Complaint Review: Amanda Pace - Jamestown New York

I get a call asking how they(Child Support Collection) can get ahold of Damon as he is currently $10,000 behind in child support. He has still not made even ONE payment. Glad I did'nt hold my breath for it. Time is on my side..Im crackin up right now. I was informed that he currently has a warrent for his arrest from the Family Court. His name was also posted in our news paper for owning over $4500 a that time. I'm just wondering how long he thinks he can run from this....

First you continue to call me trash, which is un-true. I also did not know your husband was married BEFORE I layed it down with him, but found out later. So get that straight. Also you keep talking about my son being un-wanted and not benifiting by having his DADDY around and your daughter has hers. Well sweet heart, hate to be the one to tell you this but your husband DID selll drugs when he came to town and that is ONE of the reasons I DID dismiss him. When I SEEN it. Gotti also did stay at my house for weeks on end. In Oct through the middle of Nov of '04 when he went back to NYC for Thanksgiving. Then he came BACK again right after the new year and stayed then to. So yeah you must of been real busy not to notice him missing in action. We broke up at the end of Jan of '05. I found out about you in June. As far as you not wanting to respond to this ripoff report, you started it and goes to show your not as mature as you claim. I don't want anything from him, please believe that. I also do everything you claim you do and have everything I need to raise my children as well. I also have someone who is my son's "father" so to speak. I don't need Damon nor do I want him. BUT since I am supporting my child that he made with me(and we did use condoms and I was on the patch) he should have to as well. I am smarter than you believe. I gave him chance after chance to support his son without using the courts and he choose to tuck his tail and run. Also I would'nt allow my son to come to your house or leave my sight with that man, so don't worry about my son over shining your daughter. You got him to be a good father to your daughter good for you. I can do better by myself, believe that. I also sent custady papers to him and they were sent back, saying he no longer lived there. I tried to have his rights revoked but I cant without using the address he provided to the courts. There will be a day when MY son will want to face the man who made him and that will be his choice. I have nothing against you or your child nor would I say anything ill towards yours, but yet you continue to talk ill about my son and myself. Honey, you have no clue what I have been through or what I am like as I know nothing about you either. You started by writing the original text here. I also seen a picture of your daughter and still believe I might have it from when he left it on my TV stand back in '05. I also have already seeked legal advice and I am persuing it. You had no right to post my name on the internet like this. You don't even know all the facts. But you are right about one thing, there are three sides to every story, HIS-HERS-and the TRUTH. I also have my cell phone bills from ;05-'07 with his numbers on it, with him calling in. The last time he was here was about two years ago in Oct. when I drove to NYC and picked him and his friend up. Although I will not disclose his friends name on here. Honestly, I am sorry that you are still legally married to him and that child support is asking for your information. This has nothing to do with you. But the courts think that is the correct thing to do and I won't argue with that. As this is the law. The order for support was finalized almost a year ago and he still has not made a payment so what did he think they were going to do? It was explained to him in court. All I want is what is fair. the 300 dollers a month is'nt even a small fraction of what I make, so I thought I was being fair, and I had the birthing cost removed. Also just for your information, I was pulled off from work due to complications and that is why Medicaid stepped in to help cover the expense of the birth. Please don't get it twisted up. I am a grown woman and I do grown woman things. Why not just tell your husband to pay the court ordered child support? Thats all it would take for them to leave you alone. Not that hard to understand right? The further he gets behind the more problems he creates. He is already over 7,000 in the hole as I did not ask for the first year back from him, once again trying to be fair. As far as the PR woman, there were two, one did have his baby and resides in the Bronx. Her son is younger than mine. Your husband had told me one time that he did'nt want to be like his father...seems to me from what he told me he is. I know alot more about your husband than you think as we have spent more than one night together. Believe what you want, I don't care. I know what happened between your husband and myself as I was there and you were not. If you want to know anything else about me or mines feel free to come holla at me personally. Your husband still has my phone number it has not changed. I'm sure you guys will hear from the courts soon enough. Once again I will remain a Lady...

I have heard enough from these people trying to justify a wrong and make it a right. I have better things to do than go back and forth with whomever over my feelings. I take the same stand I took when I originally posted and nothing has changed. As long as I and my daughter are not effected, I could careless what any of you or my husband has to say for that fact. He took his stand, I took mine and Amanda has taken hers. The End.... I won't read anymore of their unimportant post so if there is a response, it will go unread. That is it for me....THE END!

First Amanda's mom, no disrespect to you but to condone your daugher dating a married man is sad. You should have encouraged your daughter to make better choices since obviously she is already raising 1 child without being married and now has a second child to raise again without the support of the father. It takes more to raising a child then just financial support. It takes two loving parents to raise a child. Why would you encourage her to be with someone you know is married? I don't know Amanda and really wish her the best. Your statement about my husband wanting to divorce me and marry Amanda sounds like a lie as Amanda stated she didn't even now he was married. So, I tend to doubt anything that you are telling me is the truth. The child might have been wanted by Amanda but is clearly an unwanted child by my husband. Yes, he should have been more careful but then again, they both should have. I am a mother and would never condone such behavior from my daughter Amanda, as I told your mother I have no issues with you and the purpose of my original post was to vent. Like I said, I am the true innocent person in this and of course angry. I wish you know ill will and hope the best for you and Quincy. You are more than welcomed to pursue any legal recourse against me you feel you might have. Let me just let you know that my husband and I were seperated when you might have had your little romp in the hay stack. Because you put stuff in the papers, doesn't make it true. I truly believe you and my husband have managed to embellish the truth. You said what you said and he told me what he told me. Do I believe either one of you 100%, no. I am aware that both men and women lie to justify a means. Case in point, he is harassing me when you know he wasn't and I know he wasn't. That was your lie and not his. He stayed at your house for weeks at a time, bull. If anything, maybe a night but weeks, highly doubt that. As he would travel to Jamestown, he was never gone more than a few days at a time, not like NYC is across the street so he would have been missed by the girlfriend he had in New York. Yes, I am fully aware that he was dating when we were separated. Not a surprise to me as I was doing my thing also. I was just smart enough not to have unprotected sex with strangers. I am sure you are happy to never have been arrested and neither have I. When you try to attack my character, don't try by attacking my husband. I am college educated, hard working like yourself as you say and fully capable of supporting my kid with or without a father. Never never ever on social service. I work every day. You say you saw his true colors and dismissed him, he was never yours to have so I doubt if he was dismissed. More like the one night stand he claimed you to have been. You made a choice for him not to see your son, it appears from your own statement that he didn't want to. It was a mistake on his behalf and never the fairy tale ending you wanted to have been. Now to you Shawna. I have politely addressed Amanda's mother and tried to be polite to Amanda. You I don't care about because you have no real stake or say in the matter, you are a nobody to me but thanks for all the attention you have shown me. The PR girl that you refer to is someone I am very familiar with. I know her mother, brothers and other family members. We hung together in the hood and I know her baby daddy and it ain't my husband. Stay on the facts and discuss what you consider to be your business and not my husbands. I don't have to act like upstanding citizen because I am all you want to be when you grow up. I am a real lady, who don't need my husband, social service or anything else for me or my child. I make d**n good money and believe me when I say d**n good. I have never in my life sold drugs or used them. I have a 401k, pension, savings account all in my name. I drive my own car, live in my own house and raise my daughter. I have handled my husband for your information, and believe he is still paying the price if that makes you happy. I have no anger towards the little boy as I understand that he didn't ask to be here. It is your sister who appears to be the trash for sleeping with someone she didn't know that well. I had a ring on my finger and was still receiving support for my daughter even when separated. You say my husband is a drug dealer, well that makes you stupid for allowing a drug dealer to live around kids. I guess he was more important then the welfare of the child. Hhhhmmm not a good look, but you sa I am looking stupid....if you say so, my daughter however benefits by having her father...maybe you should research the word stupid as it might just have your picture next to it. I never got played because I got what it takes to make sure I get what I need for me and my child. Take lessons from your sister so you don't find yourself in the same predicament with unwanted children running around the place. Maybe you should get neutered or spaded so you can't produce any children that are not wanted. My post cleary but the blame on both parties. Not just 1. It says in case you weren't clear "Some of the woman should actually take more time to get to know some of the people they choose to have children with and man should be more careful laying down with woman they don't know."

Wow, all i can say is the woman who wrote this has no idea who her husband is. I hope she can see this and know i have met her husband many times. This was not a one night stand and my sister isn't the only woman her husband was with. He kept a girlfriend in jamestown a puerto rican woman for years so u been cheated on many times. Amanda's son is beautiful and loved very much by our family. This woman's husband is a drug dealer so why she is trying to act like she is an upstanding person and her husband is to they are not. How are you gonna take out your anger on a little boy and not a man..hmm..how about your husband who has lied to you from the start, he knew the whole time she was pregnent he lived with her and took care of her first son while she was working. My sister holds down a job matter of fact she is a respected call center manager. I felt the need to respond to this obviously not so smart woman because her husband as she knows cheats on her all the time. I think it's time for her to face the facts and stop pointing the finger at my sister. He has seen his son and promised my sister the moon and stars but she doesn't deal with him cuzz he is trash. Lady you can gloat all u want on your daughter and be ignorant but your the one looking stupid. I am happy my sister is taking that trash for childsupport he wanted this baby so he can pay for it, i think 3 years of her supporting his son it's time to pay up on the fathers half.Grow up stop posting stupid things u have no idea about on the internet if they had a website for ignorant wifes who get played i'd make a nice case # for you. Thanks You Have A Great Day.....Shawna

I figured since you want to explote my name, I should return the favor, Marlise and Damon Nesmith.

I figured since you want to explote my name, I should return the favor, Marlise and Damon Nesmith.

I figured since you want to explote my name, I should return the favor, Marlise and Damon Nesmith.

I figured since you want to explote my name, I should return the favor, Marlise and Damon Nesmith.

I am this woman who you have decided to bash on the internet. I am also looking into this from a legal point of view. I had no idea that my son's father had a wife, as he lied to me. I even asked him BEFORE we did anything sexual. If you read the papers that were sent to your house like you claim you did, then you would have read that we had a relantions for over five months. That does not include AFTER my son's birth. This was NOT a one night stand. He stayed at my house for weeks on end on more than one occasion. So if you had problems they lasted longer than you admit. Please tell the whole truth. Also he has seen his son more than once and knew about him as we also have friends in common. YOUR husband lied to you as well as me, so you should be ashamed of him. I did nothing wrong. If I would have known he was married, believe me I would not have shared my time, nor my bed with him. I even drove to the city to pick him up so he could visit with his son. Also I am not on Social Services, but he did show papers to the court stating HE was! I work full time, and take care of my children. I have never been arrested, or had any issues raising my children. I take pride that I DO NOT receive welfare. I gave your husband a choice to send me money on a weekly basis, or I would take him to court for support. He knew the whole time what was going on. He is the dead beat parent here not me. He also has other children other than mine outside of your marriage, so don't place the blame on me. I can't help it that he refuses to support a child he made. It may not have been from love, as you say, but those words did come out of his mouth. Thank God I was smart enough not to believe him, and I seen his true colors and dismissed him. So please refrain from this harrasment. By the way..it was determined that he has to pay $300.00 a month child support. Although I have not seen any payments made. I work in a professional field and I can only hope that my co-workers, and other friends do not find this report. I will be seeking legal assistance from this point on. My son is better off without your husband in his life and that is why I made the choice not to allow him to see his son.

I am the mother and grandmother of Amanda and her wonderful son, I was shocked when I recieved a call from someone who read such lies about my daughter. First of all, Your husband and my daughter did not just have a one night stand as you stated in your report to this company. I know your husband and have sat with him as he was telling me he loves my daughter and wanted to divorce you and marry her. And this was after the child was born. My daughter is not trashy as you also stated. You also said they made a unwanted child and the mother was a deadbeat. Well let me inform you that my daughter gets up and goes to work every day and takes very good care of your husbands son. And my grandson is a great blessing from god. He is in no way unwanted. Your husband knew of him before his birth and has even changed his diapers. Maybe you dont know your husband as well as you think.. I believe he has a few more children in this town besides my wonderful grandson. Remember when you point a finger, there is always three pointing back a you. I feel bad for you and how he has lied to you about this whole thing, you are also a victim of his lies and actions. If anyone is a deadbeat that would be your husband. The child is over 3yrs. old and has never recieved any child support from his father. Amanda kicked him out of her life when she saw what he truly was. A lying DEADBEAT.

I did take the time to get to know "MY HUSBAND." The baggage as I stated came after me, and not before me. It happened during a one night stand during a time of our seperation. However, my kid is being supported by my husband so the concern is not for me or my daughter, just sad for the kid who will have no father because of a trampish mother. I have taken all steps to secure both me and my daughter's future. My assets are protected as everything I own is in my name only. I will not nor desire to support any kids other than mine.

Seems to me you're taking the appropriate measures to protect YOUR assets. I URGE you to consult with an attorney who specializes in family court (child support) issues in your state to make sure you secure ALL of your assets against any levies the mother of the child might seek. Good luck.

You wrote: "Some of the woman should actually take more time to get to know some of the people they choose to have children with and man should be more careful laying down with woman they don't know." Did you do this? If so, then you should know full well the baggage your husband came with when he knocked at your door. You snooze, you lose...you snooze with someone else, you end up paying support.