This site is a total ripoff!
First, all the 'free' stuff they promised in their 'introductory' page isn't. You have to pay additional money for 'tokens' that you use for chat and sms text messages. Each chat message or text uses one token. At around $20 per hundred tokens the costs can add up. Of course, the more tokens you buy the cheaper the per-token price. But that isn't really a plus in my book.
Basically for your paid subscription all you get is the ability to search profiles and send and receive mail.
Second, three quarters of the 'women' that contact you are either computer generated or working for the website. Their primary purpose is to get you to spend tokens. That's all.
I am extremely unhappy with this site. It is the only one I've ever seen where you have to pay extra just to chat. I cancelled my subscription after about a week.