a cry for help. An act of desperation.  You want to know what led her there.  It was you buddy.  You alone led her There.  It's time for you to stop being so bitter and recognize your role in all of this And man up.

James is already in a new relationship and he is happy.  It does seem little bizarre that a month ago, he brought this girl half away across the world to meet his family, he was living with her, and he loved her, and a month later he is happy with a new woman while his pregnant ex is left all alone.  But, this is the case.  He certainly did not waste any time at all

TMI in this post. have some class, and stick with the matter at hand. 

As some of you may know, he has An Asian fetish.  Not to date Asians, but to f* them.  There is one poor girl in particular who I knew about because James cheated on my friend with her.  He said that their relationship was strictly sexual even though she wanted more but he could never love her. He allegedly has sex with this girl in between all of his relationships. It's his go-to Asian.  I wish I couse remember her name because I wous love nothing more than to warn her.  Whatever your name is, please know that James has been using you and toying with you for years.  You're better than that.  he claims that you're totally in love with him and that he could never love you back and that you were just a sex object to him.  You fell for his charm like everyone else.  But, you need to respect yourself and know that you are worth more and you deserve better.

It's crazy how many women know this guy and all have terrible things to say about him.  And thank you for  the support from those who don't know him, but see how disgusting he is.  My friend is not well and luckily has not read this post.  I'm not sure it would make it any easier on her to hear all of these terrible things.  But, no she is not hoping for a reconciliation.   Yes, she loved him very much.  And yes, she had hoped to bring a child into this world with a full, happy family.  But, she is coming around.   She realizes that a man that would leave her in this condition to basically starve in slum conditions that the house was left in, without a car, is not really a man at all. She did not get the furniture or the car back.  He's actually storing the furniture in a storage unit.  That's right, he paid top dollar to have it moved from the house into storage rather than let his pregnant girlfirend have a couch to sit on. And rather than provide for her and her unborn child, he would rather use that money to pay for his furniture to be unused.  he would rather buy drinks for random women at bars, than use that money to attend family counseling.  He is seriously dating and flirting with women every single day.  I dont even think he cares whether she liVes or dies.  two weeks ago, she started hemorrhaging severely and had to walk 6 miles to the emergency room drenched in blood Because she had no car.  She believed she was having a miscarriage, as did the doctors.  Turns out, she has anu unusually large subchorioniC hemorrhage that will last the course of the pregnancy. She showed the emergency room paperwork and a letter from her doctor demanding bed rest until further notice,  do you know what he and his attorney said when she was forced to go to court "she looks perfectly fine to me".  Rather than cut her some slack, they are now forcing her to go to bumble f**k for a deposition for 8 hours.  a real man should have turned to his attorney and said "the health of my unborn child is at risk here. Please let her rest".  he said nothing.   This guy is a real piece of s**t.  And she is finally seeing clearly now.  She is sad and heartbroken, but knows he is a monster.  And knows that he is not worth it.  He has and continues to make it very clear that this is who he Is.  And the man that she fell in love with was just an act that he put on to reel her in.    she is not well.  She still cant eat or sleep. She has nightmares when she does sleep.  He has destroyed her dreams and she can never get that back.  Every woman's dream is to one day find their Prince Charming, have a family, and grow old together, happily.  This has traumatized her and I don't know if she will ever fully recover.  

Well ladies, let's hope he is found guilty of felony domestic violence.... If so that means he will likely lose his Visa and have to scoot back to under his rock in the UK.  Knowing him, he will likley worm his way back into this poor girls heart so that he can get the charges dropped and then return his horrific ways.  Let's just hope that doesn't happen.  As stated before, and by many people on this page, he has a long history of this kind of behavior and as we all know, leopards are not likley to change their spots.

I am so glad that someone made a post about this creep.  It horrifying what new disgusting behavior keeps popping up with each post.  Who knows what else will come to light?  Truly frightening that such a despicable man is out there.

Question: What is the latest status update on the girl that is carrying his child?  Is she doing better?  Has she gotten her car and furniture back?  I really hope that she is doing a little better now and not still hoping for a reconciliation.

This guy is a clown.

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Dude, you're a 35 year old going out to bars and clubs to pick up women while your recent ex is carrying your child and you're not with her for even moral support.  What the hell is wrong with you? Were you raised by animals? It's men like you that make the rest of us look bad. You should be at home, reading books about how to be a father.  You should be going to doctors appointmnets and doIng everything to ensure the health of your child. You should be financially assisting the mother of your unborn child.  You do not become a father when the child is born, you d**k. You become a father the moment your child is conceived.  the very moment you chose not to wear a condom and allowed your sperm to penetrate her egg, you are responsible.  Those first 9 months will decide the entire future of your chiLd.  That poor woman is suffering, probably stressing, and may not be able to afford the proper prenatal treatment that a healthy child needs.   Your child can be born with all sorts of disorders and defects because of the neglect during a pregnancy. And YOU will be at fault if it does.  And you will be responsible for the rest of your life.  Get your head out of your a**.  Did you really think it was ok to impregnate a woman that you supposedly loved and then leave her alone because it got a little tough? You do that in a relationship that doesn't have factors like a child coming into the world.  And even then, you wouldn't do it the way you did it.  not at your age buddy.  If you were living with this woman, then got her pregnant, then like everyone else on this page has said, you go to family counseling and you work on the relationship.  If all efforts fail, then you separate like two adults who tried everything. But, man you didn't even give any effort.  You just ran the other way.  And are now focused on getting your d**k sucked by the next girl who comes your way?  You are a disgrace.  Not just to men.  But, to humanity.  If this guy is going on dates and going to clubs so soon after breaking up with "the love of his life", then I can assure you that he never loved this woman.  I am very much in love.  And I can tell you tha if I broke up with my girl for whatever reason, it would be a very long time before I was able to date again.  A true heart that feels real love, does not move on that quickly.  You are a heartless pr**k.

Do any of you guys realize that there is much more to his story.  James Pawlowicz was arrested a few weeks ago for domestic violence Against this woman.  He has hired high powered attornies to defend him and his employer is backing him up.  Most employers would either fire a man like this or at the very least, sit him down and talk some sense into him and give him a warning.  He works for one of the most prestigious project management firms in Los Angeles, which makes this story even better for the readers.  This firm works with very high profile Hollywood clients.  I am a researcher for a journalist who wants to publish this story.  I have attemptEd to get in touch with the victim, but she will not respond to emails.  Does anyone have her phone number? Or is the original author available for an interview?  This man does not deserve to be going out and about "partying" and having sex with women, while this poor girl suffers through this pregnancy alone. Please stand up and help us share this story with the world and put this character in his place.

I know this guy from way back.  James, I hope you're reading this mate.  You have fu**ed around a lot.  You have had your fun.  All of your old friends are married with families and settled down. It's time to wake up.  There is talk about this already on this side of the pond.  I don't know what this girl did that you feel she deserves this, but I can tell you that she doesn't. No woman in the world deserves this.  I know you loved this woman.  Spoke to an old mate who told me that you were happy and very much n love.   Figure your s**t out and like everyone else on here has said you really need to grow up.  this woman has your child growing inside of her.   You towed her car and left her with no money?  I promise that this will come back to haunt you if you don't make it right now.  I don't mean any disrespect to your parents but they need to back off. You are supposed to be a grown man.  When my bird was pregnant she punched me in the face, kicked me in the b*lls, slapped me 6 dozen times, yelled at me as if I were a dog and it goes on and on and on.  you know what I did? I told her I loved her and went out and bought her her favorite treats.  You changed the locks of your house where she lived and took her car away from her.  You need to take a good look at yourself mate.  This is not acceptable.  I have to agree with another report and say that this a poor display of manhood.    I don't know what California has done to you but it is not pretty.   Go to family counseling immediately.  Especially since she offered it to you.  you owe it to your child.   I will be following this report for updates.  I hope to hear about a turn around in your behavior soon.   And I don't live in Alabama.

This man has a small p*nis with nasty a** 80 year old man b*lls that are wrinkly and hang down to his knees.   And sex lasts about 5 minutes and he has no idea how to please a woman. It's all about him.  So, m not even sure how he lands these women.  Again, it's probably his charm.  if he didn't have that accent, he would just be some tall, skinny, hairy man with terrible teeth.  I remember looking at a photo of him after we stopped hanging out, and wondering what I saw in that ugly, nasty man.  You're gross James!   You had a real shot of finally growing up and taking care of a woman and your child. And you blew it.  And now you're off meeting new women already? What is wrong with you?  If you don't fix this soon, your child will end up hating you for the rest of your life.  And for good reason. I wouldn't want a man like you around my child. 

I used to have sex with James Pawlowicz.  He led me to believe it was more.  But, later I realized it was just dirty, filthy sex.  He refused to wear a condom.  Even for our first time.  so, I'm not surprised he got someone pregnant.   he also gave me an STD, so please be careful.  I'm pretty sure he was still living with his ex-fiancé when we were hanging out.  He never treated me to a dinner or even treated me like a lady.  He has no idea how to treat a woman.  He's just a horny man, who has no respect for females.  He also acts like he is in some college fraternity.  I can't believe that he has not grown up at all. This guy is disgusting.  It's like he is having some competition between his friends to see who can get laid the most.  His friends are pigs too. I don't remember the name of his friend, but he was like 50 years old.

i am so very sorry for your friend.  James is quite the charmer. And he'll use his charm to get what he wants.  Once he has often everything he needs(sex), he's off to the next victim. Without any reason or explanation. He's just gone. James, you make me sick. Do the women of the world a favor and swallow a whole bottle of pills so you don't wake up tomorrow morning.  Do yourself the same favor. I can't believe that you are ok with yourself and that your conscience allows thou to continue living.

James, grow up.  You're a pig.  You're 35 and going out picking up women when your girlfriend or recent ex is pregnant and scared?  And you're not even giving her any money to help out with the baby that YOU put inside of her.  You're gross and you make me sick.  You should take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror to see what you've becomeodor what you've always been according the ex fiancé   It's time to make a huge change.  and what is wrong with your family? They're totally messed up to.  Which is why you're probably all screwed up.  You left your pregnant girlfriend who you loved and adored because you're family told you to? What are you like 10? Grow up.

I am sorry to have to say this, but I can confirm that James is out and about, single as ever hitting on and flirting with plenty of women. I am one of those women.  And there was no mention of a pregnancy.  I am really sorry for your friend. James is a total creep.  And it is sad that a man like that gets the opportunity to be a father, and throws it away before the child is even born.  What is this poor child going to think of him when she or he learns what he did to his mother?  He does not deserve the opportunity to be a dad.  I hope I see him out so I can slap him and spit on him. Total loser.

That is so sad.  Who does that? No, seriously.....who? He couldn't have the decency to wait until he got his own place? That's another thing I don't understand. From what we could all see, he worshipped our friend.   A week later, he's off sleeping with skanks while she's at home crying....and pregnant with his child.  Here's the worst part, it's not even like he sat her down to have a serious, adult talk about where the relationship was or was Not going.  She broke up with him many times.  As he would beg for daysfor her to take him back. She allowed him to state his case, and always allowed him to right his wrongs.  

Then, they have an argument, his family meddles and gets way too involved, and I assume they told him to feet rid of her.   When they reunited after Switzerland, he still told her he loved her and missed her and was sorry.  And then, from one day to the next, he started treating her like s**t.  He didn't come home some nights and didn't even call her or text her that he wouldn't be.  They never even officially broke up.  You would think that there would be a conversation in there somewhere and that the future of the child would be discussed.  Nothing.  And no mourning from his end either.  He was back in the sack with fresh meat, while she thought they were still together.

I have to be honest....I have never in my life seen such a piss poor display of manhood. He must be over compensating for his small p***s.

I am so glad that your friend has found happiness.  And I understand her not wanting any part Of this.  As for my friend, she is  stuck with this 35 year old loser who looks to his parents to make all of his big decisions for him.  He is the biological father of her child....really just the sperm donor.  And for everything he has and is putting her through during his pregnancy, he doesn't deserve to be in the child's life.

i wish there was a better way to warn the good women out there.  He can have the skanks.....he belongs with them.

When James broke up with my girlfriend initially, they were still living in the same apartment.  He would already be flirting with other girls online in front of her and going out with some of them (and likely sleeping with them).  She was of course upset by this behaviour and he acted like she was koo koo for being upset.  Seems like this behavior is definitely his M.O.

As for the money thing, that is not surprising either.  Although she initially paid for everything, when she was laid off he still expected her to pay for half of everything and never helped her out.  So its not shocking that he is not giving her any money or support with this baby.  But child support is easily enforceable by law and deadbeat dads can even be sent to jail for not paying, so she shouldn't worry about that.

As for speaking with my girlfriend, I doubt that she would want to get involved with this.  The entire thing put her through the ringer at the time and I don't think she would want to dredge up all that horror.  She is engaged and happy now.

My heart truly goes out to your friend.  I hope that she can get past all this and focus on her child and getting healthy.  Try to be there as much as she can, she will definitely need all the support she can get.

For posting all of those extra photos.   We didn't have access to any other photos.

Was he ever aggressive or violent with her?  

thank you for your post.  My friend knows all about your friend.  Of course, James gave a completely different version of the story, but we all know he is a liar.  My friend is also very tiny and is 4 months pregnant and weighs 110lbs.  She can't eat or sleep etc.  On March 5th, he sent her multiple texts which we all have read saying that he would love her forever and she was the love of his life etc.  On March 15th, he left her at a train station by herself, pregnant with no money, in the middle of Switzerland.  That is 10 days after he told her that he would love her forever.  He is a disgusting human being.

Also, a recent update.....when she finally made it back, he had been going out drinking, staying at hotels.  Turns out, he's already havng sex with other women.  One is 100% confirmed.   My friend is pregnant, scared and alone, and he's off partying and having sex. He is a 35 year old man, with a child on the way and he's out and about having random sex, and spending his money at nightclubs.  Meanwhile he has not given or offered to give $1 toward pregnancy expenses and food and whatever else she needs to ensure the health of her unborn child.   Is there any way to contact you directly? I have a feeling my friend should speak to your friend.  I don't know if there is a way to contact you personally through this site?

Unfortunately this is not the first time this individual has engaged in such behavior. 

James dated one of my best friends several years ago.  They dated for three and a half years.  She supported him when he first moved to the states.  They were engaged to be married.  Then he one day out of nowhere he  just broke things off.  She became very sick over his whole treatment of her and lost over 20 lbs (she is tiny to begin with and ended up weighing 97 lbs).  She had crazy anxiety over the entire thing.  After he had broken up with her he still tried to sleep with her on several occasions and would then lambast her for still being "attached to him."

Fortunately, she was not pregnant with his child.  He told my best friend a story where he said he had left a previous girlfriend out of nowehere as well.  He stated that he "just woke up and didn't want to be with her anymore."  But my girlfriend never saw this coming with her as he had promised her all kinds of things and was incredibly convincing.

However, ultimately she was still so much better off as she was only left with an extremely broken heart and a drained bank account.  I hope your friend feels better.  She should try to stay away from him as much as possible because he will only screw with her head more.  She now has to think about her health and the health of her baby. 

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James was engaged to a friend of mine as well.  She had the exact same experience as your friend had (minus the being pregnant part).  He initially swept her off her feet and then ended up becoming a completely different man.  She initially supported him when he first moved to the states and he very much took advantage of her.  He left her out of nowhere.  He f**ked with her mind so badly that she lost over 20 lbs and became incredibly sick. After they separated he still tried to

sleep with her on several occasions. 

He also has a track record of having done this with another girl as well.  Your friend would do well to stay away from him as much as possible.  He is an incredibly narcissistic man and will only continue to hurt her.  I am really sorry for you friend and I hope she gets better soon.

James was engaged to a friend of mine as well.  She had the exact same experience as your friend had (minus the being pregnant part). 

He initially swept her off her feet and then ended up becoming a completely different man.  She initially supported him when he first moved to the states and he very much took advantage of her.  He left her out of nowhere.  He f**ked with her mind so badly that she lost over 20 lbs and became incredibly sick. After they separated he still tried to sleep with her on several occasions. 

He also has a track record of having done this with another girl as well. 

Your friend would do well to stay away from him as much as possible.  He is an incredibly narcissistic man and will only continue to hurt her.  I am really sorry for you friend and I hope she gets better soon.

Have you seen who he hired as his attorney? Please google Paula Glickstein. The VERY first google search result are complaints filed against her. Please read some of the things that were said about her. I spoke to my friend who is a family law attorney and he too, told me some frightening things about her. Either he hired her purposely to mess up her entire life. Or he has no idea what he has gotten himself into. But, then again, it's 2013. You would think that he probably googled her before handing over his money to her. You should be ashamed James. You clearly do not care about your child's future or the mother who is carrying your child.

She is currently without a car because he towed it to an unknown location. He also, moved all of the stuff out of their house leaving her with a pillow and mattress. These are things that I have witnessed. I would NOT be writing these things unless I was 1000% certain of them.

As much as I appreciate everyone's opinion, you're way off here. This is not hearsay. And she is not claiming to have been a perfect angel. I have known this girl for a very long time and have never seen her in this condition. She lost 12 lbs and she is already underweight. As far as her "getting" pregnant, are you serious? First off, I never mentioned how long they were together so how would you know? They were living together and planning their future together. Secondly, why didn't you say, he's not smart for impregnating her? She just miraculously got pregnant. Also, we(all of her friends) have tried to give this guy an olive branch by speaking to him(without taking sides), and he has completely dismissed her and trashed her as if she were some animal. We have read the texts and the emails. So again, this is not hearsay. This is based on facts. Sorry you're wife stabbed you. But, it seems you are a better man than he will ever be, by sticking by her side through her hormonal roller coaster. I commend you for that.

Ok I am a father of two amazing kids , first off I have a real problem with someone writing Negative things about someone else that seams to be all hearsay. As described by yourself You are going off what your pregnant friend has said who being so emotional and hormonal Imbalanced has more than likely has exajerated everything by 800% lol. So before you try and Ruin someone's character maybe have your friend post the actual facts. She doesn't sound so Smart getting pregnant after dating a guy for a short time. And no women was worse than my wife Was when she was pregnant. She stabbed me she was so mad at me. And we are living happily ever After

First off, let me start off by saying that I am a father of two beautiful girls, with my third on the way. My wife is 6 months along. I can attest to the fact that hormones take over a woman's life. And the first few months are the hardest because their bodies are confused. Their minds are confused. Their whole being is changing and it happens overnight with no warning. My wife cries, yells, gets outraged for no reason etc. I just keep telling her how much I love her. Because as hard as it is on me, I know that it is 100 times harder on her. This guys(James) sounds like a heartless man.

I can not believe what i just read. It is truly sad. And I am very sorry that your friend is going through all of this alone. I can't even imagine. It's hard enough being pregnant, but to have to deal with the stress of court, and having an insensitive man who you planned on spending your life with do the things he is doing, is just unimaginable. This is what's wrong with the world. That poor innocent child's life will suffer from all the decisions he is making right now. He needs a good slap in the face and a wake up call.

As for his family hating her. That's just bullshit. She and this baby are his family. And if he made a choice to love her, then that is his choice. I agree with the author above. Families will come along eventually..... As an adult, you make a decision who you love period. And family counseling is a great option. My wife and I went, and it was incredible for us. If he's not willing to try that now, then he doesn't care about he future of his child. He is arrogant and selfish. Wake up James!

This child is the rest of your life. And if your girlfriend still loves you after what you have done, then you should consider yourself very lucky, and make things right by her and you. Nothing in the world matters, no matter what has happened. She and your child should be your priority. And if you want to ignore this, and continue on your path, I can assure that it will be a very long, dark path for you. And sadly, your child as well. I am outraged!

I have two beautiful daughters, and my wife is pregnant with our third. As a man, I can tell you that my beautiful, loving wife transforms Into someone else when she's pregnant. It is not easy. But, I just think about what she's going through. She's the one who has her hormones running her life, whose body is changing, and who is overwhelmed with things that are out of control. This guy(James) seems like a real piece of work. I'd like to have a man to man talk with him. He needs to GROW UP. I agree with the author above. His family is his family. His pregnant girlfriend/wife is his new family, and if he loved her, then he knew her enough to know why he loved her.

The family clearly did not. And really, they should step back and let him be a man no makes his own decisions. Then again, it's true. It's probably not their fault. It's his. It sounds to me, that either he never loved her, or he got pissed off about the pregnancy? OR just let her hormones get the better of him without doing his research. Either way, there is absolutely no excuse for his behavior. None. He needs to make amends or he will spend the rest of his life regretting it. Also, my wife and I have been to counseling. And it works. He should at least give it a try. If that doesn't work, then fine. But, leaving her in her condition is just weak and pathetic. Infuriating for a good man like myself.

I re-read the post to get some info for my blog. Does his family really "hate her". If so, why? When families get deeply involved in relationships, problems arise. Again, depending on his age, this is all too strange. He can't possibly be a grown man. As a grown up, IF you actually love someone you can work at the relationship with the extended families. It is certainly not an excuse to leave them while they're pregnant. If you have already made the decison on your own to love someone then you love them with no question. Families come around. Sometimes takes time. My parents hated my boyfriend for two years! Now, they love him as if he were their son. This is all just too bizarre. James, if you're out there reading this, please get it together. It's never too late to turn things around no matter how bad they have gotten. If you ever loved this woman, really loved her, then turn it around.

I really want to know how old this guy is? If he's 18, it explains a lot, but still doesn't make it right. If he's in his 30's, then this is just unacceptable.

I am also around 3 months pregnant. I can't even imagine what your friend is going through. I am such an emotional wreck. My boyfriend has been so incredibly supportive and patient with me. I have broken up with him about 10 times in this week alone. I have said terrible things. I have thrown things at him. I have slammed doors for no good reason. It's like an alien has taken over my body. Whatever she was going through, and whatever she did, he should have just understood that it was not personal. What he is doing is just awful. Family counseling is a great option. One he should jump on for the sake of their child. If he ever really loved her, he would find a way to make it work no matter how bad things have gotten. If he can't it's probably because he never loved her. Sorry to have to say it. He also must be very young. Is he an adult or a teenager. A real man would not behave this way. I do not care what she did or said. She has the pregnant card. And he should have let her use it. Such a sad story. Thank you for posting and sharing and warning other women. I will post about him on my blog to warn my California women about him.