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United States of America#2Consumer Comment
Sat, January 14, 2012
I am posting here to give an opposing view to the negative comments posted about Sari Friedman and her law firm. I am a male registered nurse who just came off a three year attack from my Sociopath wife. I am very glad I found and used the services of Sari and her firm. I found both Sari and her associates to be pleasant, knowledgeable, and interested in my welfare.
My personal experience was mainly with Sari and Andrea Friedman during my three year ordeal, but I also met with several other staff as well. I found Sari and Andrea to be extremely responsive to concerns and complaints, and her entire staff to be an "at your service" organization, well worth every dime paid to them. My case went to trial, not before Sari tried to settle five times in three years to no avail. My wife's stated goal was "to bankrupt me", and make sure "I never see my children again". My children are scarred for life from this ordeal, but it is not Sari Friedman's fault!
Blame for these kind of situations rest squarely on the shoulders of a biased system employing Judges who allow spouses to get away with outrageous behavior in order to drag cases along endlessly using your children as pawns in a game. It is the SYSTEM and the JUDGES who are to blame, not the attorneys! Most of these cases could be wrapped up within a day or two if the Judges just took the time to pay attention, work a normal schedule, and cut through the nonsense that passes for marital law.
I spent considerable time and money having my case reviewed TWICE at various intervals by three of the best NY divorce attorney's available (count it folks, that is 6 times I consulted outside of the Friedman law firm) in an effort to leave no stone unturned for the benefit of my children (just exactly as I would if either they or I had a serious, life threatening illness). I also consulted, countless times, three well known NY Psychologists who are all part of the court system. At every level, both her competitors and those who deal with her alike, agreed that not only was my case being handled appropriately and they would do no different but if it went worse case scenario (as it did) no one would be better to represent me at trial than Sari.
They were right! My case did go to trial, and although it did not exactly go as I might have desired, it ended better than I see most of my friends divorces have because of the determination of Sari Friedman. Both her and Andrea are well prepared in court, fight like tigers for your rights, give you pertinent suggestions, and directly tell you when you are wrong or cannot win a point saving you both time and money.
Face it people, especially if you are MALE, the SYSTEM is against you and perpetuates the myth that Mommy should have the children and Daddy should pay through the nose while being denied visitation. Blame the corrupt SYSTEM and the LAZY JUDGES who tolerate the bad behavior of our spouses for that, not Sari. My experience was that Sari Friedman, Andrea Friedman, and their entire staff was nothing but supportive, informed, willing to settle but ready to fight at every turn. I highly recommend them to anyone seeking an attorney in a contentious divorce and assure you that if you go to trial, you will be well represented.
In conclusion, just do yourselves all a favor. Realize that no attorney is either a magician or your therapist. They can only deal within what I already describe is a broken system. Get yourself a therapist to help you through the divorce at the onset so you are not using your attorney as one and being billed for legal time, and get a reality check and try to avoid this broken system altogether for the sake of your children. That is the best advice you are ever going to get!