GG
Asheville,#2Consumer Comment
Thu, June 24, 2004
James, I appreciate your ideas about a reverse mortgage. However, I am nine years away from retirement, so that is a whole different ball game. Since my posting, we have caught up our payments, but it is only a matter of time before we find ourselves back in the same position. Hopefully I will soon be employed and/or get disability. I have all those things in motion, including a self-employment effort, training for a new career, and doctor appointments to diagnose my disabling condition. I did post earlier I might try to sell the house, so as to pay Wells Fargo off and pay one other debt, and then we can use the remaining cash for a condo of less value. This is a last resort. The timing of it would be difficult, as I believe these Wells Fargo people are criminals, and they will do everything in their power to steal my house if I get behind again. As soon as I receive my next bill, which will reflect a zero balance, I am going to talk to my real estate attorney about how to handle such an unlikely eventuality. Other than that, I want to also post here that I saw on TV where a woman who HAD PAID FOR HER HOUSE, but a lien was put on it. She had doctor bills from her recently deceased husband, so an insurance company put the lien. She was standing in her kitchen with a smile on her face, in her 80s, singing hymns with an aide. You could see she had gone round the bend over it. I hope a lawyer sees all this stuff, and sets about putting through Federal Legislation that once you pay off your house, NO ONE CAN TAX IT, NO ONE CAN TAKE IT, NO ONE CAN PUT A LIEN ON IT, NO ONE CAN MISMANAGE A REVERSE MORGTGAGE AND STEAL IT, and so on. Once you pay off your house, it should be yours until you die. FOLKS OUT THERE, there is wisdom to having money in the bank, money that is for one thing and one thing only: Bona Fide Emergencies. You should make a list of what those emergencies are (loss of home, vet bills) and only touch it if you make the list. Also, there is something to be said for owning a piece of property in the middle of nowhere that no one knows about, in case you are run off by rip-off artists, or we're invaded by a foreign country, or whatever unbelievable misfortunate might come. Sincerely, GG
James
Cincinnati,#3Consumer Suggestion
Wed, June 23, 2004
GG, If you don't want to lose the house, and you owe only $17,000 on it, you might consider a reverse mortgage, if you are over the age of 62. This is an excellent way to access the equity you have worked so hard to accrue in your home. And why let that money just sit there? Credit would not be an issue. And best of all, you would never have to make another payment as long as you live.
GG
Asheville,#4Consumer Comment
Sun, June 13, 2004
Thank you for your help Bob, Your comments have been most helpful to me. We are going to continue to try to pay this loan, but if it goes beyond a certain amount of months in arrears, we are considering selling it, as you suggested, just so they won't get it. I think I will indeed consult with a real estate lawyer; we do have public attorneys in town that handle stuff for poor people. Selling my home would solve many problems. Up here in Asheville, we have the highest housing market in the state, so I could take the earnings and get an even better home back in the coastal areas or south a ways. We could get a condo with a community pool, no lawn to mow, and still have money left over to pay off one other significant debt, plus pay for the condo in full. Then I will never be troubled by this sort of thing again. Just wanted to thank you for taking the time to post your message to me. It meant so much to me. God Bless you too. GG
GG
Asheville,#5Consumer Comment
Sun, June 13, 2004
Thank you for your help Bob, Your comments have been most helpful to me. We are going to continue to try to pay this loan, but if it goes beyond a certain amount of months in arrears, we are considering selling it, as you suggested, just so they won't get it. I think I will indeed consult with a real estate lawyer; we do have public attorneys in town that handle stuff for poor people. Selling my home would solve many problems. Up here in Asheville, we have the highest housing market in the state, so I could take the earnings and get an even better home back in the coastal areas or south a ways. We could get a condo with a community pool, no lawn to mow, and still have money left over to pay off one other significant debt, plus pay for the condo in full. Then I will never be troubled by this sort of thing again. Just wanted to thank you for taking the time to post your message to me. It meant so much to me. God Bless you too. GG
Bob
Raleigh,#6Consumer Suggestion
Sat, June 12, 2004
As a fellow North Carolinian, I extend best wishes to you for God's healing of your health problems. After surviving bankruptcy and learning much about it in the process, it doesn't look like bankruptcy could permanently solve your problem. A secured debt like a mortgage must still be paid unless you want to walk away from the mortgage and give your home to the bank. Temporarily, bankruptcy can halt foreclosure, but only for a few months. If you have equity in your home, you would lose it in a Chapter 7 bankruptcy, and the financial hardship you described would probably rule out a Chapter 13 where you pay through the court each month. Perhaps you know a lawyer or have access to legal aid. An attorney might be able to negotiate an extension to your mortgage spreading the payments over more years and lowering them. If not, you just may need to sell your home and move. Don't wait until they foreclose to do this since your equity will probably be lost in a foreclosure sale. I do hope an attorney can help you. Beware of phony credit counselors - they will only make sure you lose the home. God Bless.