Matthew O
San Rafael,#2Consumer Comment
Wed, September 26, 2012
I responded once to this post but I thought it might help to have a better photo since she could easily wait a few months then stick a new profile up with a new name. The dating pool is large in the San Francisco area because many men and women are single professionals who put marriage off to work on careers, so avoid this woman and save yourself the time and stress of being used by a married woman who shows no remorse for lying or cheating. She tries to present herself as a nice woman and she lies to convince you but unless you are only out for one thing, don't bother. That's the thing that gets me about women like this. They could be upfront and they could find sex partners who knew they were married and didn't mind, but she pretended to want a relationship because she has some loose screws I guess. Nice women are out there but go in with some tough skin and understanding of how women play you on these sites if you ever want to find a good one. I think sloggO's comment is dead on and holds true for about 90% of the women you meet on these sites or anywhere. But, they can't all be bad and they aren't.
slugg0
West Palm Beach,#3General Comment
Tue, September 25, 2012
Hey pal,
i share your pain.. my heart really goes out to you... On the other hand, there's a good possibility, that this broad has a husband that is either gay or needs some "Male Enhancement" medication... ?
Of course, there are several other possibilities... If she's a married woman, of 15 years, then it's a good possibility, that she and her husband are staying together "for the sake of the children", and as soon as they are grown and off to college, she will finally divorce the poor b*****d...
The same thing happened to me, years ago.. i met a broad, and we had a wild fling, and then, all of a sudden, she disappeared... right before Christmas....
i didn't know what to think, and then, around the middle of January, she pops back up on the radar, and real "matter of fact" like, she tells me, "oh...i got married"...
Yep... she KNEW she was gonna marry that other guy, and she was just getting in the last bit of raw sex, before she took the plunge.. probably with someone with MONEY, that was lacking in the "sex" department..
Women will do that.. marry a man for his money, and think nothing of keeping a lover or 2, or 3, or 4 or 5 on the side.... Then, five years into the "marriage", they will cut the poor husband off from sex altogether, until he finally seeks out, and finds the love and sex that SHE was SUPPOSED to be giving him...
Then, she will say, "Wow, my husband FINALLY "cheated on me", NOW i can divorce him, and take HALF of his stuff....
Welcome to the United Sluts of America.... where a wedding band doesn't mean a blessed thing, to ANY woman.... or "Wedding VOWS", either...
This broad that USED you (for sex) is not (legally) obligated, in any way, to be "faithful' to anyone, especially her husband.. And don't think that if you land a "Christian" woman, that you will have any better of an experience..
They will "claim" that Jesus is The "Lord" of their life, but they will follow their "primal", "carnal" instincts MORE than Him... sad but true... it happened to me.. The "Good, clean Christian woman" i "thought" i was getting, turned out to be the biggest s**t i have ever had the displeasure of knowing... They will break your heart, and pray for you, at the same time.. : (
ALL American women are whores... Keep that in mind, and you won't be taken off guard, or be surprised, when you get stung...
And if you find a woman with kids, don't EVER expect her to "side" with you, if it ever comes down to a situation where she has to decide whether to side with you, or one of her kids.... you don't stand a chance...
** Disclaimer... i am not a woman hater, or a homo sexual, or a closet homo, or someone suppressing homo-sexual urges..
i have simply "lived" and suffered way too long, to be convinced otherwise...
The BEST ADVICE i can give ANY guy, is to put all your money and property into an "Ir-Revocable Living Trust", where you maintain complete control of it all, BEFORE you get married, so she won't play you for a fool, and walk off with HALF or MORE of EVERYTHING you have... LAUGHING at you, all the way to the judge, who she has all prepped and ready, to do just that..!!!
Just ask Hulk Hogan.....
Matthew O
San Rafael,#4Consumer Comment
Tue, September 25, 2012
I fell for her lies to and we had more than 3 dates. I had no idea she was married and I had started a relationship with her! She always had a convenient excuse for avoiding her house and when Ii look back she did not talk a lot about her life. What she told me was not true including where she said she lived. I can tell you the address you posted is not where she lives with her husband and family. She has a child and maybe 2. I do know she has one child. As a father myself, I was very upset by that. I thought she was single and had no children. She was very aggressive in the bedroom, I agree but I was ok with that since I have been single a while! My problems began when she stood me up for a date one night and I could not reach her. She then began to unravel and well it ended in a very nasty way. I had been dating her I thought for several months and we were growing close and she was also close to my son. I was very shocked to find she had a life very different from what she put on her profile and told me on our dates. She is insane and all men should avoid her. When I confronted her she went ballistic and I feared for my life. I continued living in fear for months. She finally stopped terrorizing me and threatening me and my life has gotten back to normal. I have met a very nice woman on the dating site and we are happily involved in a relationship. Keep the faith and you will find the right woman.